WomanOfSubstance
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There ia a lot of whining and complaining when it comes to relationships.Much is said about what men want but we need to know more about what women desire from their men.When it comes to what women want from men, the little things really do matter.Here are some of the little things :-
1.Return her messages Now, its no secret that women and men have differing opinions on what constitutes good communication. What women want from men is a call back as soon as you are able, as opposed to sometime the following day. This doesnt mean you have to send an e-mail or a text of epic proportions if you dont have time; a sentence or two will suffice to make her feel like you care -- which is all she really wants to know.
2. Dress up for herShe dresses up for you anyway. Dressing up to take your woman out is an excellent way to impress her. Its not about the clothes; its about the fact that you find her worth dressing up for. A nice shirt and dress pants can increase your sex appeal by leaps and bounds; you may feel overdressed, but your hotness factor will have magnified exponentially. Its true: Women really do love a sharp-dressed man.
3.Take on an activity with her -What women want from men is to spend time with their man outside of the bedroom. They want to experience life with their man, and this is one of the best ways to develop a three-dimensional relationship.Take her dancing,walking,clubbing and other activities both of you can enjoy.
4.Compliment her especially on her hair style or her effort to cook you a nice meal.Women get really upset if their men dont take notice of her effort to look good or make you feel good.
The items on this list arent particularly difficult or time-consuming, but they are, unfortunately, very often overlooked by men. This often leads a woman to feel neglected, which in turn leads to nagging and other problems. Make her feel special, and shell go to the ends of the earth for you; try one of these suggestions, and shell feel like you've already gone there and back for her.
This is totally true....especially # 4 ..... I am speaking through experience....and If I might add for # 5 ... Pay attention to what she says......women always like a man who listens to the. She might tell you something while you're concentrating on something else may be watching a game on TV......Turn your head and listen....again....I'm speaking through experience.
Sasa tungepata na ya upande wa majemba nayo. Kikubwa ni kukeep time. Mtapanga miadi na kisura ukamchukue saa tatu, lakini cha kushangaza unafika kumchukua na anakwambia bado hayuko tayari anaomba kama nusu saa zaidi ya kujiandaa . Hili linatuudhi sana. Ulikuwa unajua kabisa kwamba saa tatu usiku utakuja kuchukuliwa kama unajijua unahitaji masaa mawili kujiandaa basi anza kujiandaa saa moja ya usiku ili mwenzio anapofika saa tatu uwe tayari. Sio unasubiri mpaka saa tatu kasorobo ndiyo uanze kujiandaa na hivyo kumgandisha mwenzio zaidi ya nusu au hata zaidi. Hii tabia inaudhi sana. Haya njembas kazi kwenu ya kuchangia yanayowaudhi katika mahusiano.
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The items on this list arent particularly difficult or time-consuming, but they are, unfortunately, very often overlooked by men. This often leads a woman to feel neglected, which in turn leads to nagging and other problems. Make her feel special, and shell go to the ends of the earth for you; try one of these suggestions, and shell feel like you've already gone there and back for her.
Rodelite,
Ungetuwekea hiyo experience hapa tukaona basi na kusikia si unajua hii maneno haina mtaalamu tena, teh teh teh!!
GM....Nitakupa live experience yangu kwenye numbers 3 and 4.
Number 3: My wife likes to clean the house a lot so one day when she started to clean I went to help her and did almost all of the cleaning....that night...."she wore me out"....So I decided that I will do the cleaning before she gets to it......Lord have mercy.....
Nowadays When I get home before she does I will mop the floors or polish them and If I have time, I will cook dinner too......believe me unless she's really tired......I will be worn out that night.
But I don't only do this expecting her to "give it up" it also pleases me to see her smile and know that we are "together" in this.
Number 4: I never looked at my wife's hair....I didn't see the importance....I saw she looked good so what else...."I was Wrong".
She used to tell me...."did you notice my hair"....and most of the time I was cought in a lie.
Nowadays....I compliment her hair, my daughter's hair that she does, If I notice any different at the house, Sometimes I compliment just for the sake of seeing that good smile.....man....what can I say....her happiness is my peace and (I can't lie)....reward later....(If you know what I mean).
Pay attention to what she says......women always like a man who listens to the. She might tell you something while you're concentrating on something else may be watching a game on TV......Turn your head and listen....again....I'm speaking through experience.
GM....Nitakupa live experience yangu kwenye numbers 3 and 4.
Number 3: My wife likes to clean the house a lot so one day when she started to clean I went to help her and did almost all of the cleaning....that night...."she wore me out"....So I decided that I will do the cleaning before she gets to it......Lord have mercy.....
