Imagine you are preparing to get married the next day and suddenly your wife to be text you a msg that she is not interested to tie knots with you any more. She advices you to forget her altogether. Your parents from upcountry are crowded at your place waiting for the great day, the reception hall, MC, camera man, transportation arrangement has alread been fully paid for.... The above does not include the engagement party together with the engagement ring (which I came to learn later that she sold it the next week), she even was sent off. Let alone the dowry I paid in accordance with african tradition. Hayo ndo yalonikuta, kutapeliwa na hao wakwe na mtoto wao. Nifanye nini jamani kwani nimekwazwa.