Refer to the heading above, I joined JF with the intention to look for a male lover and partner with the following specifications ( Nimejiunga JF kutafuta mpenzi wa kiume mwenye vigezo vifuatavyo) in hopes to start a productive intimate relationship:
1. Height/Urefu: Taller than me(mrefu kuliko Mimi) I am 163cm.
2. BMI: Normal to a overweight I don't mind. Not underweight or obese. I normally range around normal to overweight too. I can say I'm kind of thick and there are activities I'll be doing with my future partner which do not require the disqualified characteristics.
3. Ethnicity: A Brown skinned African man preferably a Tanzanian from any tribe will be highly prioritised. I am a dark skinned Tanzanian woman. I won't mind a white or hispanic man, although I'm skeptical about them being in JF
4. Hygiene and general appearance: A clean man who can take care of his body eg. shaving pubes, nice hair style, well groomed nails, cleans teeth and tongue,nice scent. Also a man who is well dressed depending on the occasion.
He should be able to take care of himself and his stuff I mean, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning and so on.
5. Health: HIV negative, STIs/STDs negative, Vaccinated against hepatitis.
6. Proximity: A man who lives in Arusha or Kilimanjaro is preferred. If he lives in other regions its also okay, we could see where it goes. I find the idea of long distance relationship impractical.
7. Education: Degree and above. I'm still pursuing my degree.
8. Age: 27-33. I'm 23 y/o. The age range I chose is strictly based on biological reasons more than intellectual. I'm a strong believer that Intellectual maturity isn't age related.
9. Language of use: English or Swahili. English preferably, because I use it to communicate most of the times. Despite that, I'm not very fluent in either. But I do prefer good grammar in both languages. If written please use full form words, do not write vp, mrn, nyt,niaj...PLEASE DON'T! because at this point I won't care if you have a degree or you're LeBron James tall.
10. Intelligence: If you know that you are smart then we can get along. Let's talk about Jesse Ventura and his conspiracy theories and debate why cannabis should or shouldn't be legalized.
11. Good communication skills and emotional intelligence: Read that again.
This is the point of return. If you know you lack the ability to communicate well, explain your emotions like a rational human being, this is the point you stop reading this post.
Because of poor communication and lack of emotional intelligence some men act like jerks, revealing stupid traits like unnecessary jealousy and possessiveness. Mistaking them for love or care. Or some could waste my time because they can't explain what they want exactly.
Please be straight forward and emotional mature. Everyone has been a victim of something so please find a proper way to deal with it or communicate with me if possible but please don't throw a pity party. Playing a victim of heartbreak or childhood trauma and use it to waste my time is a bad bad idea.
If you are not ready just stop right here.
12. Habits: Please don't be a drunkard or extreme smoker. None to moderate is a motto for me when it comes to risky habits.
13. Behaviour: Respectful, Mature, Selflessness, good manners in general. Saying so doesn't mean you should be boring and obvious.
14. Relationship type: I prefer a monogamous relationship but I'm also okay with an open relationship.
15. Current relationship status: I am a single girl. I'm not interested in married men or those in a relationship already, sitaki complications kabisa. Single men, Bachelors I insist,are needed.
16. Sual activities: I'm sexually active, versatile and adventurous. I prefer that you are too. That size is important to me as I wrote earlier I'm thick, and the size is Important in this aspect.
I also like spontaneous sex and dislike talking alot about it than actually do it. I won't like to date a virgin man, but it will be interesting to meet one.
NB. I don't do anal sex and I use condoms at all times. Please don't send a PM pretending you're interested in dating but all you need is sex, I can smell bullshit miles away.
17. Trust: Well, I know you must have found the previous criteria interesting but believe me it doesn't work if you aren't an honest or trustworthy person. A monogamous or any other relationship doesn't work if you aren't true to yourself and others. Remember I'm looking for a lover and most importantly a partner. And partnership requires honesty and trust. Think hard about this.
18. Attractive sense of humour: Please don't be unnecessarily savage to be funny. If you're not then it's also cool, I also find serious men attractive and fun to pursue.
19. Confidence: What's sexier than a confident man? A man who is relaxed confident not a show off. I'm also confident but not much of an extrovert.
20. Hobbies: Definitely not hiking, I mean I hate hiking but if you love to, Yay! I'll be waiting for you when you come back home. We could go camping though, swimming, and do other fun activities
21. Diet: I'm not a vegan but I'm thinking of reducing my red meat intake. I'm not allergic to anything so far. It will be cool if you aren't allergic too but this is not a disqualifying criteria.
22. Values: I prefer a man who I share my values with. Saying so, a man who is of Christian faith is favourable, but at the same time I'm not a religious person at all. Political views don't matter to me. I generally think if we have a lot of similar personalities we will get along pretty well. As the saying goes, personalities last looks fade.
23. Other physical aspects: If you know you look good you can PM me. I believe I'm a beautiful lady.
Oh! Beards: Favourite physical aspect. It's also okay if you don't have one, you can still PM me. But please do have one
24. Kids: I won't like to date a man with a kid or kids already. I don't have any kid. I'm still old fashioned and I believe, that I should conceive and have a baby in marriage if I'm blessed enough.
