Jamani huu ujeuri utanichepusha sasa

[Birdman]

hawa wanawake hawa, basi tu, na mie yananikuta na tena na mkono unasukumwa huko, kisa hataki usumbufu

Du!!! Saa mshkaji inabidi tuanze kukupa mawaidha naona ushanipokea

 

[chimpumu]

Hii sio fresh kabisa.

Nikitaka hanipi, nikilazimisha nabaka, nikiomba asubuhi sithamini usingizi wake, yaani kupata ni mpaka ninyemelee nijipendekezeshe eti sasa joto siku hizi ndio kabisaaaa.

Lakini nimwangalia hausigeli anaana kuiva iva - kashakunywa lita kadhaa za mfuta mabichi ya kupika. Kusema ukweli nishaanza kumtamni, na ili nisijidhalilishe, sasa nina tengeneza contact list mpya kwenye simu - you know what it is for.

Wanawake wote wenye sifa kama za huyu mnatutia ibilisi, mnatukwaza elimikeni, fumbueni mabichwa yenu, jitambueni na mtambue mjukumu yenu, yatekelezeni.

Mburulaaaz akiona mme kachepuka itaanaza kuwa visa ndani ya nyumba, so what should a brother do.

The same to me, mimi wangu yeye anataka muda wote niwe nyumbani ila cha ajabu nikiwa nyumbani yeye anatoa nguo kwenda kufua, nikimwambie tutafute hg anasema nataka kimtafutia mke mwenza.

Siku nikichelewa kurudi kazini namkuta kanuna? Usiku analala na nguo zote nikimgusa ananisukuma mkono.

Ila mimi huwa nalazimisha hivyo hivyo angalau nipigi hata kamoja nipunguze maumivu, kama yeye ataona ninambaka hatudi kwao, mi siwezi kilala na maumivu wakati yeye yupo karibu yangu.

 

[mumemwema]

Haki ya nani watu wamenifungulia darasa seriously 🙂 🙂 🙂.......9 years ukiona leo ninalalamika basi jua it's genuine. Jamani for all that time in marriage haiwezekani nikawa sijui mapenzi. Huyo kanichefua, ngoja nijianzishie tu visa visa you never know naweza bahatisha ngoma ya Ki-Tanga. Ala!! Who wants a stressful life these days.

Dear sijui ndoa yenu mlifungia wapi either Church or Mosque just know that hilo tatizo ulilo nalo mbona ni Dogo sana kurekebisha , I don't see the reason wewe kwenda nnje na kuharibu ulichokijenga for 9 years. Just know that in the Bible ukisha cheat kwenye ndoa yako hiyo si ndoa tena . Hebu dear jaribu kulala chini na mkeo kwa upole uone wapi mlipokoseana, na mtengezane ,maisha yaendelee. Hakuna aliye kamili hapa ,hata ukienda kwa huyo Mtanga still mambo ni Yale Yale cha zaidi utakwenda kusomba ya kusomba baadae uje kujuta . Please sit down with your wife and talk through her , I'm sure and believe that the solution will come . In the marriage someone has to humble ,not just in marriage in any relationship. Lakini ukijifanya uko juu na yeye yuko juu hapo Hakuna kitakachoendelea isipokuwa matatizo tuu. Hebu humble yourself ,uende kuongea nae ujue tatizo liko wapi. For me as I know wanawake tunaweka vitu sana moyoni lakini nyinyi wanaume huwa hamko hivyo . Huenda kuna misunderstood there , ilifanyika on the past katika mazungumzo . Try to find it where was it and you both have to fix it . Please both of you ,must stop to play victim side , and be responsible . Hapa wengine Jukwaani don't even know what means of marriage because they have never have one ,before ,I'm saying this because yes I do have experience a little bit . Ndoa ni uvumilivu, ambacho hakivumiliki ni Uzinzi na Abuse vinginevyo mbona vinavumilika. Instead ya wewe kushirikiana na watu Wanao kushauri uwe na mchepuko, hebu jaribu kufikiri wapi wewe na yeye mkeo mlikoseana na mkae chini msawazishane na mtulie. Muelezane, na kukumbushana kuwa ndoa ni wawili and its all about give and take not all give, give ,No. Na ndoa sio kutesana Bali kufurahishana. Jamani life is too short to be wasted. Kuweni wawazi please kwenye ndoa yenu. Mimi , I'm sure huyo mkeo ana dukuduku moyoni sasa badala ya kukueleza yeye analipizia kisasi hapo, na wewe kwa sababu uko kwenye hali mbaya instead ya kutafuta hicho kitu cha dukuduku alilo nalo ,unataka kwanza haki yako. Yes ni haki yako kupewa lakini kumbuka na yeye pia ana haki pia ya kuenjoy ,so please Mko kwenye maisha ya stage ya mwisho ya mwanadamu yeyote, ambazo ni kuzaliwa,kuishi,kuolewa/ kuoa na kufa . So please just try your best, please. Na kumbuka Ndoa ni huduma na wito kama huduma nyingine . Pole nilipokukwaza . Thanks.

