It takes a long time to really get to know a person. watu wengi tunakuwa mislead by what we see in the beginning inakuja kutucost baadae after the what u expect na wot u get is different.
When a relationship is new, people tend to be on their best behavior. hivo hatutakiwi ku focus only on the positive side,we should try kujua weakness,limitation na bad habits!!!!!!!!!!!!
A person may be quite different after the relationship is established au baada ya ndoa
You need to see the person clearly, the good and the bad ili ikitokea uwe tayar aware!!!!!!