I need relationship advice

[Curious gal]

Am not a good writer mtanisamehe kwa uandishi wangu and am sorry for my inconvenience kutokana na threads zangu tofauti tofauti ambazo wengine uwa hawapendi.

Nimetokea kuumizwa sana na so called relationships na hii naona kama ni punishment kwa kuwa kipindi cha nyuma niliweza kuwaumiza ambao nilidate nao and i didn't care kwa kipindi hicho.....Naomba Mungu anisamehe kwa hili,sikuwa nawaamini wanaume kabisa na mpaka leo hii ila kuna ambao walionesha upendo wa dhati but i didn't pay them much attention......i do regret

Nimesema yote haya kutokana na shida nazopata sasa hivi yani nachukia kutafuta wanaume na hata kama ikatokea nikapata boyfriend uwa haizidi kukaa nae for more than two weeks na wengi ambao nakutana nao uwa naona wana mambo mengi......nilishacheat sana so najua yupi mkweli na yupi muongo

Wanaume mnapoona msichana anajitolea kukucare muwe mnajiongeza basi na sio kuanza kujiona kama mnapendwa sana na kwamba huyo msichana atakuvumilia kwa chochote.....maybe wapo ila mimi uwa siwezi#i think is one of my weakness

Kinachoniumiza why can't i stay in a relationship longer than two weeks?....

Kwa sasa nadhani nahitaji msaada wa kimawazo

 

[Nokia83]

Hizo wiki unaamsha dude au maongezi tu?!

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

Sound serious, you need to see a psychologist. Mtu mzima wa kawaida hawezi kuwa na hali kama yako, kuna kitu labda umekiona kwa watu wako wa karibu kimekufanya uwe reserved. What you are doing is to protect your feelings, unaogopa kuumizwa something like that. Una hitaji professional advise and treatment.

 

[miss chagga]

dont rush to sex baada ya kuanza mahusiano

 

[Evelyn Salt]

Jipe muda inaonekana unahitaji sana mpenzi hivo yoyote anaekatiza mbele yako unadhani anakufaa kumbe sio.... Ndio maana haudumu nao

 

[Toxic Concotion]

You seem to know all the problems that hinder your not lasting in relationships but probably you can't identify them as the problems.
You cheat/cheated

nilishacheat sana so najua yupi mkweli na yupi muongo

on this you already have a feeling that you are being cheated on even if you are not just because you once did it. Accept that it is possible to be in a relationship without any of you cheating on the other. Sometimes false accusations lead to break ups.
It's clear you can not compromise in a relationship and you think only you deserve to be treated right

niliweza kuwaumiza ambao nilidate nao and i didn't care kwa kipindi hicho

There is saying "what goes around comes around", whatever wrong you do to somebody it always catches back to you in unexpected ways.
You need to come to terms with the fact that you are just a normal human in the sense that you are not immuned to having feelings, appreciate any tokens of love while in a relationship but most of all learn to accept that relationships are meant to be mutual, compromising, agreeing to disagree and meeting half way not always having your way. It's ok to be wrong and admit that you are wrong and also it's absolutely fine to show your true feelings without appearing weak. Maybe you will last longer than 2 weeks. Learn to be a girl once in a while.

 

[Miss Natafuta]

two weeks? i cant stay even for two hours

 

[Miss Natafuta]

tuwe serias .sio kwamba una shida hujakutana tu na mtu ambae ni mkweli

 

[Am only]

How old are you

 

[Junior. Cux]

Am not a good writer mtanisamehe kwa uandishi wangu and am sorry for my inconvenience kutokana na threads zangu tofauti tofauti ambazo wengine uwa hawapendi.

Nimetokea kuumizwa sana na so called relationships na hii naona kama ni punishment kwa kuwa kipindi cha nyuma niliweza kuwaumiza ambao nilidate nao and i didn't care kwa kipindi hicho.....Naomba Mungu anisamehe kwa hili,sikuwa nawaamini wanaume kabisa na mpaka leo hii ila kuna ambao walionesha upendo wa dhati but i didn't pay them much attention......i do regret

Nimesema yote haya kutokana na shida nazopata sasa hivi yani nachukia kutafuta wanaume na hata kama ikatokea nikapata boyfriend uwa haizidi kukaa nae for more than two weeks na wengi ambao nakutana nao uwa naona wana mambo mengi......nilishacheat sana so najua yupi mkweli na yupi muongo

Wanaume mnapoona msichana anajitolea kukucare muwe mnajiongeza basi na sio kuanza kujiona kama mnapendwa sana na kwamba huyo msichana atakuvumilia kwa chochote.....maybe wapo ila mimi uwa siwezi#i think is one of my weakness

Kinachoniumiza why can't i stay in a relationship longer than two weeks?....

