Why do women always fall in a wrong choice?

Kimemeta

Kimemeta

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Kama heading inavyoonesha,

Decent and husband materials wengi wanawakosa wanawake wanaowahitaji maana wanawakatalia lakini cha ajabu wanawake hao hao wanaangukia kwa hopeless men, players etc na wanaishia kuumizwa tu.

Shida ni nini hapa?
 
1. The “Loop Effect”

This one is relevant to men that can be classified as “playboys” or “bad boys.” Initially, this type of guy will lavishly give attention to his object of interest. However, this undivided attention he quickly takes away; it’s taken away for the sole purpose of inviting a “chase.” Too often, the woman is all-to-willing to oblige.

After a while, the man will “take back” the woman only to repeat the cycle. We call this the “loop effect,” and it’s effective because the woman remembers the initial feelings of elation for having “won back” the bad boy. It is this emotion that makes it tempting to repeat the loop every time the man starts one.

2. Being Nice is Boring

This is a very popular theory that is, in all likelihood, an absolute fact. When we think about all of the nice “things” we’ve accumulated in life, many of them gave us a strong sense of satisfaction in the beginning. Because there is something that clicks in our brain that makes nice things seem “not so nice” after a period of time.

In many ways – as bad as this may sound – much is the same in terms of a woman’s psychological perspective when dating “nice guys.” Really, they’re just not all that fun after a while. Meanwhile, “bad boys” provide a constant challenge with a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow: the bad boy settles down with them. Of course, this doesn’t happen 99 percent of the time.

3. The Wrong Guy Is More Attractive

Bad boys usually evoke an aura of confidence that woman find instantly attractive. Should the man also have physical appeal, well it’s pretty much a done deal. The Wrong Guy is often condescending and cocky, which some women find instantly attractive too.

Most women ultimately want one person they can spend the rest of their lives with. Before that happens, however, it is common for them to explore their naughty and lustful side. And make no mistake, the Wrong Guy will indeed provide this.

It just doesn’t usually end well.

4. The Wrong Guy Is a Challenge

Another uncomfortable truth: most men have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Nice guys have an innate tendency of “opening up” too soon. They’re ready to give their heart away, and give the woman whatever she desires.

But here’s the problem: it’s not attractive at all. Think of the most popular dude in high school – the stereotypical jock with muscles and a strong personality. Two things are most likely true: (1) the man probably had an indifferent attitude towards girls, and (2) the girls he “got with” were the “cream of the crop.”

An attitude of indifference in a man can be very appealing to women. Indifference means a challenge, and a challenge means a (very unlikely) rewards

5. Repeating Past Mistakes

In an ideal scenario, the woman will learn from her mistakes and find someone emotionally-healthy for her. Some women, however, never learn – no matter how many times they’ve been left broken hearted and with no man to show for it
C $P
 
Maplayers na wavivu wa maisha huwa ni masharobaro na good looking guys ambao ndio mabinti huwazimikia, wenye sura za kiume huwa ni wastaarabu, decents, hard working na huwa hawapendi starehe na anasa ambapo wadada huwaona washamba na walugaluga.
 
Revolution said:
Maplayers na wavivu wa maisha huwa ni masharobaro na good looking guys ambao ndio mabinti huwazimikia, wenye sura za kiume huwa ni wastaarabu, decents, hard working na huwa hawapendi starehe na anasa ambapo wadada huwaona washamba na walugaluga.
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Absolutely truth
 
Revolution said:
Maplayers na wavivu wa maisha huwa ni masharobaro na good looking guys ambao ndio mabinti huwazimikia, wenye sura za kiume huwa ni wastaarabu, decents, hard working na huwa hawapendi starehe na anasa ambapo wadada huwaona washamba na walugaluga.
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Hawajui wakitakacho!
 
Ustaarabu ni m baya sana kwenye mapenzi mbaya zaidi ukishaumbwa hivyo ndo basi tena
 
Bacyclerbacy said:
1. The “Loop Effect”

This one is relevant to men that can be classified as “playboys” or “bad boys.” Initially, this type of guy will lavishly give attention to his object of interest. However, this undivided attention he quickly takes away; it’s taken away for the sole purpose of inviting a “chase.” Too often, the woman is all-to-willing to oblige.

