I hate the way I love him


ni upepozz tu huo utapita!!:eek2:
 
Mwali said:
Unajiskia unavojiskia sababu unataka kujiskia hivo.
at any given time you are the master of your feelings
Umeshindwa kufuta hiyo feeling because you like it
when you'll decide to stop feeling that way, it will fade.
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Waaoh, tough one!
I love being in love with him, lkn naogopa/sipendi jinsi ninavyokosa control of myself!
 
Kaunga said:
Hiyo sentensi ya mwisho Asprin, why? Kwanini mdengue tunavyowazimikia?

Nipe tips za kupenda tu bila kudondoka; maana kudenguliwa sijui kama nitakuafford! Maana kudengua ni kwetu sisi wanawake, "kanakake na kudengua" ndio msemo wa wanyamwezi.
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Kwasababu tunajiaminisha kuwa hata tukivurunda mnasamehe fasta. Hamna jinsi. Kuanguka mapenzini ndo kama hivyo ufanyavyo. Kupenda ni kumtrust, kumheshimu, kumjali na kumpa nafasi. Penzi ni both way traffic bana, nipe nikupe in equal weight.
 
Kaunga said:
Waaoh, tough one!
I love being in love with him, lkn naogopa/sipendi jinsi ninavyokosa control of myself!
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You only lose control because you want to.
Your idea of being in love might be linked to thinking about him
at the moment you realise that thinking of him as you do
is different from being in love with him, you'll be free again
wanawake wengi wanapenda the idea of romance/being in love
even more than the object of her affection him/herself
Just wake up and decide that you won't think of him that much.
Ukichukua uamuzi huo (na umaanishe) it will stop hapo hapo
 
Kaunga, nimeweka utani pembeni sababu ukimuona nyani mzee kama mie ujue kakwepa mishale mingi.

Ndo maana naweza kukuambia kabisa uko okay na wala hakuna la ajabu unalofanya.

Sema taabu ni hapo anapokuwa bize afu wewe una nguvu nyingi za kuongea na kuchat.

Kuna saa utaweza kujizuia kuna saa linakuja wazo la liwalo na liwe mie naanzisha maongezi.

Kuhusu wanaosema usianzishe wewe maongezi umwache aanzishe yeye, sijui labda kama uwe mzuri kwenye kupretend ila wengine hilo haliko kwenye menu yangu.

Mapenzi hayana formula wala script, kikubwa asikufanye ukapoteza uelekeo wa maisha tu kama kuacha kazi na kumfuata.
Ila haya ya kuanzisha maongezi, anzisha as much as you can, hata akijua unampenda sana so what? Wee sio wa kwanza kupenda kihivyo na wala si wa mwisho.

Kama anakuthamini hata kidogo hawezi abuse au kukubeza kisa umempeeeeenda, labda kama umependa marioo ila mwanamme wa haja huwa anaelewa.
 
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Mwali, sijui uko strong kiasi gani katika mahusiano, but kuishi kwingi kuona mengi.

Kuna saa unajikuta kwenye situation hata kivuli chako hakiamini kama ni wewe achia mbali nafsi inakuuliza umepoteza lini akili ya kufikiri?

So mie simshangai Kaunga, namtakia tu hayo mapenzi yamfikishe anakotaka kufika.

When you fall in love akili zingine zinakuwa kama zimekula mneli, ni utumwa wa kihisia.

Uzuri haitokei mara kwa mara na kuna baadhi ya watu hawaipati kabisa maishani.
 
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that makes the two of us!
 
Cha kufanya ni kutafuta njia ya kufikisha ujumbe wako! Hadi nakuonea huruma maana mwanamke akipenda uteseka sana. Ni vizuri ukajaribu kujizui kwani ukijionesha unampenda kupitiliza nalo ni tatizo.




Kaunga said:
Jamani dildo ni mtu, l am in love with a person na sio kwamba l am horny!
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Baba V said:
that makes the two of us!
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Eeh, sijui nikupe pole au hongera. Lkn bora ufaidiike na ushauri ninaopewa humu ndani. Msome vizuri Asprin na 'loving but not falling in love', Kongosho na 'being yourself n enjoying the moment& j nna Mwali na 'we are being like this coz we want to'
 
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Mwali i dont think the one in red is true..
Do you believe in power of love?
Is it something to stop by the time u want to stop it??
Is love a voluntarily phenomenon?
 
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SnowBall said:
Mwali i dont think the one in red is true..
Do you believe in power of love?
Is it something to stop by the time u want to stop it??
Is love a voluntarily phenomenon?
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You can't easily decide to start/stop faling in love
but you can decide the way in which and the extent to which you are in love
Being in love is very different from acting strangely, but most people think
that the stranger they act the deeper their feelings, and so so convince themselves
or their lovers they act in very strange ways. Thinking about someone is fine,
but why do you have to feel bad or irritated about it? maybe because you overdo it?
If so, then just stop overdoing. It won't reduce the feeling of love.
 

Thanks dearest, kipimo ndio shida kukijua. Believe me nimejaribu si tu kupunguza lakini pia kuend hii kitu altogether lakini nimekubali defeat; sijui kaniwekea LIMBWATA? LOL

Nashukuru kwa ushauri wako charminglady.
 
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feelings hizo zipo na hayo ni mapenzi tu
 
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