 

[mumemwema]

The same to me, mimi wangu yeye anataka muda wote niwe nyumbani ila cha ajabu nikiwa nyumbani yeye anatoa nguo kwenda kufua, nikimwambie tutafute hg anasema nataka kimtafutia mke mwenza.

Siku nikichelewa kurudi kazini namkuta kanuna? Usiku analala na nguo zote nikimgusa ananisukuma mkono.

Ila mimi huwa nalazimisha hivyo hivyo angalau nipigi hata kamoja nipunguze maumivu, kama yeye ataona ninambaka hatudi kwao, mi siwezi kilala na maumivu wakati yeye yupo karibu yangu.

Dear heri yako uliyefanya hivyo kwa kuwa ni better than kwenda outside . Thanks!

 

[Mtoto halali na hela]

Pengine umezidisha dozi

 

[hit]

Inaelekea wewe humfurahishi, hivyo hapati raha yoyote kutoka kwako hakuna asiyependa raha.

 

[hit]

Na ukichepuka utakuwa umejiloga mwenyewe ndio utaharibu kabisa REKEBISHA TABIA NDUNGU

 

[Obe]

Dear heri yako uliyefanya hivyo kwa kuwa ni better than kwenda outside . Thanks!

....kwa maneno mengine, unakubaliana na ubakaji ndani ya ndoa. Senkyu

 

[Mjuni Lwambo]

Nalog in Jf na insta faster naanza kuchart

Na mimi nampigia dreva tax fasta anipeleke uwanja wa fisi.

 

[AZUSA STREET]

Penzi haliombwi...jifunze foreplay....jifunze jinsi ya kumuweka kwenye mood ya kufanya. Hivi unaombaje kufanya mapenzi.. ndo wale rara nikurenge....duuh hebu kuwa mjanja kidogo... Birdman

mume hana amri juu ya mwili wake, vivyohivyo na mke hana amri juu ya mwili wake. maadamu umeolewa, usijifikirie wewe tu. wewe mwanamke usijifikirie wewe tu kuwa unahitaji kubembelezwa sijui foreplay nini na nini, hayo ni mambo yenu nyie watoto wa masaki na oysterbay mtaotaka mambo ya kitandani yaende kisomi kisomi. sisi sote ni watu wazima, kuna wanawake wanaojua majukumu yao, akikaa na kukuangalia anajua wewe mume wake unahitaji tunda, atajisogeza ili atoe huduma, sio kusubiria tu hadi mwanaume aanzishe foreplay. na hizi kazi zetu unaondoka asubuhi saa kumi na moja kurudi saa moja umechoka hizo foreplay utafanya kila siku? au hadi weekend?...na usikute mke mwenyewe ni golikipa.

kuna wanawake ambao hawahitaji hata izo foreplay na ndoa zinaenda tu. foreplay ni pale akili zimetulia, mmetulia mnamega tunda polepole ndio muanze hizo sylubus zenu za sijui foreplay, sijui chumvini, sijui...., n.k mara siku ya gulio kateleroo na kumaliza...kila watu na walivyozoea, ila mwanamke usibweteke kusubiria upigwe foreplay wewe tu kila siku ivyo mambo yanakuwa one sided, kazi ya mwanaume tu kila siku kukuomba ...mwanaume huyohuyo akitoka nje kwa hawara hawara hana foreplay ni kazi nzuri na mwanaume anarudi mwepesii hana stress tena, akija kwako unamdangulia si ndio atakuletea watoto na ngoma?

 

[Mjuni Lwambo]

Na ukichepuka utakuwa umejiloga mwenyewe ndio utaharibu kabisa REKEBISHA TABIA NDUNGU

Mbona mnamshambulia mleta mada, arekebishe tabia gani?

 

[mumemwema]