After a while, the man will “take back” the woman only to repeat the cycle. We call this the “loop effect,” and it’s effective because the woman remembers the initial feelings of elation for having “won back” the bad boy. It is this emotion that makes it tempting to repeat the loop every time the man starts one.

2. Being Nice is Boring

This is a very popular theory that is, in all likelihood, an absolute fact. When we think about all of the nice “things” we’ve accumulated in life, many of them gave us a strong sense of satisfaction in the beginning. Because there is something that clicks in our brain that makes nice things seem “not so nice” after a period of time.

In many ways – as bad as this may sound – much is the same in terms of a woman’s psychological perspective when dating “nice guys.” Really, they’re just not all that fun after a while. Meanwhile, “bad boys” provide a constant challenge with a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow: the bad boy settles down with them. Of course, this doesn’t happen 99 percent of the time.

3. The Wrong Guy Is More Attractive

Bad boys usually evoke an aura of confidence that woman find instantly attractive. Should the man also have physical appeal, well it’s pretty much a done deal. The Wrong Guy is often condescending and cocky, which some women find instantly attractive too.

Most women ultimately want one person they can spend the rest of their lives with. Before that happens, however, it is common for them to explore their naughty and lustful side. And make no mistake, the Wrong Guy will indeed provide this.

It just doesn’t usually end well.

4. The Wrong Guy Is a Challenge

Another uncomfortable truth: most men have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Nice guys have an innate tendency of “opening up” too soon. They’re ready to give their heart away, and give the woman whatever she desires.

But here’s the problem: it’s not attractive at all. Think of the most popular dude in high school – the stereotypical jock with muscles and a strong personality. Two things are most likely true: (1) the man probably had an indifferent attitude towards girls, and (2) the girls he “got with” were the “cream of the crop.”

An attitude of indifference in a man can be very appealing to women. Indifference means a challenge, and a challenge means a (very unlikely) rewards

5. Repeating Past Mistakes

In an ideal scenario, the woman will learn from her mistakes and find someone emotionally-healthy for her. Some women, however, never learn – no matter how many times they’ve been left broken hearted and with no man to show for it
C $P
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Kweli, ingawa nimeelewa nusu nusu.
 
Kimemeta said:
Kama heading inavyoonesha,

Decent and husband materials wengi wanawakosa wanawake wanaowahitaji maana wanawakatalia lakini cha ajabu wanawake hao hao wanaangukia kwa hopeless men, players etc na wanaishia kuumizwa tu.

Shida ni nini hapa?
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Bad Boyz ndio Wana skills za kuwaibua watoto wakali
 
Kimemeta said:
Kama heading inavyoonesha,

Decent and husband materials wengi wanawakosa wanawake wanaowahitaji maana wanawakatalia lakini cha ajabu wanawake hao hao wanaangukia kwa hopeless men, players etc na wanaishia kuumizwa tu.

Shida ni nini hapa?
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Wana sababu nyingi za historia ktk mahusiano , na sababu hizo huwa zina dosari nyingi ,ndipo wanajikuta hawana hawana na kupumzikia
 
Sasa toka lini mwanamke akataka jitu linamchekea ovyo,kila kitu linakubali,linatoa hela ovyo ovyo,linamuendekeza akifanya upuuzi mwanamke, lenyewe linaomba msamaha....hizo ndo sifa ambazo wanaume wanadhani ukimfanyia mwanamke unampata,linapiga simu ovyo,halina hobby wala halina vitu vya kufanya,haliwezi kumkosoa mwanamke in very serious way,..halafu wanawake walivyo na vichwa vigumu fanya kinyume cha hivyo ndo unawapata wengi bila ht kutumia nguvu..
 
wanawake wanapenda drama, decent men are always focused, serious and determined. we rarely have time for dramas.
 
ni ngumu said:
Sasa toka lini mwanamke akataka jitu linamchekea ovyo,kila kitu linakubali,linatoa hela ovyo ovyo,linamuendekeza akifanya upuuzi mwanamke, lenyewe linaomba msamaha....hizo ndo sifa ambazo wanaume wanadhani ukimfanyia mwanamke unampata,linapiga simu ovyo,halina hobby wala halina vitu vya kufanya,haliwezi kumkosoa mwanamke in very serious way,..halafu wanawake walivyo na vichwa vigumu fanya kinyume cha hivyo ndo unawapata wengi bila ht kutumia nguvu..
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Bas wacha waendelee kulizwa,tusisikie malalamiko hapo.
 
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