20 Questions To Ask Your Potential Spouse

[ndetichia]

maswali kama uko kwenye intavua bwana wakati unataka nonilihino tu..

 

[Money Stunna]

khaaaaa!!!!!!!! mbona kama ni interview ya kutafuta ajira hii.

hiyo ni interview ya kutafuta love au relationship

 

[Money Stunna]

majibu yake tunayafanyeje sasa?

majibu yataonyesha kama unaweza kuwa nae au umbwage

 

[Money Stunna]

Haya mnaotafuta ndoa mkuje na macounter book mdese huku

bila kusahau peni ya kuandikia

 

[Decapitator]

LOVE ISN'T MATHS.... never theoretical!
Wake Up.......

 

[Kanazi]

So, here are 20 questions to ask a potential spouse. These are just suggestions, and by no means should all of them be asked on a first date. If a question doesn’t feel right to you, then don’t ask it. Or, just replace it with one that is not on the list. The point is to get singles who desire to be married to think carefully about what’s important to them and then to have open communication about these issues before marriage. There are plenty of married and divorced people who wish they had asked the tough questions before saying “I do.”

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1. Do you have any life-threatening or incurable diseases?

2. Do you have any children? If so, how integral are they in your life?

3. What are your short term and long term goals?

4. What does financial stability mean to you?

5. What is your relationship like with your parents?

6. How often do you go to church, pray, read your Bible?

7. What gives you joy in life?

8. Do you have a criminal history or record?

9. Do you date men or women exclusively?

10. How many s*xual partners have you had?

11. What do you do when you get angry?

12. Do you have a job? How long have you been working/unemployed?

13. What was your last relationship like? How long ago was it?

14. What are you looking for in a mate?

15. Do you have crazy men or women calling, texting, or stalking you? Should I be afraid?

16. Are there many strong marriages in your family history?

17. What’s the one thing you don’t like about yourself?

18. Do you have any deal breakers for relationships?

19. What do you believe are the roles for men and women in relationships?

20. Do you desire to marry?

Kwa mademu wa kiswahili ninaowajua,utapigwa kamba mpaka uchanganyikiwe,kitu cha msingi km ingekuwani mm,nisingeuliza hayo maswali direct kiasi hicho ila ninge-observe kwa kufanya kitu inaitwa "Participant observation" ambapo ningemuuliza hayo maswali indirect na very informally na angejibu unconscious kuwa nataka kujua hicho alichojibu. Kwa wenzetu wa huko mbele unaweza kuuliza namna hiyo na kupata honest answeres,co hao wa kwetu kaka

 

[Mahondaw]

ukishamaliza kumuuliza sidhan kama utamuona tena!!

 

[Mahondaw]

yakuambiwa ongeza na ya akili ya kuzaliwa! pia waswahil wasema mtu aweza ongea maneno meeeengi kama 100 iv bt yakweli yakawa ma5 tu!

 

[NIFEDIPINE]

si nakudanganya tuu,nasoma saikolojia yako nakupa majibu unayoyapenda,full stop

 

[Mwadunda]

khaaaaa!!!!!!!! mbona kama ni interview ya kutafuta ajira hii.

Hata ndoa ni mkataba vilevile detail za mhimu lazima japo sio lazima yote yafanykie kwa siku moja.

 

[Husninyo]

mkijipa muda mambo yote hayo utayajua bila hata kuuliza.

 

[Husninyo]

Binadam hujitambua anapokumbwa na tatizo (A. de Saint Exupéry).
Majibu yangu yanaweza kua 'perfect' ila utendaji ukawa different. Muhimu ni kujuana values na principples, and how commited we are to them. In that way it is easy to predict how one behaves or would behave in such and such circumstance

cousin nakumiss sana.

 

[Money Stunna]

si nakudanganya tuu,nasoma saikolojia yako nakupa majibu unayoyapenda,full stop

ukidanganya mwisho wa siku ukweli ukijulikana kinachofuata ni kuachana

 

[Mungo Park]

So, here are 20 questions to ask a potential spouse.

1. Do you have any life-threatening or incurable diseases?

Nafikiri ilitakiwa iwe '20 things to know from potential spouse'. Kwa ujumla maswali kama haya huwezi kuuliza 'direct' lakini ukijipa muda utafahamu tu. Ingawa kwa kawaida tunaweza kubeza hivi vitu lakini mara nyingi hutusumbua sana katika mahusiano.Hivyo ni vizuri kuingia katika mahusiano/ndoa ukiwa unajua 'risk involved'.
Kwa mfano, kujua hali ya magonjwa ya kurithi ya mwenza ni muhimu. Katika maisha ya kawaida utakuta baba ana pumu (asthma),mama ana pumu na watoto wanarithi pumu. Kama ulilijua kabla ya mahusiano basi itakupa ufahamu wa kujiandaa ukijua kuwa kuna uwezekano watoto wanaweza wakaurithi na pia kulea familia yenye huu ugonjwa ni changamoto ya aina yake. Magonjwa mengine ni kama 'sickle cell' n.k.

 

[Mentor]

Binadam hujitambua anapokumbwa na tatizo (A. de Saint Exupéry).
Majibu yangu yanaweza kua 'perfect' ila utendaji ukawa different. Muhimu ni kujuana values na principples, and how commited we are to them. In that way it is easy to predict how one behaves or would behave in such and such circumstance

Hapana Mwali,

Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.

Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.

FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.



Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!

 

[mwallu]

hapo ni ukweli haswaa..
ukikosa subira unaengeneza questionaire kabisa unamgawia ajaze lolz

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Hapana Mwali,

Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.

Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.

FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.
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Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!

 

[Mentor]

hapo ni ukweli haswaa..
ukikosa subira unaengeneza questionaire kabisa unamgawia ajaze lolz

Unapoelekea parokiani kusali pitia hapa kwangu nikupe nakala yako...utanirudishia ndani ya siku mbili iikiwa imejazwa yote!

 

[mwallu]

siku ishirini..kila swali siku moja..maana kila swali majibu ni page moja
napitia saivi tu..weka na muhuri kabisa

Unapoelekea parokiani kusali pitia hapa kwangu nikupe nakala yako...utanirudishia ndani ya siku mbili iikiwa imejazwa yote!

 

[bona]

kumuuliza mtu ashawai kua na wachumba wangapi b4 itakusaidia nini? alafu ukishajibiwa tafsiri yako ni nini? kwa kifupi mengi kati ya hayo utajibiwa uongo so utakua umepoteza tu mda wako na ukipewa majibu correct hakika hutakua na hamu ya kuendelea na huyo mtu in other word hutapata mpenzi kama kweli utapewa correct answers!!! ndo mana waswahili wakasema ''ukimchunguza sana bata utashindwa kumla'' pole wenzio kwa bata tunakula foie gras!!!!

 

[miss chagga]

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Hapana Mwali,

Uelewa wangu ni kwamba haya maswali (whether asked directly, indirectly, or by any other means) majibu yake ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu.

Whether utayafahamu with muda, kupitia maongezi yake, vitendo, marafiki au any other means..ni MUHIMU SANA kuyafahamu majibu yake KABLA hujaamua kusema ndiyo na kuanza mahusiano.

FAILURE TO DO SO: Parking at Your OWN RISK.
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Cc: Heaven on Earth, mwallu, brenda18, miss chagga, christine ibrahim, lara 1, Smile!!!

yani huu ni ukweli usioepukika!!!!