Utapelekwaa mahakamani shauri lakoo?sie hutatuonaa utatukuta humuhumu ndani!!!!
Kwani huwa humwiti Baby....!! he is ur Baby... sasa kwanini unashindwa kumfulia..! lakini boxer.. mmh! mumeo mvivu.
Jst throw them away n buy him new one this will save u a lot of trouble .
Take em n throw away simple like dat.
Unatafuta fairness ipi ndugu?Wakati mwingine naona wanawake wako kama watumwa vile... dume lifanyiwe kila kitu, kila kitu...
umpikie, umfulie, umpasie nguo, umuandalie ipi avae, soksi na boksa ziwe safi, utandike kitanda na bado kila iitwapo usiku ulale bila pichu...
mwisho wa mwezi mnagawana majukumu 50/50...
Its not fair kwa wanawake, lol.
I am a newly-wed and I am already having problems with my husband, for the simple reason that I refuse to do things like washing his underwear, polishing his shoes and ironing his clothes. I believe he can do these tasks for himself since he is a grown man, but he insists that it is my duty as a wife to do them for him. He says that I am hardheaded and that I'm going against the biblical commandment ordering wives to submit to their husbands. Did I get married to become a slave? Please give me an amicable solution for this issue.
#Rachel
Dada rachel!! This is your private business. Hayatuhusu. Nendeni mkamalizeni wenyewe.
I am a newly-wed and I am already having problems with my husband, for the simple reason that I refuse to do things like washing his underwear, polishing his shoes and ironing his clothes. I believe he can do these tasks for himself since he is a grown man, but he insists that it is my duty as a wife to do them for him. He says that I am hardheaded and that I'm going against the biblical commandment ordering wives to submit to their husbands. Did I get married to become a slave? Please give me an amicable solution for this issue.
#Rachel
Pole sana. Ni lini wanaume tutaacha kuwafanya wake zetu watumwa?? Ni furaha iliyoje kumwona mke wako anachoka sana tena wakati mwingine akiwa mjamzito? Wewe unafurahije kukaa juu ya sofa unaangalia Tv na kusoma magazeti ili hali mkeo anateseka na kazi. Halafu usiku au mchana huo huo unamataka kitandani akutimizie ndoa!!! Je na kuchoka huko unategemea ufanisi? Usipopata ufanisi unatafuta nyumba ndogo au kuja kurusha matatizo yako ya ndani JF!!! Wewe ndiyo chanzo. Kuna wakati miaka hiyo rafiki yangu alikuwa anamwachia mke wake kila kazi ili hali watoto walikuwa ni wadogo na waliofuatana sana. Mke alikuwa anachoka sana na ugomvi kila usiku maana mgongo unauma. Siku moja nikawakaribisha nyumbani makusudi kabisa. Nami nilikuwa na watoto almost same age kama yeye. Niliwaalika kuanzia lunch hadi dinner, it was our day. Nakumbuka walifika kama saa nne hivi maana walikuwa wanatokea mbali na usafiri walikuwa hawana (ngumu kupata magari enzi zile japo JABA ilikuwa kusaidia kidogo -tumetoka mbali sana). Alipofika tukawalaki na nikaanza kuwaandalia chai huku mwenzangu akiwa busy na kulisha watoto (tulikuwa tumetoka ibada). Walipomaliza kupata kifungua kinywa basi nikaondoa vyombo na kuweka meza vizuri (binti wa kazi alikuwa amekwenda ibada na tulikuwa tunasubiri dada yangu afike kutusaidia kupika kwa ajili ya ugeni ule). Rafiki yangu yule aninikodolea macho sana. Baadaye watoto wakawa wanacheza na wale wa kwake nikawaaga kuwa ngoja nimpe mama support kidogo. Nikaingia jikoni tukaanza kukata nyama na kuanza mapishi na dada yangu akawasili tukaendelea kusaidia kazi za mapishi. Tulikula na tulipomaliza nikajiunga nao wakati dada na binti wa kazi anaendelea na kazi za usafi baada ya kula.
Baadaye jioni wakati tunawasindikiza akaniambia kuwa atanipigia kesho yake kuna issue (hakukuwa na mobile alitumia ttcl ofisini). Ainipigia kunishangaa ila nikamwambia mke ni msaidizi na mwanaume maana yake ndiye mtendaji mkuu. Kuanzia siku ile alibadilika na mkewe alipata ahueni na mapenzi makubwa katika familia. Mke ni msaidizi wako na si mtumwa au mtwana. Hakuna cha limbwata bali ni upendo na wadogo zangu wote wa kiume niliwaonyesha njia and are happily married.
I am a newly-wed and I am already having problems with my husband, for the simple reason that I refuse to do things like washing his underwear, polishing his shoes and ironing his clothes. I believe he can do these tasks for himself since he is a grown man, but he insists that it is my duty as a wife to do them for him. He says that I am hardheaded and that I'm going against the biblical commandment ordering wives to submit to their husbands. Did I get married to become a slave? Please give me an amicable solution for this issue.
#Rachel
Kwani huwa humwiti Baby....!! he is ur Baby... sasa kwanini unashindwa kumfulia..! lakini boxer.. mmh! mumeo mvivu.
kwenye issue ya mshahara wa mke kuchangia budget ya ndani kuna ugumu
i love your comment, she just added "Rachel" to make ownership of everything. jamiiforums is very interesting people don't bother to read other comments, if they could have read your comment they could not reply to thread which is not realistic to her.
hilo ni limbwata maana aliyepewa limbwata hawezi kujua mpaka li expire yaani mkeo, dada yako, na housegirl hawatoshi mpaka na wewe ukashughulike hiyo ni too much brooo!
sitafuti hilo, ni kama nawahurumia vile..Unatafuta fairness ipi ndugu?
tupia like basinimeipenda hiyo
Maneno hayooooNgoja akutane na akina mama naniii huko mtaa wa tatu uone kama atakukumbuka tena;
utabaki unaitazama pete.