Nowadays When I get home before she does I will mop the floors or polish them and If I have time, I will cook dinner too......believe me unless she's really tired......I will be worn out that night.
But I don't only do this expecting her to "give it up" it also pleases me to see her smile and know that we are "together" in this.
Number 4: I never looked at my wife's hair....I didn't see the importance....I saw she looked good so what else...."I was Wrong".
She used to tell me...."did you notice my hair"....and most of the time I was cought in a lie.
Nowadays....I compliment her hair, my daughter's hair that she does, If I notice any difference at the house, Sometimes I compliment just for the sake of seeing that good smile.....man....what can I say....her happiness is my peace and (I can't lie)....reward later....(If you know what I mean).
Rodelite ... listen na uchuje .. maana wanawake wengine wambea, wagombanishi na waongo .. she may tell you a lie that will dismantle the whole family, hata akiona kaishiwa na maneno ataongopa kitu ilimradi tu amekuambia, utagombana na mpaka majirani ukimwendekeza mwanamke
This is not in reference to my wifi ... i know shes perfect
GM....Nitakupa live experience yangu kwenye numbers 3 and 4.
Number 3: My wife likes to clean the house a lot so one day when she started to clean I went to help her and did almost all of the cleaning....that night...."she wore me out"....So I decided that I will do the cleaning before she gets to it......Lord have mercy.....
Nowadays When I get home before she does I will mop the floors or polish them and If I have time, I will cook dinner too......believe me unless she's really tired......I will be worn out that night.
But I don't only do this expecting her to "give it up" it also pleases me to see her smile and know that we are "together" in this.
Number 4: I never looked at my wife's hair....I didn't see the importance....I saw she looked good so what else...."I was Wrong".
She used to tell me...."did you notice my hair"....and most of the time I was cought in a lie.
Nowadays....I compliment her hair, my daughter's hair that she does, If I notice any difference at the house, Sometimes I compliment just for the sake of seeing that good smile.....man....what can I say....her happiness is my peace and (I can't lie)....reward later....(If you know what I mean).
GM....Nitakupa live experience yangu kwenye numbers 3 and 4.
Number 3: My wife likes to clean the house a lot so one day when she started to clean I went to help her and did almost all of the cleaning....that night...."she wore me out"....So I decided that I will do the cleaning before she gets to it......Lord have mercy.....
Nowadays When I get home before she does I will mop the floors or polish them and If I have time, I will cook dinner too......believe me unless she's really tired......I will be worn out that night.
But I don't only do this expecting her to "give it up" it also pleases me to see her smile and know that we are "together" in this.
Number 4: I never looked at my wife's hair....I didn't see the importance....I saw she looked good so what else...."I was Wrong".
She used to tell me...."did you notice my hair"....and most of the time I was cought in a lie.
Nowadays....I compliment her hair, my daughter's hair that she does, If I notice any difference at the house, Sometimes I compliment just for the sake of seeing that good smile.....man....what can I say....her happiness is my peace and (I can't lie)....reward later....(If you know what I mean).
Nice!!!
Unanikumbusha anko wangu mmoja alikuwa anakuna mpaka nazi. Waosha vinywa kwa nini wasianze maneno yao....
Anyway, keep it up bro....hebu tutoe matongotongo sisi ambao bado tuko stuck up na utamaduni uliopitwa na wakati. Maana wengine bado tunaogopa kupiga deki, tusije tukasemwa tumewekewa li......
GM....Nitakupa live experience yangu kwenye numbers 3 and 4.
Number 3: My wife likes to clean the house a lot so one day when she started to clean I went to help her and did almost all of the cleaning....that night...."she wore me out"....So I decided that I will do the cleaning before she gets to it......Lord have mercy.....
Nowadays When I get home before she does I will mop the floors or polish them and If I have time, I will cook dinner too......believe me unless she's really tired......I will be worn out that night.
But I don't only do this expecting her to "give it up" it also pleases me to see her smile and know that we are "together" in this.
Number 4: I never looked at my wife's hair....I didn't see the importance....I saw she looked good so what else...."I was Wrong".
She used to tell me...."did you notice my hair"....and most of the time I was cought in a lie.
Nowadays....I compliment her hair, my daughter's hair that she does, If I notice any difference at the house, Sometimes I compliment just for the sake of seeing that good smile.....man....what can I say....her happiness is my peace and (I can't lie)....reward later....(If you know what I mean).
ha ha ha umewekewa Limbwata