baada ya kumchumbia ameanza kuniogopa

Ndugu zangu nimekuja kwenu kutaka ushauri mimi ni kijana mwenye umri wa 26 years nimetokea kumpenda binti mmoja kiukweli kwa mtazamo wa macho yangu naona dunia nzima hakuna kama yeye.Basi mtoto wa kiume nikajitosa kuchana mistari kiukweli binti akaniambia niende kwao basi nikamwambia mzee wangu kwani sisi tamaduni zetu mzazi ndie anantole mahali basi tangu hapo binti ananiogopa sana yaani nikutana nae anazuka ameangusha kitu anainama hawezi kuniangalia usokwa uso sasa jamani nisaidieni hivi hiyo na nyinyi imewahi kuwatokea?na inasababishwa na nini?

...baadhi ya makabila hizo ndo mila zao, so sio hatari ni ishara ya kumheshimu mume mtarajiwa...

Ni kawaida kwa msichana kuwa na aibu mbele ya mwanaume anayemtaka kimapenzi! Na hasa kama ni bikra!

Kula vitu hivo aibu zote zitaishaaa! (Did i just say that? Tell me i did not!)

pole, kadiri yangu naona hamja jiweka karibu mkazoeana, mna mda gani toka hiyo mistari hadi kuwajulisha wazazi? mme do? kama bado ndo maana yuko vile ukichungulia tu baaasi. pia anaweza akawa anazuga tu, inamaa huo uzuri umeuona wewe tu wanaume wengine hawajaona?

yaani huyu sili mzigo nasubiri ndoa mwezi wa 12

Duh! Sidhani kama haya izo zitaleta maana kimantik!
May b ndio UCHIZI WAKE! Coz nilisikia kila mtu ni chizi, tunatofautiana viwango na matumizi tu!

Atakaa sawa akishapata chakukipata.....

ni heshima kwa husband to be umh

lara 1 said:

Kula vitu hivo aibu zote zitaishaaa! (Did i just say that? Tell me i did not!)

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No you didn't, but ur fingers miss placed on the keyboard letters!

lara 1 said:

Kula vitu hivo aibu zote zitaishaaa! (Did i just say that? Tell me i did not!)

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Lara 1, sijui siku hizi ukoje...?? I don't want to believe you did.... This can't come out of Lara 1 I know JF-cally

Mtende said:

ni heshima kwa husband to be umh

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heshima! yawezekana anamuogopa jamaa, heshima haiko hivyo. Lakini mimi nahisi katafuta kitoto anakizidi miaka kadhaa kinaona aibu mtu sawa na uncle wake kukifuata!

Munkari said:

Ni kawaida kwa msichana kuwa na aibu mbele ya mwanaume anayemtaka kimapenzi! Na hasa kama ni bikra!

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Bikra..??? Siku hizi, labda za ndimu....

Ulitaka akutolee macho kama fundi saa kadondosha funguo!!!!!!

kamati said:

yaani huyu sili mzigo nasubiri ndoa mwezi wa 12

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Ni uamuzi mzuri nami nakushauri usile mzigo mpaka baada ya ndoa jambo hilo litakujengea heshima zaidi kwake na kuonyesha kuwa wewe si mtu wa papara kitu ambacho naamini ndivyo ulivyo.Mwezi wa 12 sio mbali ndugu haina haja ya haraka ya tendo hilo madhali mshaamua kuoana. Pia msisahau kupima. Kila la kheri na matayarisho ya harusi.

Mashaxizo said:

Duh! Sidhani kama haya izo zitaleta maana kimantik!
May b ndio UCHIZI WAKE! Coz nilisikia kila mtu ni chizi, tunatofautiana viwango na matumizi tu!

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mh!? we uchizi wako nini?

kamati said:

yaani huyu sili mzigo nasubiri ndoa mwezi wa 12

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ngoja niendele endelee nae mpaka hiyo dec..

Ngalikihinja said:

Bikra..??? Siku hizi, labda za ndimu....

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unataka kunambia wanaozaliwa sikuhizi wanaziacha tumboni mwa mama zao au?

lara 1 said:

Kula vitu hivo aibu zote zitaishaaa! (Did i just say that? Tell me i did not!)

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Ha! ha! ha!
Of course you did. Atutajie umri wa binti labda bado mdogo.

Hili ni kosa kubwa sana unafanya....kuassume kuwa mkioanamtakuwa ok. Baada ya miaka kadhaa ya ndoa, communication skills ni muhimu sana. Ndo maana wanasema marry the one who makes you laugh! Mie ningesepa hapo...sipendi mapozi!