Why do some men treat their wives with so much hatred and cruelty but treat the woman outside like a queen, I don't get it. Guys don't take it personal here but am being frank with my question coz a lot of married woman are crying and smiling at same time coz they have no choice, you are married to a man that neglect and treat u like u don't exist why? They will not take care of their homes, they are, never there for their wives prefer to spend time with women outside, provide more for them than their wives, pay more attention to girls that are dating two or three men same time. A man that is blessed with a beautiful wife and kids, things are going well for you I believe u have been favored by GOD, then your obligations are to love and cherish what GOD has given to you. The Bible does say in Galatians 6:7-8, "Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. The Bible says in Song of Solomon 8:7, "Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned." There are many good reasons to get married: for companionship and friendship, to have children, and to satisfy your physical and emotional needs of love. These are all good reasons that God created for marriage. so why suffer and neglect the woman you ones told "I love you", she hardly sees her husband, he talks to his girlfriends in her presence not even a little respect for her, calls the shorts the way he likes like she does not exist, women can not commit adultery like the way men do it with free mind, why don't they value and treat their women with respect; a lot use culture to subdue them with the fact that they are men and is meant to be so! WHAT IS THE BIG REASON? SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE.