Mke wangu na salon za ghali!

[kipipili]

pole mkuu, ongea naye tena na tena ili ajue majukumu ya mama wa nyumba, sio suala la ulinioa nikiwa hivi au vile, tunatakiwa tubadilike na wakati na mazingira.

 

[Anfaal]

Ah hilo jambo rahisi saaana. Wala usikate tamaa na usimuhisi mwenzi wako vibaya kama huna ushahidi. Unaweza kumsaidia kupunguza huo muda wa huko kwa aidha kumtafutia kashughuli kengine katakako mkip busy au wewe mwenyewe jifunze hayo anayofanyiwa huko uwe unamfanyia nyumbani.

 

[chamajani]

sasa shida ya huyu husband ni kuwa mkewe anaenda saloon expensive au ni kuwa anakawia kurudi saloon au yote mawili yanamchanganya??

Kama ni saloon expensive - basi ndio lifestyle anayotaka huyu wife - naamini hata nguo zake ni expensive; hata nyumba wanayoishi ni expensive; hata magari waliyonayo ni expensive na wakati huyu husband anamchumbia - alikuwa ana outing expensive - na inawezekana familia hiyo ina mshiko wa kutosha - watoto wanasoma expensive school etc. - yaani ni familia ya kujirusha

kuchelewa nyumbani - labda hili ndilo tatizo lako - kama umeshaona hata akilipa - ina maana ulim-escort .......au?? Afadhali ungesikitika kuwa huyu mama hana cha sundays (kwenda kusali) au Fridays .........kama ni moslem ..........yaani ni "kuuchakachua mwili wake" kwa kwenda mbele ............. bila shaka una-muadmire na anapenda kukufurahisha wewe mumewe ...........au???

Ndio shida ya waswahili - kwani hizo fedha si angewasaidia hata watoto yatima na wajane wanaoteseka kuliko kufuja hivyo??? Ongea na mke wako na mwambie Mungu amembariki ili awe baraka kwa wengine pia - hayo maneno ni ya Mungu na yatamgusa moyoni na atabadilika.

Mh, We kiboko! Thenks

 

[Nsiande]

Pole sana, kama kuna jambo linalonibore na kunipotezea muda ni saloon, kwakuwa ukianza hayo ma pedi, manicure etc ni muda, ila kila wiki nayo ni issue, ushauri wangu kwavile mna watoto mwambie aende nao kwenye saloons which care for kids and mama na sio expensive kama Sparkels ya mikocheni, hii itamforce kurudi mapema home,kupunguza matumizi na kuspend time na watoto, maana kama mke ni very high maintenance lady hata home hajishughulishi

 

[MartinDavid]

Kaka take your time advice her and let her know what ur stand is on that issue.

Going to a saloon is not a problem but for how long man.. 10 hrs just for saloon.. Man she must have some thing else which keeps him busy and of-course happy!

Do extensive research and u will find some surprises!

Don't forget to pray we need prayers when we are dealing with these issues!

 

[MADAM T]

I thank all of u kwa kunipa majibu mazuri na yenye hekima zidi ya mamito wangu.
Siyo siri nakereka na vitu hivyo 2. kupoteza mda salon na kuspend mo money ever
where kwa ajiri ya mwili wake. Pia ni kweli nilimkuta ana mazoea ya kwenda salon,
lakini si salon hizi za expensive? That time alikuwa anakwenda salon za uswazi na
alirudi mapema sana home. Na kuhusu vipato vyetu -yeye ni msomi kidogo na amepata
kazi mzuri kidogo kimshahara,na mimi ni wa A'level ya kuungaunga na naendesha bias
hara zangu ma self [mjasilia mali]. Ahsanteni sana nitajaribu kukaanae tena ili nimpe
somo upya kwa manufaa ya our future.

Samahani lakini kwa nitakayoyasema, hapo kwenye red inawezekana ikawa ndio chanzo cha matatizo
1.Mkeo anajiona yuko juu kwa sababu ya kukuzidi shule, ukute wakati ule mnachumbiana alikuwa hajawahi kutamkiwa neno kuolewa na mwanamume waliesawa kielimu so ulionekana mkombozi sasa ameanza kazi amekuatana na level yake wamemchombeza sasa anakuchukulia poa.
2.Umesema anafanya kazi yenye kipato kizuri, waweza kutuambia ni kiasi gani kwa mwezi ili tukufanyie analysis kujua uwiano wa hayo matumizi? Mimi kwa upande wangu mwenzio nahisi kama kuna njemba ana mfinance (samahani lakini ni hisia tu), hivi hata kama unakazi nzuri kiasi gani unaweza kweli kuchezea hela uliyoitolea jasho mwezi mzima kwa dizaini hiyo, au ndio mmeshafanya investments za kutosha sasa hiyo ni ziada?
ni kichwa cha nyumba, sijui dini yako, sasa mbona unaonekana unataka kuwa mkia kabisa badala hata ya kuwa mwili. Mweleze kwamba hupendi then uje utuambie amesemaje.

