Yesterday I was ago between, trying to resolve a conflict between my friend and his girlfriend. The subject was abortion. The guy started showing his dubious acts to his girlfriend when she told her that she's pregnant. Due to such situation she took a very strong decision "abortion". After a few days she called his boyfriend and told him that she decided to abort since she was not ready for parenting. The guy fumed, and he asked me to escort him up to where she puts up. For sure I had never seen such a strong lady like her. (kama wanawake wote wange kua hivi basi 95% ya wanaume katika mapenzi adabu wange shika). When I told her, shemeji, you did a very bad decision. She narrowly raised dust on me, I had to position myself ready for hundred meters race! She replied kwa hasira; "you men, you are so ignorant, you are speaking out against something you have no first hand knowledge or experience with. How can anyone of you who've never had an abortion even know of the emotional trauma a woman goes through before and after she makes the decision to kill the thing growing inside of her? By the way, aren't you men, as a matter of fact, the reason we women have abortions in the first place?" duh! Nilikosa la kujibu. Tulienda wababe wote tukanywea. Nika mwambia jamaa yangu man, we can't amend anything here and we can't bring back the life of that fetus, the only thing is to try make sure that this doesn't happen again. I just wanted to share with you guys that when a lady decides to take an abortion it's not an easy venture. Anyone or anything that gets in the way of an already dicey and slippery situation is not necessarily helping. By asking a woman to wait, you are just making her desperate for a solution. Men we should never make women desperate in the first place. It's just not fair.