Babe, I am afraid this was never meant to be...

Babe, I am afraid this was never meant to be...

I am so sorry.

Man, you really have taste for music, took liberty to call you music connoisseur.

This one classic song of Whitney Houston reminds me of my first break up .
I don't want to spill the beans.

" Where do broken hearts go?

Can they find their home?

Back to the open arms of love that's waiting there?

And if somebody love you, won't they always love you? "

 
Dear babe,

Nothing scares the shit out of me like the thought of 'what we have was never meant to be', been craving, dreaming and fighting for whatever little thing left in us but the naked truth is always been there yelling at me like 'sweetie, this ain't gonna work'.!!

Been together for sometime, we quarreled, been mad at each other for hours then we love again, we laughed our hearts out, shared funny, sweet-bitter, warm and remarkable moments together and yet this love ain't perfect, those will be the best memories that will always lives on in my heart, sadly this was never my plan for our worlds..!!

I can't really imagine how lamely each day of my life will pass without a special, smart, unique, funny, understandable, eloquent, adorable and an honest man like you into my life, I do really admire the person I am today, how blessed I am that I met you, you've been taught me ten million things, moreover you have been grappling for my self-control so that I can be the better woman, always grabbing the best out of me..!!

You've been one unique man to my heart at every point in my life, and for the very first time I've never afraid of loving someone this deep, Can't you see that there will be no light in my world without you in it.!? Don't you really know that you are the sun that is meant to brighten my world??

The vision is so dark and blurred in front of me, I don't see the clear and bright future before us, as I pictured the days ahead of me looks hazy, and my mind feel clogged with thoughts of how happy we would have been, as it has always been you and Only You..!!

It hurts me so badly knowing that things won't ever work out between us, But still that won't ever erase the Passion I have for you..!!

You have no idea how much my heart bleeds just knowing that you will NEVER BE MINE..!!
The situation obviously isn't fun and I am sorry you are going through it in the first place Sis.

Congrats for being matured enough not to villainise him for this. (you are letting him be him without judgment) .
You really should be proud of yourself for handling the situation with so much grace.

Let him go once and for all before you get rant over!! Move on sweetheart like a nigga never existed. Don't worry everyone is replaceable however it takes efforts to replace someone, but you will actually being brave by letting him go for good.
By doing that you are making yourself available for when Mr right comes along.
 
I didn't wanna say anything because I am afraid this might worsen things.

"I wish I could find another way to make you believe me, as a matter of fact you already hate to hear the statement "believe me" from me.

But what else could I do??

There is no one who understands my situation better than you. I have tried not to let you down and I will never change my stance (letting you down) on this.

You might think these are mere words, but they are not. These are sainted words coming from a very blessed mouth aimed to heal a heart of a pleasingly pretty woman like yourself. If you can, please try not to listen to too many people, and I know you are smart enough not to do so.

Sweetie , there are always fantasy and reality and we have discussed about this more than a thousand times.

Remember when you were with that guy?? Didnt I fight for this love?? Why do you think I did that?? Its because I believed in you before I even believed in my instincts. Remember when you promised to never let me go?? That still lives in me. I will take that promise with me to my grave, and for all the years that I will be waiting for resurrection, that promise will be the true hope of meeting you thereafter.

The sleepless nights??? I dont wanna believe they are already forgotten in such a short period of time, well, even if they are, I will never accept it then. I will live with the hope of being with you until the end of time.

You know exactly how many sacrifices I have made, you know exactly my love for you is pure and genuine, and you know exactly how tough it is for me to make that call.

I need time and so do you, don't rush into making decisions.

We are not gonna fight because of WhatsApp status, are we??? I understand that is typical you but since we have decided to get into this, please let's not fight over things like this."

Does this heal?? If not please let me know and I can do "something!
Oooh My Gosh!!!!!!!!!
This gave me tingles and made me tear up. This was such a wonderful thing to read and I am sure she knows this is exactly how you feel about her.
 
The situation obviously isn't fun and I am sorry you are going through it in the first place Sis.

Congrats for being matured enough not to villainise him for this. (you are letting him be him without judgment) .
You really should be proud of yourself for handling the situation with so much grace.

Let him go once and for all before you get rant over!! Move on sweetheart like a nigga never existed. Don't worry everyone is replaceable however it takes efforts to replace someone, but you will actually being brave by letting him go for good.
By doing that you are making yourself available for when Mr right comes along.
Good Lord..!! Babygirl, how am I supposed to answer this fully and blessed words which comes from your loving and caring heart??

I do really appreciate this verily and I mean it, this warmth message find it's own way deep into my heart, A big Amen to that, and i promish that I'll be the super-hearted and strong lady ever happened in the history..!!

Blessed-up mumie, you real know how to cheer up a self pity and a lonely soul, yo real kind..!!
 