25. Asiwe anaangalia Korean series. He could play FIFA though and all those things men do.I don't know much about football though, but I can tolerate that, not Korean series.
26. A man who has a life. I mean, sitafuti mwanaume anayewaza mapenzi 24/7. Get your priorities straight and pursue your life goals cause I'm doing the same and a relationship or anything else should not blind us from living our personal lives. A person with a boring unfocused life or without dreams and ambitions will be the same or worse in a relationship. Loving our lives first makes everything else amazing.
I'm patient and very serious about this. I emphasize again, small minded and immature men are not welcomed at all.
I think it's also important for you to understand that I'm not here for unecessary chit chats.
I believe getting a lover could be easy or hard, but being real makes things easier for both of us.
I hope that you understood me, I apologize for not being able to write in Swahili too for the reasons I explained earlier.
Looking forward to receiving a serious PM from you.
Sincerely,
Thatdumbgirl.
PS. I will not compromise any criteria unless you convince me enough. Otherwise, hasta la vista baby!
You see, the difference between me and you is that, my life is an ever ending adventure. Do not think everyone at thirty is busy hunting for spouses, some of us will have more interesting goals to pursue.Ukifika 30 utaacha hii michezo
Kama ana those criterias, I'm cool. Don't you think that a mpiga Debe is less than a man. He could have more sense than you and your entire clan combinedUtaolewa na mpiga debe na hutaamini
Aisee,umenena vemaKama ana those criterias, I'm cool. Don't you think that a mpiga Debe is less than a man. He could have more sense than you and your entire clan combined.
😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀Wow,what a women...Let us have a chart please!
And you are already saying, the US are the number one terrorists in the world.The 911 conspiracy theories sound convincing to me, I mean US is a great country and they will do anything even sacrifice their own to control weak potential countries. Such a well planned terrorist attact couldn't have been done by AlQaeeda alone.
And you are already saying, the US are the number one terrorists in the world.The 911 conspiracy theories sound convincing to me, I mean US is a great country and they will do anything even sacrifice their own to control weak potential countries. Such a well planned terrorist attact couldn't have been done by AlQaeeda alone.
Bahati mbaya hajazaliwa! HIVYO subiri!Refer to the heading above, I joined JF with the intention to look for a male lover and partner with the following specifications ( Nimejiunga JF kutafuta mpenzi wa kiume mwenye vigezo vifuatavyo) in hopes to start a productive intimate relationship:
1. Height/Urefu: Taller than me(mrefu kuliko Mimi) I am 163cm.
2. BMI: Normal to a overweight I don't mind. Not underweight or obese. I normally range around normal to overweight too. I can say I'm kind of thick and there are activities I'll be doing with my future partner which do not require the disqualified characteristics.
3. Ethnicity: A Brown skinned African man preferably a Tanzanian from any tribe will be highly prioritised. I am a dark skinned Tanzanian woman. I won't mind a white or hispanic man, although I'm skeptical about them being in JF
4. Hygiene and general appearance: A clean man who can take care of his body eg. shaving pubes, nice hair style, well groomed nails, cleans teeth and tongue,nice scent. Also a man who is well dressed depending on the occasion.
He should be able to take care of himself and his stuff I mean, doing laundry, cooking, cleaning and so on.
5. Health: HIV negative, STIs/STDs negative, Vaccinated against hepatitis.
6. Proximity: A man who lives in Arusha or Kilimanjaro is preferred. If he lives in other regions its also okay, we could see where it goes. I find the idea of long distance relationship impractical.
7. Education: Degree and above. I'm still pursuing my degree.
8. Age: 27-33. I'm 23 y/o. The age range I chose is strictly based on biological reasons more than intellectual. I'm a strong believer that Intellectual maturity isn't age related.
9. Language of use: English or Swahili. English preferably, because I use it to communicate most of the times. Despite that, I'm not very fluent in either. But I do prefer good grammar in both languages. If written please use full form words, do not write vp, mrn, nyt,niaj...PLEASE DON'T! because at this point I won't care if you have a degree or you're LeBron James tall.
10. Intelligence: If you know that you are smart then we can get along. Let's talk about Jesse Ventura and his conspiracy theories and debate why cannabis should or shouldn't be legalized.
11. Good communication skills and emotional intelligence: Read that again.
This is the point of return. If you know you lack the ability to communicate well, explain your emotions like a rational human being, this is the point you stop reading this post.
Because of poor communication and lack of emotional intelligence some men act like jerks, revealing stupid traits like unnecessary jealousy and possessiveness. Mistaking them for love or care. Or some could waste my time because they can't explain what they want exactly.
Please be straight forward and emotional mature. Everyone has been a victim of something so please find a proper way to deal with it or communicate with me if possible but please don't throw a pity party. Playing a victim of heartbreak or childhood trauma and use it to waste my time is a bad bad idea.
If you are not ready just stop right here.
12. Habits: Please don't be a drunkard or extreme smoker. None to moderate is a motto for me when it comes to risky habits.
