does virginity matter these days?

[Jestina]

Bado ina matter sana,sema vijana ndiyo wanakimbilia mambo kabla ya wakati wake,mie binafsi nilimuoa mke wangu akiwa bado bikira baada ya kukaa naye kwenye uhusiano kwa miaka 7 bila ya kumgusa,usiku wa harusi tulilala pamoja pale ndipo nilipofurahia zaidi...

Inakupa uhakika wa mpenzi wako ni mwaminifu na anauwezo wa kujilinda,Uwezi kuwa na wivu wowote juu ya mkeo na inamwongezea mwanamke kujiamini sana pale anapokuwa ameolewa na mtu aliyemtoa bikira yake na pia si rahisi kumshawishi kwa pesa,magari,kazi n.k ili akupe penzi.
Mwisho kwenye tendo la ndoa sehemu ya uke inakuwa inabana vizuri sana na utafurahia kwa miaka yako ya ndoa..sababu inakuwa haijachoka na wala kuchoshwa na wapitaji..
Nizawadi ya ushindi pia.

hivi sio wewe uliyekuja na topic hujui km mkeo anafika kileleni ama la?,:nono::nono:

 

[Mentor]

What is virginity?

Tusije kubishana vitu tofauti, kuna purists wengine cherry ikipasuka kwa kupanda farasi si virgin.

Na mtaalam wa bj ambaye hajaguswa Kowloon Triangle naye virgin au?

Porn star ambaye kazi yake ni kuongea kila aina ya style kwenye simu lakini hajaguswa naye virgin?

Tunaongelea physical virginity tu au mpaka mental? Tutaipimaje? Kipimo chake kikoje?

This is too much theoretical bro..I beg to disagree with you.

Show me one porn star (phone sex) who is still a virgin..

Show me a lady that just gives blowjobs and is still a virgin..

Virginity in all its essence - and meaning therefore - is as was an important factor in determining a lady's (and hence the men) purity.

Siku hizi wanasema kuwa virgin ni lack of opportunity na sio utu...I STRONGLY DISAGREE!

 

[Kiranga]

This is too much theoretical bro..I beg to disagree with you.

Show me one porn star (phone sex) who is still a virgin..

Show me a lady that just gives blowjobs and is still a virgin..

Virginity in all its essence - and meaning therefore - is as was an important factor in determining a lady's (and hence the men) purity.

Siku hizi wanasema kuwa virgin ni lack of opportunity na sio utu...I STRONGLY DISAGREE!

Nimekuuliza virginity ni nini? Hujajibu, umekimbilia maelezo mengi, ikiwemo kulitumia neno "virginity" bila ya kulielezea unavyolifahamu na kulitumia unamaanisha nini.

Define vitu kwanza, virginity ni hii na sio ile.

Then unaweza kueleza maelezo meengi.

Usipo define, tunaweza kubishana kuhusu virginity kama tunaongelea kitu kimoja kumbe tunaongelea vitu viwili tofauti.

 

[Realme]

do you think virginity is still important in the world we are living today? what is your say....

Kwangu mimi kama mwanamke ni very important kuitunza kwa heshima yangu,wazazi wangu na Mungu wangu. ila kwa wanaume naona hawaoni kama nimuhimu ukiwa nayo wanakukimbia,na wakiikubali badala ya kukuheshimu wanaanza kuitilia mashaka yakweli au ya mchina? Ni Muhimu sana ila kwa mwanamke mwenyewe.

 

[Realme]

What is virginity?

Tusije kubishana vitu tofauti, kuna purists wengine cherry ikipasuka kwa kupanda farasi si virgin.

Na mtaalam wa bj ambaye hajaguswa Kowloon Triangle naye virgin au?

Porn star ambaye kazi yake ni kuongea kila aina ya style kwenye simu lakini hajaguswa naye virgin?

Tunaongelea physical virginity tu au mpaka mental? Tutaipimaje? Kipimo chake kikoje?

;Tungekuwa tunatafakari kwa undani kama hivi,mitazamo ya wengi ingebadilika.

 

[The Monk]

do you think virginity is still important in the world we are living today? what is your say....

Inategemea unaongelea ubikira kwa mtazamo upi, kama watu tumeshindwa kufuata kanuni ya kuwa mtu asijihusishe na masuala ya uzinzi/uasherati nje ya ndoa unadhani watu watatetea suala la virginity hapo? Kwangu linahusika sana.

 

[Maundumula]

It doesnt matter to me labda kwa wengine.

 

[kibolibo]

do you think virginity is still important in the world we are living today? what is your say....

does it matter to you..?

 

[Mentor]

Nimekuuliza virginity ni nini? Hujajibu, umekimbilia maelezo mengi, ikiwemo kulitumia neno "virginity" bila ya kulielezea unavyolifahamu na kulitumia unamaanisha nini.

Define vitu kwanza, virginity ni hii na sio ile.

Then unaweza kueleza maelezo meengi.

Usipo define, tunaweza kubishana kuhusu virginity kama tunaongelea kitu kimoja kumbe tunaongelea vitu viwili tofauti.

