Nadhani mahakama au ustawi wa jamii lazima wahusishwe, na consent ya mzazi iwepo isipokuwa kama amemmistreat mtoto. Baada ya hayo anakuwa mtoto wako 100% na ktk mirathi anahusishwa. Hakina kuclaim tena from his/her former dad. Ila best process ni ngumu, ndefu na yenye usumbufu mwingi but if you are determined don't despair, just GO AHEAD!