....kwa maneno mengine, unakubaliana na ubakaji ndani ya ndoa. Senkyu

Dear nini maana ya ubakaji? Na kama alibakwa kwa nini asipige simu police? Honestly katika situation yake nimeielewa. Sometimes sisi wanawake wengine huwa wanatikisa kibiriti kujuwa waume zao huko walikochelewa Je walichelewa kwa kwenda kupoozea au? Gear gani atakayotumia ni hiyo instead ya kuongea , yeye anatumia gear hiyo ya kitoto. I'm sorry but this is the truth. For him to do that kumemfanya huyo mkewe aamini Kweli amechelewa kazini,asingefanya hivyo kama ni yule mwanamke mwenye mdomo siku ya pili ungesikia mbona hukunigusa na kunilazimisha last night? Ukiona hivyo ulienda kwa hawara wako . Jamani nimeyaona Haya before that's why, na mashtaka niliyapata kwa watu Wa karibu . Kama yeye alikuwa hataki hivyo kwa nini asingemwambia Mume wangu sipendi wewe uwe unachelewa kurudi home, instead ya kununa. Jamani tukishakuwa mke na mume Hakuna tena kufichana na ukweli kwenda mbele kwa sababu ndio wako huyo for the rest of your life. Hakuridhishi muambie, amekutenda Mwambie, sijui kitu gani Mwambie na wote Muwe tayari kushirikiana kutengeneza sio mmoja tuu . Ndoa ni wawili na sio mmoja. Thanks!

 

[Mjuni Lwambo]

Penzi haliombwi...jifunze foreplay....jifunze jinsi ya kumuweka kwenye mood ya kufanya. Hivi unaombaje kufanya mapenzi.. ndo wale rara nikurenge....duuh hebu kuwa mjanja kidogo... Birdman

Hivi nyie mbona mnatetea upuuzi wa mwanamke mwenzenu?
Hata kama mume hajafanya foreplay, ndio majibu ya kumjibu mmeo eti "usiniharibie usingizi wangu!!"

Umeniudhi sana kwa kutetea ujinga, ungekuwa karibu ningekunasa kibao.

 

[King’asti]

Siku ukimaliza kuchepuka, ukastukia na mkeo ni mchepukaji mahiri; inabidi mhalalishe michepuko yenu.

 

[Ngondombole]

Jaribu kukaa nae chini muongee la sivyo ndoa yako utaimaliza kwa shida na utateseka mkuu....!!

 

[Birdman]

mume hana amri juu ya mwili wake, vivyohivyo na mke hana amri juu ya mwili wake. maadamu umeolewa, usijifikirie wewe tu. wewe mwanamke usijifikirie wewe tu kuwa unahitaji kubembelezwa sijui foreplay nini na nini, hayo ni mambo yenu nyie watoto wa masaki na oysterbay mtaotaka mambo ya kitandani yaende kisomi kisomi. sisi sote ni watu wazima, kuna wanawake wanaojua majukumu yao, akikaa na kukuangalia anajua wewe mume wake unahitaji tunda, atajisogeza ili atoe huduma, sio kusubiria tu hadi mwanaume aanzishe foreplay. na hizi kazi zetu unaondoka asubuhi saa kumi na moja kurudi saa moja umechoka hizo foreplay utafanya kila siku? au hadi weekend?...na usikute mke mwenyewe ni golikipa.

kuna wanawake ambao hawahitaji hata izo foreplay na ndoa zinaenda tu. foreplay ni pale akili zimetulia, mmetulia mnamega tunda polepole ndio muanze hizo sylubus zenu za sijui foreplay, sijui chumvini, sijui...., n.k mara siku ya gulio kateleroo na kumaliza...kila watu na walivyozoea, ila mwanamke usibweteke kusubiria upigwe foreplay wewe tu kila siku ivyo mambo yanakuwa one sided, kazi ya mwanaume tu kila siku kukuomba ...mwanaume huyohuyo akitoka nje kwa hawara hawara hana foreplay ni kazi nzuri na mwanaume anarudi mwepesii hana stress tena, akija kwako unamdangulia si ndio atakuletea watoto na ngoma?

Hebu kwanza kula 5 kwa hiyo comment, well stated...

 

[DZUDZUKU]

Hii sio fresh kabisa.

Nikitaka hanipi, nikilazimisha nabaka, nikiomba asubuhi sithamini usingizi wake, yaani kupata ni mpaka ninyemelee nijipendekezeshe eti sasa joto siku hizi ndio kabisaaaa.

Lakini nimwangalia hausigeli anaana kuiva iva - kashakunywa lita kadhaa za mfuta mabichi ya kupika. Kusema ukweli nishaanza kumtamni, na ili nisijidhalilishe, sasa nina tengeneza contact list mpya kwenye simu - you know what it is for.

Wanawake wote wenye sifa kama za huyu mnatutia ibilisi, mnatukwaza elimikeni, fumbueni mabichwa yenu, jitambueni na mtambue mjukumu yenu, yatekelezeni.

Mburulaaaz akiona mme kachepuka itaanaza kuwa visa ndani ya nyumba, so what should a brother do.

Mie kila ikifika jioni tu utamsikia, kiuna kinauma, au mgongo unauma kweli mara nyingine ooo nahisi nnahoma, nikaamua ni mwambie ukweli, usipo taka kufanya mapenzi na mimi unamaana nifanye na mwingine. sasa hivi nnajiachia tu, kadri nitakavyo.

