Why i don't feel anything when people die?

[amadala]

Let me add more to Mpwayungu Village comment;
Help for what, why and how?
If your heart is precisely the same way you explained above,
It is truly difficult to teach someone to cry.
You're born with a heart like an iron then live with it.
We have different levels of receiving things,
We can never be the same.

 

[smarte_r]

We have been told to be sad about death, but I have never felt sadness when a close one dies. I usually induce myself into an emotional state of expressing sadness, out of respect for people around me. But you can say in a sense it is acting, because I don’t know what else to do. I am able to see that whoever lost their loved one is suffering great emotional pain, and that’s not the time to be like “Oh this doesn’t affect me emotionally”.

So I try to empathize and share their sadness. But personally, I myself don’t feel sad that they died. I feel immensely pained when they suffer before their death. I feel frustrated when I can’t do anything to relieve their suffering. That impacts me deeply. But death itself.. why should we be sad about that? If we celebrate birth then we should celebrate death too, shouldn’t we?

Birth and death are a cycle, why celebrate one and mourn the other? Both are milestones in a person’s journey, both are equal events in my opinion. We should celebrate both the same way. In fact I would say, being born into this miserable world of body and disease is a more sad event than leaving it. So it is better if we celebrate their leaving and mourn it when someone is born [emoji846].

But it does make a difference how someone died. A sudden violent death like an accident, would make me immensely pained, because that’s a painful and brutal death for that person. Still, it is not the death itself that I am mourning. It is the suffering they went through and the suffering their loved ones go through, that makes me cry.

Help please.

next time uki copy article kama hii usisahu kumu acknowledge original author. kutofanya hivyo hivyo ni kosa ambalo kwa kimatumbi linafahamika kama "plagiarism".

shida ni nini?, ulitaka jamii ya wanaJF wakuone wewe ni bingwa wa kingereza?. acha ushamba.

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[amadala]

next time uki copy article kama hii usisahu kumu acknowledge original author. kutofanya hivyo hivyo ni kosa ambalo kwa kimatumbi linafahamika kama "plagiarism".

shida ni nini?, ulitaka jamii ya wanaJF wakuone wewe ni bingwa wa kingereza?. acha ushamba.

Why don't I feel anything when people die?
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I had to take a look of an article this ATTENTION SEEKER trying to waste our time here.
Next time be more creative make a translation English to Swahili language at least we will acknowledge your efforts.

 

[The patriot man]

next time uki copy article kama hii usisahu kumu acknowledge original author. kutofanya hivyo hivyo ni kosa ambalo kwa kimatumbi linafahamika kama "plagiarism".

shida ni nini?, ulitaka jamii ya wanaJF wakuone wewe ni bingwa wa kingereza?. acha ushamba.

https://www.quora.com/Why-dont-I-fe...hare=c7865dba&srid=hp4ai4&target_type=answer
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Tatizo sio ku copy the same situation ambayo ninayo mimi that why nimeileta huku.

 

[The patriot man]

I had to take a look of an article this ATTENTION SEEKER trying to waste our time here.
Next time be more creative make a translation English to Swahili language at least we will acknowledge your efforts.

I have the same situation, that why i shared with you guy's.

 

[smarte_r]

Tatizo sio ku copy the same situation ambayo ninayo mimi that why nimeileta huku.

Kuna akili....that's is a stupid excuse. you should at least acknowledge the author regardless how his/her article affects you.

 

[Old - Hand]

Tatizo sio ku copy the same situation ambayo ninayo mimi that why nimeileta huku.

Aah aah umenyooshwa hadi umeongea kwa lugha ya Taifa

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[smarte_r]

Aah aah umenyooshwa hadi umeongea kwa lugha ya Taifa

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Asicheze na watu wa JF...[emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787][emoji1787]

 

[philos]

We have been told to be sad about death, but I have never felt sadness when a close one dies. I usually induce myself into an emotional state of expressing sadness, out of respect for people around me. But you can say in a sense it is acting,

I too I feel the same. It is the suffering that makes me sad but death NO. I know for sure one-day I will depart from this world now why should I be sorry for?

For many people especially Africans become sad because of the dependency, gains we will me miss from the deceased and not his death!

 

[Josey j]

May be you will feel sadnes until your close family member pass away.

 

[The patriot man]

I too I feel the same. It is the suffering that makes me sad but death NO. I know for sure one-day I will depart from this world now why should I be sorry for?
For many people especially Africans become sad because of the dependency, gains we will me miss from the deceased and not his death!

Sound very well.

 

[Vishu Mtata]

Yes ilishatokeaga

Ulifiwa na hukuumia??
Sijui kama ni tatizo au lah.

 

[To yeye]

Why I'm like this ? Do ya think I'm a normal person unh?