 

[KakaKiiza]

Hiyo pesa analipiwa fanya kazi yaziada utakuta zaidi ya saloon fanyia kazi ushauri labda kama wewe nibushoke hapo utatimliwa kazi unayo nazaidi ukianza kumingilia kwenye program zake fahamu ndoa lazima isambaratike!!

 

[mbongopopo]

atakusikilizaje huku unasema unamgombeza????

ndio maana anakujibu kunya. mpe mapenzi labda kuna ambacho haufanyi kumlizisha akae nyumbani na au mume wote saturday sababu haumtimizii maitaji yake ya kiaina. jiangalie wewe vipi then ongea nae useme na wewe utabadilika nini na muulize haswa y anapenda kufanya hivi

 

[hashycool]

uwe una enda nae salon! kama kumsindikiza

 

[KakaKiiza]

uwe una enda nae salon! kama kumsindikiza

Ukisema unaenda naye ujue patachimbika wewe unadhani laki mbili atazipata wapi ukijifanya betri kwenye gari???

 

[hashycool]

Ukisema unaenda naye ujue patachimbika wewe unadhani laki mbili atazipata wapi ukijifanya betri kwenye gari???

should i read between the lines?........laki mbili atazipata......mume....infidel.....aaaah aaaah sijakuelewa labda

 

[MadameX]

Kama anaspend mwenyewe sio issue, but pedicure and body scrub 2x week that's ridiculous, kweni aosha masufuria ya hoteli kila siku au haogi. Those services, normally is done once in a month for reasonable woman. Mi nafikiri huo muda anaochukua ni mrefu sana, inabidi uchunguze safari zake nyingine thats the really problem!

Wewe shikilia kuwa muda anaospend na familia yake ni mdogo sana especially on weekend and you're disapproving it. She needs to change

 

[St. Paka Mweusi]

I thank all of u kwa kunipa majibu mazuri na yenye hekima zidi ya mamito wangu.
Siyo siri nakereka na vitu hivyo 2. kupoteza mda salon na kuspend mo money ever
where kwa ajiri ya mwili wake. Pia ni kweli nilimkuta ana mazoea ya kwenda salon,
lakini si salon hizi za expensive? That time alikuwa anakwenda salon za uswazi na
alirudi mapema sana home. Na kuhusu vipato vyetu -yeye ni msomi kidogo na amepata
kazi mzuri kidogo kimshahara,na mimi ni wa A'level ya kuungaunga na naendesha bias
hara zangu ma self [mjasilia mali]. Ahsanteni sana nitajaribu kukaanae tena ili nimpe
somo upya kwa manufaa ya our future.

Mkuu mvumilie tu kwani ulishapenda,mi kila siku napiga kelele humu kuwa hawa watu wakikuzidi kielimu basi we ukubaliane tu na purukushani zao.

 

[Baba_Enock]

Saluni za bei ghali = Nyumba za Kulala Wageni (Bubu)......

 

[GodfreyTajiri]

Duh pole sana,pesa yote hiyo siwezi kutumia saloon tu hata nikipewa bure(zo hakuna cha bure)jaribu kuongea nae na kumueleza ugumu wa maisha kwa sasa,hata kama mna kisima cha kuchimba pesa lkn kisima hicho kinahitaji maintenance kwa jili ya pesa mo,mueleze malengo n mipango yenu mliopanga,yepi yametimia yepi hayajatimia na kwann,pangeni income and expenditure yenu,lakini ukiona hiyo pia haifanyi kazi jaribu kutafuta saloon kama hizo ananoenda yeye with te same facilities but cheaper in price mpe suprize trip huko atengenezwe na kupendezeswa as long as umeshajua siku zake za kwenda saloon,hope that will work out,pole sana.

yaani pearl kwa busara uliyoimwaga hapo kwenye red laiti ungekuwa hujaolewa ningeku-pm
sasa hivi ili tupate kufahamiana zaidi.

 

[Chauro]

dah huyu kiboko fanya kazi mpaka damu zitoke puani hapo kuna kazi ya ziada

 

[Leornado]

Jaribu kujidai unampenda saana akiwa natural kuliko akiwa na hiyo minywele feki ..

Pia inawezekana kakamatika kwa papaa wa kikongo anamlea..manake wanaume wa congo kwa kupenda masugar mami ya kuwalea.

Hebu chunguza kama kuna papaa hapo saluni

 

[ChiefmTz]

Saluni za bei ghali = Nyumba za Kulala Wageni (Bubu)......

Nakuunga mkono. Uchafu unaofanyika humo, uctamani kuuona.