I was in a rship with this guy for close to 3yrs. we had our share of ups and downs. though i wanted to marry him, i was afraid coz he was not open and we always had problems communicating.our rship hit the rocks due to this, he always came out defensive on very important issues about the future. So i chose to move on with my life, we didnt break up, i moved to a different city, a couple of months after i had moved, a friend of mine told me that he was getting married. I wanted to die to say the least. it was painful but i survived. now three months after he got married, he started writing to me, he apologised alot and told me how he regrets everything, that he married a woman he does not love and that he wants a second chance,anyway, to cut the story short, the wife has already left. He thinks we have a chance to make things work again. Please advice me,what wd u do if you were in my shoes. Confused!
Ukumbi wa siasa naona unichanganya sana. Hebu ngoja nijaribu mambo ya mapenzi...lol
Anyway....
Shishi,
Naona una mtihani mkubwa sana.
Swali Muhimu
Ilikuwaje akaweza kusonga mbele haraka hivyo mpaka kufikia hatua ya kuoa?
....i was afraid coz he was not open and we always had problems communicating.....he always came out defensive on very important issues about the future.....He thinks we have a chance to make things work again.....
Mhhhhhhhhhhhh
mawasiliano ni kitu muhmu sana kwa kila binadamu,
Hili swala la kutokujuliana hali wakati kila mmoja yuko mbali na upeo wa macho ya mwenzie ndio kikwazo na sumu ya mapenzi.
Ni kweli mtihani mgumu and i have alot of answered questions, also its difficult to change someone so japo bado nampenda, am afraid that it will be history repeating itself.
Pia mkatalie, hakuna sex hadi siku ya arusi!!
Je Mwislam au Mkristo?
I was in a rship with this guy for close to 3yrs. we had our share of ups and downs. though i wanted to marry him, i was afraid coz he was not open and we always had problems communicating.our rship hit the rocks due to this, he always came out defensive on very important issues about the future. So i chose to move on with my life, we didnt break up, i moved to a different city, a couple of months after i had moved, a friend of mine told me that he was getting married. I wanted to die to say the least. it was painful but i survived. now three months after he got married, he started writing to me, he apologised alot and told me how he regrets everything, that he married a woman he does not love and that he wants a second chance,anyway, to cut the story short, the wife has already left. He thinks we have a chance to make things work again. Please advice me,what wd u do if you were in my shoes. Confused!
Shish,
Wewe you are at 31 and you need to get married- wewe hii ni bahati yako- wala usisubiri zaidi- hakuna guarantee kuwa ukisubiri watamiminika wanaume kibao!
Kumbuka pia umri wako wa kuzaa watoto!
Kama unampenda- wewe msamehe, na uolewe, iwe mke mdogo au la!
Asikudanyage mtu- hii ni bahati umepata na usiichezee! Wako walioona nafasi kama hizi wakaziacha na leo miaka nenda rudi, hawajaolewa na wako 40 sasa!
Hakuna mtu perfect, na hata ukisubiri huna guarantee ya kumpata perfect zaidi!
I was in a rship with this guy for close to 3yrs. we had our share of ups and downs. though i wanted to marry him, i was afraid coz he was not open and we always had problems communicating.our rship hit the rocks due to this, he always came out defensive on very important issues about the future. So i chose to move on with my life, we didnt break up, i moved to a different city, a couple of months after i had moved, a friend of mine told me that he was getting married. I wanted to die to say the least. it was painful but i survived. now three months after he got married, he started writing to me, he apologised alot and told me how he regrets everything, that he married a woman he does not love and that he wants a second chance,anyway, to cut the story short, the wife has already left. He thinks we have a chance to make things work again. Please advice me,what wd u do if you were in my shoes. Confused!