You are normal person...just relax,ila nahisi pia bado kamzigo kamaana hakajasepa.Utalia tu,utaumia tu

 

[Dr am 4 real PhD]

We have been told to be sad about death, but I have never felt sadness when a close one dies. I usually induce myself into an emotional state of expressing sadness, out of respect for people around me. But you can say in a sense it is acting, because I don’t know what else to do. I am able to see that whoever lost their loved one is suffering great emotional pain, and that’s not the time to be like “Oh this doesn’t affect me emotionally”.

So I try to empathize and share their sadness. But personally, I myself don’t feel sad that they died. I feel immensely pained when they suffer before their death. I feel frustrated when I can’t do anything to relieve their suffering. That impacts me deeply. But death itself.. why should we be sad about that? If we celebrate birth then we should celebrate death too, shouldn’t we?

Birth and death are a cycle, why celebrate one and mourn the other? Both are milestones in a person’s journey, both are equal events in my opinion. We should celebrate both the same way. In fact I would say, being born into this miserable world of body and disease is a more sad event than leaving it. So it is better if we celebrate their leaving and mourn it when someone is born [emoji846].

But it does make a difference how someone died. A sudden violent death like an accident, would make me immensely pained, because that’s a painful and brutal death for that person. Still, it is not the death itself that I am mourning. It is the suffering they went through and the suffering their loved ones go through, that makes me cry.

Help please.

Huwa inatokea ukipata maumivu na moyo ukawa sugu....

 

[DeepPond]

Kwani jukwaa gani hili[emoji848]

 

[Chura]

We are the same. I have never experienced an emotionally of pain or sadness when person die. I like this and am happy of this. Sikumbuki ni miaka mingap nahudhulia misiba since sio lazima dead body izikwe na kila mtu

Daah afadhali ulivyorudi kwenye kimatumbi chetu maana ulikua unaharibu jumla jumla🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

 

[mwayena]

Navofaham, moja ya dalili ya wale watu wa kipekee wanaita psychophants... Ni watu wa kipekee hakika.

 

[Holly Star]

We have been told to be sad about death, but I have never felt sadness when a close one dies. I usually induce myself into an emotional state of expressing sadness, out of respect for people around me. But you can say in a sense it is acting, because I don’t know what else to do. I am able to see that whoever lost their loved one is suffering great emotional pain, and that’s not the time to be like “Oh this doesn’t affect me emotionally”.

So I try to empathize and share their sadness. But personally, I myself don’t feel sad that they died. I feel immensely pained when they suffer before their death. I feel frustrated when I can’t do anything to relieve their suffering. That impacts me deeply. But death itself.. why should we be sad about that? If we celebrate birth then we should celebrate death too, shouldn’t we?

Birth and death are a cycle, why celebrate one and mourn the other? Both are milestones in a person’s journey, both are equal events in my opinion. We should celebrate both the same way. In fact I would say, being born into this miserable world of body and disease is a more sad event than leaving it. So it is better if we celebrate their leaving and mourn it when someone is born [emoji846].

But it does make a difference how someone died. A sudden violent death like an accident, would make me immensely pained, because that’s a painful and brutal death for that person. Still, it is not the death itself that I am mourning. It is the suffering they went through and the suffering their loved ones go through, that makes me cry.

Help please.

Uko kama mimi, naamini ni sehem ya maisha

 

[Holly Star]

We are the same. I have never experienced an emotionally of pain or sadness when person die. I like this and am happy of this. Sikumbuki ni miaka mingap nahudhulia misiba since sio lazima dead body izikwe na kila mtu

Tupo wengi aisee

 

[Poker]

We have been told to be sad about death, but I have never felt sadness when a close one dies. I usually induce myself into an emotional state of expressing sadness, out of respect for people around me. But you can say in a sense it is acting, because I don’t know what else to do. I am able to see that whoever lost their loved one is suffering great emotional pain, and that’s not the time to be like “Oh this doesn’t affect me emotionally”.

So I try to empathize and share their sadness. But personally, I myself don’t feel sad that they died. I feel immensely pained when they suffer before their death. I feel frustrated when I can’t do anything to relieve their suffering. That impacts me deeply. But death itself.. why should we be sad about that? If we celebrate birth then we should celebrate death too, shouldn’t we?

Birth and death are a cycle, why celebrate one and mourn the other? Both are milestones in a person’s journey, both are equal events in my opinion. We should celebrate both the same way. In fact I would say, being born into this miserable world of body and disease is a more sad event than leaving it. So it is better if we celebrate their leaving and mourn it when someone is born [emoji846].

But it does make a difference how someone died. A sudden violent death like an accident, would make me immensely pained, because that’s a painful and brutal death for that person. Still, it is not the death itself that I am mourning. It is the suffering they went through and the suffering their loved ones go through, that makes me cry.

Help please.

Because your also Dead a living dead!