Miaka 4 ya mahusiano akaambulia patupu

CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

Habari zenyu bana....

"Gladdy najua unanipenda and of course na mimi nakupenda pia sana tu kama nitakosea naomba unisamehe... you are the woman na zaidi ya hayo una malengo yako hata kama nitakukosa haina shida kama utakuwa ktk mikono salama. mi nina mambo mengi nashindwa kutoa msimamo kwa sasa"

Ni maneno aliyoambiwa rafiki yangu usiku wa kuamkia leo. Anasema alihisi dunia imegeuka Up-side down. Moyo ulisimama kwa ghafla make hakuamini alichoambia na mwanaume ambaye amedumu naye miaka 4 akiamni ndiye mume wake mtarajiwa.

Aisee inauma sana..
anadai hakuna mkwaruzano wala ugomvi. Bali alitaka tu kujua mwanaume ana msimamo gani make walikuwa wanakwenda tu bila kujua hatma ya mahusiano yao.

Tumfariji na kujifunza pia kupitia relationship hii...

Nokia83 · Jul 5, 2014

Lazima kuna jambo halijakaa sawa sehemu...au shoga yko anaulizia sana mambo ya commitmnt

CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

Nokia83 said:
Lazima kuna jambo halijakaa sawa sehemu...au shoga yko anaulizia sana mambo ya commitmnt

Hata kama ingekuwa mimi ningeuliza, 4 yrs hapana aisee! Yaan hapo mtoto anakuwa kashaanza kindergarten....

Nokia83 · Jul 5, 2014

charminglady said:
Hata kama ingekuwa mimi ningeuliza, 4 yrs hapana aisee! Yaan hapo mtoto anakuwa kashaanza kindergarten....

Vijana cku hz wanaogopa saba commitmnt....sometimes unaacha mambo yaende mungu ndio anajua

Sasa shoga yako kapewa uhuru wa kuendelea na life na mtu mwingine ni bora aendelee kusubiri hapo kuliko kuanza mahusiano mengine hamna guarantee kuwa huko ndio atapata atakacho

miss strong · Jul 5, 2014

Yupo aliyemchagua kuwa nae.... !!yaani wanaume ni balaaa

miss strong · Jul 5, 2014

Nokia83 said:
Vijana cku hz wanaogopa saba commitmnt....sometimes unaacha mambo yaende mungu ndio anajua

Sasa shoga yako kapewa uhuru wa kuendelea na life na mtu mwingine ni bora aendelee kusubiri hapo kuliko kuanza mahusiano mengine hamna guarantee kuwa huko ndio atapata atakacho

Ana mambo mengi amesema

CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

miss strong said:
Yupo aliyemchagua kuwa nae.... !!yaani wanaume ni balaaa

Yaan.. Moyo wa mtu ni kiza kinene. Et "Hata mie nakupenda tena sana" si afadhali angempa moyo walau nivumilia mpaka hapo mambo yangu yatakapo kuwa sawa??

Ina maana tayari hakuwa na mpango naye kabisa!

Nokia83 · Jul 5, 2014

miss strong said:
Ana mambo mengi amesema

Hapo anamaanisha hawezi kuacha yale mambo ambayo inabidi uachane nayo once ur commited...msione watu tumeoa kwny ujana we av sacrified alot whch watu wengine wanashindwa

CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

Nokia83 said:
Vijana cku hz wanaogopa saba commitmnt....sometimes unaacha mambo yaende mungu ndio anajua

Sasa shoga yako kapewa uhuru wa kuendelea na life na mtu mwingine ni bora aendelee kusubiri hapo kuliko kuanza mahusiano mengine hamna guarantee kuwa huko ndio atapata atakacho

Laiti angemwambia kuwa nivumilie mpaka hapo baadae nitakapokuwa nimejipanga hapo sawa. Lakini kuambiwa kuwa "Saivi nina mambo mengi nashindwa kuamua" ina maana hata hayumo kwenye plan zake...

Heaven Sent · Jul 5, 2014

Daaah unaweza ukahisi Mungu yupo likizo kwa upande wako. Na-imagine wanaume ambao huyo mdada aliwakataa probably akijua ashapata mume..... the sacrifices she made for the sake of love etc. Mwambie amshukuru tu Mungu kwa yote, pengine huyo mkaka hakuwa riziki yake. Najua ni ngumu sana kwake kumove on, but hiyo ndo only option aliyonayo kwa sasa. Mungu atampigania na atamfuta machozi yake

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CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

Nokia83 said:
Hapo anamaanisha hawezi kuacha yale mambo ambayo inabidi uachane nayo once ur commited...msione watu tumeoa kwny ujana we av sacrified alot whch watu wengine wanashindwa

Uko sahihi mkuu... Hata mie nahisi kuna vitu ambavyo anashindwa kuacha mara tu atakapotangaza nia...