Virginity (Definition): "The state of never having had sexual intercourse"

 

[Mwali]

Ingekua bado tunaolewa tukiwa 14 or 16 it would still matter

 

[Kiranga]

Virginity (Definition): "The state of never having had sexual intercourse"

That is a narrow and vague definition. It does not clear the abovementioned physical/mental questions.

Kahaba anayejifaragua kwa phone sex kama kazi kila siku ambaye hajawahi kutandikwa mshobengo naye ni virgin au si?

 

[life is Short]

Nasikiaga Vijana wengi wao husema "Eti ukienda sokoni ukakuta ndizi ishamenywa utanunua ukalee" ? Mie sina jawabu...
Lakini kwa matazamo wangu hii ni DESTURI na MILLA.

 

[Mtoto halali na hela]

sidhani kama inamata kiivyo, nyie simnapenda used jamani!!

naona unajihami.

 

[Mentor]

That is a narrow and vague definition. It does not clear the abovementioned physical/mental questions.

Kahaba anayejifaragua kwa phone sex kama kazi kila siku ambaye hajawahi kutandikwa mshobengo naye ni virgin au si?

Ndiyo nikauliza practicability ya hilo suala la kumkuta 'kahaba' wa phone sex ambaye ni bikra!

Ila pia, hata akiwepo hiyo haijustify kuwa yeye sio bikra tena kisa tu ameongea sex over the phone..that will only make her immoral!

 

[Jospina]

Nasikiaga Vijana wengi wao husema "Eti ukienda sokoni ukakuta ndizi ishamenywa utanunua ukalee" ? Mie sina jawabu...
Lakini kwa matazamo wangu hii ni DESTURI na MILLA.

sawa kabisa, ni desturi na mila tuu

 

[waziry]

ni muhimu si unajua. inakupa uhakika???

 

[life is Short]

chinese wisdom!! 過去把第一次留給丈夫；
現在把第一胎留給丈夫。
In the past, woman gives man their virginity;
Now, woman gives man their newborn.

 

[Heaven on Earth]

Siku hizi kuna sealed za kichina, mtoto anajifanya sealed lakin ukimfiksha 'garaje' mwenyewe anaanza kushusha kila kitu mpaka kufuli, yaaan hakuna woga wala nini mpaka unajiuliza mbona ni mzoefu kuliko wife mwenye uzoef wa kuchezea shaft kwa 34 years? Tujihadhari na bikra za Mzimbabwe zinazotengenezwa Ilala Dsm Mtaa Moshi nyumba na.49 kwa gharama ya laki na nusu na upunguf unaongea.Huyu mama ni Hatari anarudisha mpaka Linda zilizopotea kwa kifilo!

nielekeze vizuri hiyo mitaa na imi nikainunue,mi sihitaj anipunguzie
akitaka kuongezewa ataongezewa ilimrad niwe sealed........

 

[life is Short]

do you think virginity is still important in the world we are living today? what is your say....

Bride ordered to pay £5,000 to groom for having secret surgery to restore her virginity

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Provided by: myjoyonline
An Egyptian woman has been ordered to pay her former husband £5240 in compensation after he discovered she had lied to him about her virginity.

The man accused his wife of deceiving him into believing she had never been married before - and therefore a virgin - and of having surgery to fake her virginity, during a bitter divorce battle which went to the court of appeal.

The court upheld a previous ruling that found she had deceived her husband and increased the compensation she must now pay for the emotional damage she caused him.

The money is also meant to help him overcome the stigma of what is considered in some parts of Arab society to be an embarrassing ordeal for him and his family.

The case centred around the original marriage contract made by the couple where the Egyptian bride, the court heard, allegedly faked a number of key points about her background.

The court established the woman had been married earlier and had divorced her first husband. It also acknowledged that she had made false statements 'with the help of her father, in the couple’s marriage contract - stating that she had never been married or had sex,' according to press reports.

The demise of the couple’s marriage came about following a spiteful sms message sent to the current husband, the court heard. Court records show that after three years of marriage, and the birth of a child, her current husband received an anonymous text message informing him that his wife had been married in the past.

The text message was later followed up by a copy of the woman’s divorce document which was also sent to the husband as proof, prompting the man to file for divorce against his Egyptian wife for lying to him.

He claimed compensation from her for the emotional damage he suffered, claiming that he was 'suffering from depression and had lost trust in the people around him as a result of her deception.'

The husband also accused his wife of undergoing surgery to make it seem as though she was a virgin – a simple operation which is becoming increasingly common in some Arab countries.

 

[Kiranga]

Ndiyo nikauliza practicability ya hilo suala la kumkuta 'kahaba' wa phone sex ambaye ni bikra!

Ila pia, hata akiwepo hiyo haijustify kuwa yeye sio bikra tena kisa tu ameongea sex over the phone..that will only make her immoral!

Practicability unaipima kwa chombo gani na units zipi?

Unaposema haijustify unashindilia tu assertion yangu kwamba your definition of virginity is shallow.

And your morality is counterintuitively self-defeating.