I can feel your pain, and as a man I can't disagree with how you have described us.
you are a very wise woman and I wish I could have a sensible wife like you.
it is very rare these days to find a woman who wants to still behave like a woman, but also wants men to get better.
most women these days have accepted the way men are and the only way to handle their troubled men is to behave like them.
again, I wish I could have a sensible wife like U. and on behalf of all men, we are sorry we made you feel that way about us.