Ingelikuwa ni mtu mwenye nia walau angemwambia "Nivumilie kwa muda"...

Nokia83 · Jul 5, 2014

charminglady said:
Laiti angemwambia kuwa nivumilie mpaka hapo baadae nitakapokuwa nimejipanga hapo sawa. Lakini kuambiwa kuwa "Saivi nina mambo mengi nashindwa kuamua" ina maana hata hayumo kwenye plan zake...

R u married?...huyo jamaa hayupo ready for commitment for nw.

miss strong · Jul 5, 2014

Nokia83 said:
Hapo anamaanisha hawezi kuacha yale mambo ambayo inabidi uachane nayo once ur commited...msione watu tumeoa kwny ujana we av sacrified alot whch watu wengine wanashindwa

Sasa kwa kauli hiyo hajaPlan kuwa nae....!!Yupo ambaye ataacha mambo mengi aliyokuwa nayo na kuoa.
Amejaribu kumzunguka wala haitaji akil kubwa kung'amua hilo.
Jamaa anahitaji space

CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

Heaven Sent said:
Daaah unaweza ukahisi Mungu yupo likizo kwa upande wako. Na-imagine wanaume ambao huyo mdada aliwakataa probably akijua ashapata mume..... the sacrifices she made for the sake of love etc. Mwambie amshukuru tu Mungu kwa yote, pengine huyo mkaka hakuwa riziki yake. Najua ni ngumu sana kwake kumove on, but hiyo ndo only option aliyonayo kwa sasa. Mungu atampigania na atamfuta machozi yake

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Ni kweli mamie... Ndani ya hiyo 4yrs kawakatalia wanaume kadhaa tena waliodeserve kumuoa pasi na shaka, lakini aliwakatalia kwa ajili yake.

Anatamani siku zirudi nyuma awakubalie, lakini holla! Anatamani awatafute ili ajue kama wameshaoa lakini ni kitu ambacho hakiwezekani.

Mie nimemshauri "Kila jambo lina kusudi lake" hawezi jua ni nini kaepushiwa kwa huyo mwanaume.

miss strong · Jul 5, 2014

charminglady said:
Yaan.. Moyo wa mtu ni kiza kinene. Et "Hata mie nakupenda tena sana" si afadhali angempa moyo walau nivumilia mpaka hapo mambo yangu yatakapo kuwa sawa??

Ina maana tayari hakuwa na mpango naye kabisa!

Achape lapa hana chake hapo....kwa kifupi tu hamuhitaji.

Nokia83 · Jul 5, 2014

miss strong said:
Sasa kwa kauli hiyo hajaPlan kuwa nae....!!Yupo ambaye ataacha mambo mengi aliyokuwa nayo na kuoa.
Amejaribu kumzunguka wala haitaji akil kubwa kung'amua hilo.
Jamaa anahitaji space

Ndio maana its best ukamwacha mtu aamue kuwa anataka commitmnt rather than kuwa una push while unajua he's nt ready especially when ur nt ready to move on

CharmingLady · Jul 5, 2014

Nokia83 said:
R u married?...huyo jamaa hayupo ready for commitment for nw.

Hahahaaa.... Not yet mkuu, ila kwa mie sitoweza kukaa muda wote huo aisee... Watu wengine ni wavumilivu sana!!

Mashy · Jul 5, 2014

Huyo shoga yako alikuwa wapi mda wote huo hakuwahi kuuliza kama mahusiano yao yalikuwa part time au la. Nahisi kamuvuruga mshikaji akaona ajiweke pembeni

Nokia83 · Jul 5, 2014

charminglady said:
Hahahaaa.... Not yet mkuu, ila kwa mie sitoweza kukaa muda wote huo aisee... Watu wengine ni wavumilivu sana!!

So u will nvr stay wit a guy for 4yrs without a commitment?

Wakati mwingine hayo mambo yanaeda na bahati unapata mtu ambaye yupo ready bt for nw vijana wagumu kuoa anataka ale maisha kwanza

Ablessed · Jul 5, 2014

Duh maskini gladi wa watu mpe pole sana .unajua alikosea sana kukaa na mtu for 4yrs bila kujua msimamo wake manake angeliuliza hili ndani ya 6 months lingekua na maana zaidi. Sasa yeye kaona mwaka wa kwanza umepita kakauka tu , wa pili nao kanyamaza haulizi hadi huu wa 4 ndo anauliza , aisee mmmmhh hilo ni bonge la mistake

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