13. Behaviour: Respectful, Mature, Selflessness, good manners in general. Saying so doesn't mean you should be boring and obvious.
14. Relationship type: I prefer a monogamous relationship but I'm also okay with an open relationship.
15. Current relationship status: I am a single girl. I'm not interested in married men or those in a relationship already, sitaki complications kabisa. Single men, Bachelors I insist,are needed.
16. Sual activities: I'm sexually active, versatile and adventurous. I prefer that you are too. That size is important to me as I wrote earlier I'm thick, and the size is Important in this aspect.
I also like spontaneous sex and dislike talking alot about it than actually do it. I won't like to date a virgin man, but it will be interesting to meet one.
NB. I don't do anal sex and I use condoms at all times. Please don't send a PM pretending you're interested in dating but all you need is sex, I can smell bullshit miles away.
17. Trust: Well, I know you must have found the previous criteria interesting but believe me it doesn't work if you aren't an honest or trustworthy person. A monogamous or any other relationship doesn't work if you aren't true to yourself and others. Remember I'm looking for a lover and most importantly a partner. And partnership requires honesty and trust. Think hard about this.
18. Attractive sense of humour: Please don't be unnecessarily savage to be funny. If you're not then it's also cool, I also find serious men attractive and fun to pursue.
19. Confidence: What's sexier than a confident man? A man who is relaxed confident not a show off. I'm also confident but not much of an extrovert.
20. Hobbies: Definitely not hiking, I mean I hate hiking but if you love to, Yay! I'll be waiting for you when you come back home. We could go camping though, swimming, and do other fun activities
21. Diet: I'm not a vegan but I'm thinking of reducing my red meat intake. I'm not allergic to anything so far. It will be cool if you aren't allergic too but this is not a disqualifying criteria.
22. Values: I prefer a man who I share my values with. Saying so, a man who is of Christian faith is favourable, but at the same time I'm not a religious person at all. Political views don't matter to me. I generally think if we have a lot of similar personalities we will get along pretty well. As the saying goes, personalities last looks fade.
23. Other physical aspects: If you know you look good you can PM me. I believe I'm a beautiful lady.
Oh! Beards: Favourite physical aspect. It's also okay if you don't have one, you can still PM me. But please do have one
24. Kids: I won't like to date a man with a kid or kids already. I don't have any kid. I'm still old fashioned and I believe, that I should conceive and have a baby in marriage if I'm blessed enough.
25. Asiwe anaangalia Korean series. He could play FIFA though and all those things men do.I don't know much about football though, but I can tolerate that, not Korean series.
26. A man who has a life. I mean, sitafuti mwanaume anayewaza mapenzi 24/7. Get your priorities straight and pursue your life goals cause I'm doing the same and a relationship or anything else should not blind us from living our personal lives. A person with a boring unfocused life or without dreams and ambitions will be the same or worse in a relationship. Loving our lives first makes everything else amazing.
I'm patient and very serious about this. I emphasize again, small minded and immature men are not welcomed at all.
I think it's also important for you to understand that I'm not here for unecessary chit chats.
I believe getting a lover could be easy or hard, but being real makes things easier for both of us.
I hope that you understood me, I apologize for not being able to write in Swahili too for the reasons I explained earlier.
Looking forward to receiving a serious PM from you.
Sincerely,
Thatdumbgirl.
PS. I will not compromise any criteria unless you convince me enough. Otherwise, hasta la vista baby!
I have strong belief that the two attacks recently done by Houthishhave all the blessings from US.What other conspiracy theory you believe ?
i do believe it was CIA who killed JFK..
Bro, huyu dada kama umemkosa basi ni kwa sababu ya hii your welcome 😄😄😄Your welcome pm cherrie
Can explain in briefly plz?I have strong belief that the two attacks recently done by Houthishhave all the blessings from US.
I am sure Thatdumbgirl knows this
Nyie wadada warembo bhana. Hahaahsijui kama atakuelewa
I really dont think watu ni waoga kama udhanivyo.Honestly,nimegundua watu ni waoga sana. People have to question what other people will think before doing anything, na hili linarudisha sana watu nyuma. Na sio kwenye mapenzi tu, hata maisha in general.
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By the time these people realise that it was important to make their life a priority and be selfish at times, it's too late.
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So I don't give a fig about negative criticism.
Kwa wale wote waliopoteza muda wao settling for less and they now regret about it, all those who are trying to project their relationship failures on me, all those who are trying to compare themselves to me, napenda kuwapa pole sana, na kuwashauri pengine its not too late.
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Sending y'all my love and light.
Ulipotelea wapi jamani??I really dont think watu ni waoga kama udhanivyo.
I just think (which you will disagree) that, you are 23 years old and these people have seen these stuffs one too many times in their lives.
I really think, you are on your fantasy planet.
But I also feel, you are intelligent on your own way!
If she comes, I strongly advice you to use swahili instead.Highly IQ with highly strong women, plz be like what you want to be. Good women in good vision at a right time. I want to be yours because you have criteria what I want my lover one to be. Just come my dear for more discussion concerned what we want to be.