Mrejesho: Tayari nimeshatoa maamuzi


Ni kweli inaumiza na hasa kwa kumbukumbu/watu waliomtaka kipindi yupo na mimi na kuwakataa sababu yangu.
Natamani kuongea nae chemba kama unavyoshauri lakini sio kwa sasa kumbuka hata mimi pia naumia hajawahi kunikosea hofu yangu naweza kuyumbisha uamuzi wangu na kujikuta tena kwenye mahusiano.
Pole na nisamehe pia kwa kumuudhi mwanamke mwenzio.
Pia sio wote wenye uhusiano mrefu huwa wako kama situation yanguk
 
sasa ikitokea huyo chaguo lako akaleta jibu hasi (Akakukataa) utamrudia yule wa mwanzo?

Hapana siwezi kumrudia itabidi tu nizoee mwanzo mpya wa maisha bila wao.
 
Naona kama uliyemchagua nae atakuja na jibu la kukutosa.....maana ukiwa na mwingine utamuacha yeye na kumchukua wa tatu.......

Sina hakika na jibu lake lakini nilijitahidi kuwa mwema kwake/kwao nadhani hata wao wanajua niliwajari kwa hari na mali,akifanya hivyo zamira yake bado itamuhukumu but sitakuwa na jinsi zaidi ya kuukubali ukweli.
Ahsante
 
Aisee mwanaume ni mdhalilishaji mno wat u did for her itakurudia

Hooshuu kila kitu duniani kinatokea kwa sababu mkuu sikuwa na namna,ni wakati wangu kuishi kwenye maisha sahihi na mtu sahihi nimefanya maamuzi ya moyo wangu mimi pia sijisikii poa lakini ndio hivyo
 

Kumbuka ningeendelea kuficha ndio kama ningekuwa nazidi kulikuza tatizo,kweli hakujisikia vizuri lakini sikuwa na namna kwani hata yeye mwenyewe alijua ipo siku nitabaki na mmoja Kati yao.
Umri wangu sio mdogo na maamuzi ya kumuomba msamaa wawili yanaweza kuleta matokeo mabaya zaidi.
 
Yaani hapo maamuzi yalikuwa ni nani awe njia kuu ya kudumu na nani awe mchepuko wa kudumu.

Hahahahaaaa hiyo ni ngumu kutokea mkuu kumbuka hawa wameshakuwa marafiki na chanzo ni mimi nadhani hata sasa wanaweza kuwa maadui na chanzo nikiwa mimi mwenyewe.
Siwezi siwezi kabsaa kuwa na mchepuko.
 
Mkuu kwa vile hao walifahamiana muda mrefu na wanaongea kama marafiki,
hivyo tegemea jibu la kukataliwa kwani hatoweza kujisikia vizuri kwa kumsaliti mwenzake kwa mipango yao.

Inawezekana mkuu maana simpati kwenye simu kutwa nzima(japo ni tabia yake tunapokwazana/kutokuelewana) huwa hapendi kusumbuliwa mpaka aamue mwenyewe.
Hata akinikataa nimeshajiandaa kuanza mwanzo mpya.
 
Mmh ila hao wadada na wenyewe wana mioyo migumu. Yani mjuane kuwa mnadate mtu mmoja afu still mnashikamana hadi siku bwana atakapoamchagua mmoja kati yenu. Yani niendelee kugugumia tu hadi mtu atakapoamua mmh!!
 
Mkuu wakati unawatongoza kila mmoja kwa wakati wake uliwaitia kikao kama ulivyofanya??ninaandika hii sms huku machoz yanatoka yenyewe.nimejaribu kukuvaa kiatu cha huyo dada wa kwanza.yani ni bora ungemfanyia visa akajiengua mwenyewe kuliko hvyo ulivyofanya.mkuu I SWEAR UTAJUTA!!na utamtamani yule wa kwanza lkni utakuwa umeshachelewa
 
Huyo uliemchagua atakuja kukutenda urudi kwa uliemuacha.
 
Ila nakuomba uwe karibu pia kwa msaada wowote ule (kama alikuwa anakutegemea) kwa yule mpenzi wako wa kwanza.
 

Dear muombe Mungu sana to deliver you from any tears will come out of her not to harm you . Repent dear . I do understanding that you didn't feel the same as she felt and that's why you cheated on her . My question is why you took so long to tell her about the incident? And why you called her in front of everyone else to denied her? While since you knew sio chaguo lako ungeongea nae private mkamalizana huko .

But not the way you did . Do you know how she feels now? She will have a spirit of denial unless if she will fast and pray so God can intervene for her. Natamani nimfahamu huyu Dada kwa kweli so I could help her honestly.

She really needs someone who can help her to heal before hajaingia kwa another relationship.. otherwise it will cost her even in the next relationship because all she will think all men are the same while its not. She will lose the meaning, taste and feeling in what a really love all about . Duuh please fast and pray for her please I beg you . So that spirit of denial can never follow her and God shall locate her husband to be . Thanks.
 

😕😕😕Thinking deep down if even you, you use to date before allowed time... Marriage
 
Wadada bwana. 3yrs we unadate tu na mtu unategemea nini..he'll dump you of course. Hata ingekuwa mini, mahusiano yakizidi 2yrs bila bila nakuacha. Japo umemdhalilisha sana Dada wa watu. Usingefanya hivyo.
 
Sitaki kuamini kama hiki ni kisa cha kweli. Yaani wazee washiriki upumbavu huu. Kuamua mtu wa kuoa siyo event ya siku moja...
 
Erro mi nahisi huyo wa Kwanza anaweza kuwa mke mwema embu kama hutajali nipe namba nirushe nyavu.
 

Umesema vema.
Kwanini asimwambie yule asiyemtaka akae pembeni. Na kutangaza ndoa kwa anayemtaka kiustaarabu? Kuita wazee wakuchagulie mahawara ni utamaduni wa wapi? Hapa naona kama Shigongo at his best. Peleka ikachapishwe gazeti la amani
 
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