Kunawakati wananyima kwa makusudi ili akuringishie uke wake na akuonyeshe thamani aliyo nayo ukiumlisha na ndoa zetu hizi za kikristo basi anakuwa na kiburi cha kujiona kama nini maana anajua, ukifanya chochote utaitwa MTENDA DHAMBI.

 

[Kilaza]

Dear sijui ndoa yenu mlifungia wapi either Church or Mosque just know that hilo tatizo ulilo nalo mbona ni Dogo sana kurekebisha , I don't see the reason wewe kwenda nnje na kuharibu ulichokijenga for 9 years. Just know that in the Bible ukisha cheat kwenye ndoa yako hiyo si ndoa tena . Hebu dear jaribu kulala chini na mkeo kwa upole uone wapi mlipokoseana, na mtengezane ,maisha yaendelee. Hakuna aliye kamili hapa ,hata ukienda kwa huyo Mtanga still mambo ni Yale Yale cha zaidi utakwenda kusomba ya kusomba baadae uje kujuta . Please sit down with your wife and talk through her , I'm sure and believe that the solution will come . In the marriage someone has to humble ,not just in marriage in any relationship. Lakini ukijifanya uko juu na yeye yuko juu hapo Hakuna kitakachoendelea isipokuwa matatizo tuu. Hebu humble yourself ,uende kuongea nae ujue tatizo liko wapi. For me as I know wanawake tunaweka vitu sana moyoni lakini nyinyi wanaume huwa hamko hivyo . Huenda kuna misunderstood there , ilifanyika on the past katika mazungumzo . Try to find it where was it and you both have to fix it . Please both of you ,must stop to play victim side , and be responsible . Hapa wengine Jukwaani don't even know what means of marriage because they have never have one ,before ,I'm saying this because yes I do have experience a little bit . Ndoa ni uvumilivu, ambacho hakivumiliki ni Uzinzi na Abuse vinginevyo mbona vinavumilika. Instead ya wewe kushirikiana na watu Wanao kushauri uwe na mchepuko, hebu jaribu kufikiri wapi wewe na yeye mkeo mlikoseana na mkae chini msawazishane na mtulie. Muelezane, na kukumbushana kuwa ndoa ni wawili and its all about give and take not all give, give ,No. Na ndoa sio kutesana Bali kufurahishana. Jamani life is too short to be wasted. Kuweni wawazi please kwenye ndoa yenu. Mimi , I'm sure huyo mkeo ana dukuduku moyoni sasa badala ya kukueleza yeye analipizia kisasi hapo, na wewe kwa sababu uko kwenye hali mbaya instead ya kutafuta hicho kitu cha dukuduku alilo nalo ,unataka kwanza haki yako. Yes ni haki yako kupewa lakini kumbuka na yeye pia ana haki pia ya kuenjoy ,so please Mko kwenye maisha ya stage ya mwisho ya mwanadamu yeyote, ambazo ni kuzaliwa,kuishi,kuolewa/ kuoa na kufa . So please just try your best, please. Na kumbuka Ndoa ni huduma na wito kama huduma nyingine . Pole nilipokukwaza . Thanks.

wewe dada mbona kilasiku unatoa ushauri mzuri tu...hakuna siku unakosea....alaaa embu fungua ofisi ya ushauri wa ndoa na mapenzi....utasaidia wengi

 

[Kilaza]

Dear nini maana ya ubakaji? Na kama alibakwa kwa nini asipige simu police? Honestly katika situation yake nimeielewa. Sometimes sisi wanawake wengine huwa wanatikisa kibiriti kujuwa waume zao huko walikochelewa Je walichelewa kwa kwenda kupoozea au? Gear gani atakayotumia ni hiyo instead ya kuongea , yeye anatumia gear hiyo ya kitoto. I'm sorry but this is the truth. For him to do that kumemfanya huyo mkewe aamini Kweli amechelewa kazini,asingefanya hivyo kama ni yule mwanamke mwenye mdomo siku ya pili ungesikia mbona hukunigusa na kunilazimisha last night? Ukiona hivyo ulienda kwa hawara wako . Jamani nimeyaona Haya before that's why, na mashtaka niliyapata kwa watu Wa karibu . Kama yeye alikuwa hataki hivyo kwa nini asingemwambia Mume wangu sipendi wewe uwe unachelewa kurudi home, instead ya kununa. Jamani tukishakuwa mke na mume Hakuna tena kufichana na ukweli kwenda mbele kwa sababu ndio wako huyo for the rest of your life. Hakuridhishi muambie, amekutenda Mwambie, sijui kitu gani Mwambie na wote Muwe tayari kushirikiana kutengeneza sio mmoja tuu . Ndoa ni wawili na sio mmoja. Thanks!

naomba uwe mke wangu ikishindikana yapo mchepuko basi

 

[Birdman]

Kilaza mbona nilishawahi???