Kwa sasa nadhani nahitaji msaada wa kimawazo

You sound serious maa... keep it low and relationships sio za kutafuta, acha zenyewe zikutafute

 

[MIXOLOGIST]

two weeks? i cant stay even for two hours

Girl, you are a bad news. Nimecheka sana.

 

[bigmind]

Am not a good writer mtanisamehe kwa uandishi wangu and am sorry for my inconvenience kutokana na threads zangu tofauti tofauti ambazo wengine uwa hawapendi.

Nimetokea kuumizwa sana na so called relationships na hii naona kama ni punishment kwa kuwa kipindi cha nyuma niliweza kuwaumiza ambao nilidate nao and i didn't care kwa kipindi hicho.....Naomba Mungu anisamehe kwa hili,sikuwa nawaamini wanaume kabisa na mpaka leo hii ila kuna ambao walionesha upendo wa dhati but i didn't pay them much attention......i do regret

Nimesema yote haya kutokana na shida nazopata sasa hivi yani nachukia kutafuta wanaume na hata kama ikatokea nikapata boyfriend uwa haizidi kukaa nae for more than two weeks na wengi ambao nakutana nao uwa naona wana mambo mengi......nilishacheat sana so najua yupi mkweli na yupi muongo

Wanaume mnapoona msichana anajitolea kukucare muwe mnajiongeza basi na sio kuanza kujiona kama mnapendwa sana na kwamba huyo msichana atakuvumilia kwa chochote.....maybe wapo ila mimi uwa siwezi#i think is one of my weakness

Kinachoniumiza why can't i stay in a relationship longer than two weeks?....

Kwa sasa nadhani nahitaji msaada wa kimawazo

Endelea kuliwa kitu kinasoma mileages ukija stuka utarudi kutoa ushuhuda hapa.

Kwa taarifa iko mwanamke kumlinganisha na mwanaume kimahusiano ni sawa na kulinganisha mti wa mwembe na mpapai..! Huu life zao ni mbali mno mwembe 120- 200 years while mpapai ni miaka 10 maximum. Msichana kuchoka uke na shape ni rais sana compared na men.

Kidume najilia vigori form six hapa 30+ vingine viko 18 to 20s.

 

[Curious gal]

two weeks? i cant stay even for two hours

Umenizidi kwa kweli lol

 

[Curious gal]

You sound serious maa... keep it low and relationships sio za kutafuta, acha zenyewe zikutafute

Mimi nilitafuta moja tu na tena ya humu jamii forum

 

[Mahondaw]

Smart911 love huruma inahitajika hukuuu


in other words................ ..


Mhmmhmhmhmhmhmhmh two weeks.....!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Pole sana mwaya


yawezekana wewe na unaokutana nao nyote mnakua resi mnooooooo

cc Smart911

 

[Junior. Cux]

Mimi nilitafuta moja tu na tena ya humu jamii forum

Cool.. try to give yorself a break!!! Chil fanya other things wich mean life to you...

 

[Curious gal]

Hizo wiki unaamsha dude au maongezi tu?!

Some of them tuna.... na wengine tunaishia maongezi

 

[Curious gal]

Cool.. try to give yorself a break!!! Chil fanya other things wich mean life to you...

Okay......i'll try

 

[Nokia83]

Some of them tuna.... na wengine tunaishia maongezi

Wot do u do for a living?!...jaribu kutoka jichanganye na watu naona kama unaishi kipekeyako

 

[Curious gal]

Sound serious, you need to see a psychologist. Mtu mzima wa kawaida hawezi kuwa na hali kama yako, kuna kitu labda umekiona kwa watu wako wa karibu kimekufanya uwe reserved. a what you are doing is to protect your feelings, unaogopa kuumizwa something like that. Una hitaji professional advise and treatment.

Nafikiri nahitaji sana treatment maana sio kawaida