This is a heart of a real woman crying and yearning for the true love that, for some unknown reasons, has now eluded her. She is hurt; and her heart is bleeding.

Listen young lady. You seem to know what you want. My advice to you is this: fight for this love. Let this unique man know about the deep love that you harbour for him. That no one will ever replace him; and that you will always be there waiting for him.

You seem to be in pain. Please go fight for this love !!!
If she really mean it then should go for it before it is too late
 
And that 'comparison' is sth which is consuming me inside, will do sth about it babe.!! Much gracias.!!
That is the worst part in moving on but you are bigger than that. You can do better and there is something good in every human being focus on that part.
 
And don't try to replace him. Just search for another being not another man better than him or equally to him.
Don't ghost follow him in social media that is the most hurting part cause if you see him doing 'better' you will try so hard to be better than him and you will never be.
 
Oooh My Gosh!!!!!!!!!
This gave me tingles and made me tear up. This was such a wonderful thing to read and I am sure she knows this is exactly how you feel about her.
Ohhh! Very sorry for that.

I didn't mean to..........

I just thought of saying "something "
 
And don't try to replace him. Just search for another being not another man better than him or equally to him.

I don't think the ultimate solution for her is to find another man.

I think the ultimate solution for her is to fix anything which makes her struggle personally.

if its body issues then she should work on that. Nobody should be afraid to date again, nobody should be afraid to expose their body, just coz their body look a certain way.

You shouldn't go back to the person you used to date just because he's used to your body and makes you feel less judged or makes you feel secure, because that would not be looking for love, that would be looking for a person who finds you bearable/acceptable/tolerable.

A new man can't fix your personal struggles.
 
Good Lord..!! Babygirl, how am I supposed to answer this fully and blessed words which comes from your loving and caring heart??

I do really appreciate this verily and I mean it, this warmth message find it's own way deep into my heart, A big Amen to that, and i promish that I'll be the super-hearted and strong lady ever happened in the history..!!

Blessed-up mumie, you real know how to cheer up a self pity and a lonely soul, yo real kind..!!

Oooow, thank you SweetieLee. That's a nice compliment coming from you. And Amen to that.

Remember that, "sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck". So you dodged a dumb bullet and you deserve so much better sis.
I pray that you will find the happiness you deserve.
 
I don't think the ultimate solution for her is to find another man.

I think the ultimate solution for her is to fix anything which makes her struggle personally.

if its body issues then she should work on that. Nobody should be afraid to date again, nobody should be afraid to expose their body, just coz their body look a certain way.

You shouldn't go back to the person you used to date just because he's used to your body and makes you feel less judged or makes you feel secure, because that would not be looking for love, that would be looking for a person who finds you bearable/acceptable/tolerable.

A new man can't fix your personal struggles.
You missing my point king mbappe
Sorry!
 
A broken hearted girl.

Sometimes we face hard times to make us stronger.It might also be a lesson to be in touch and grab what are crucial to us before they are gone.

Get a positive move...
 
what was your point?
She shouldn't be looking for a replacement that doesn't mean she should go back to the ex. Replacement in a way that not to look for the same things or qualities in her next man.
Every person is good in their own way, she can focus on their good parties rather than comparing ex boyfriend and the next.
 
Dear babe,

Nothing scares the shit out of me like the thought of 'what we have was never meant to be', been craving, dreaming and fighting for whatever little thing left in us but the naked truth is always been there yelling at me like 'sweetie, this ain't gonna work'.!!

Been together for sometime, we quarreled, been mad at each other for hours then we love again, we laughed our hearts out, shared funny, sweet-bitter, warm and remarkable moments together and yet this love ain't perfect, those will be the best memories that will always lives on in my heart, sadly this was never my plan for our worlds..!!

I can't really imagine how lamely each day of my life will pass without a special, smart, unique, funny, understandable, eloquent, adorable and an honest man like you into my life, I do really admire the person I am today, how blessed I am that I met you, you've been taught me ten million things, moreover you have been grappling for my self-control so that I can be the better woman, always grabbing the best out of me..!!

You've been one unique man to my heart at every point in my life, and for the very first time I've never afraid of loving someone this deep, Can't you see that there will be no light in my world without you in it.!? Don't you really know that you are the sun that is meant to brighten my world??

The vision is so dark and blurred in front of me, I don't see the clear and bright future before us, as I pictured the days ahead of me looks hazy, and my mind feel clogged with thoughts of how happy we would have been, as it has always been you and Only You..!!

It hurts me so badly knowing that things won't ever work out between us, But still that won't ever erase the Passion I have for you..!!

You have no idea how much my heart bleeds just knowing that you will NEVER BE MINE..!!

Why do I have feeling that this is for me . I know how yo write “Lee”.
 

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