What do You Think, Guys?!

[capitalpool]

"My fiancé and I live together. I own the house (it’s paid off) and he pays me $500 a month. The bills for the house are very low and come out to about $300 a month, so essentially he’s paying $200 in rent. He thinks that once we get married he shouldn’t have to pay rent anymore, and that we should split the bills evenly. He’s also stressed because he has accrued some debt (about $15,000) since we’ve been together, which is partly why he thinks he should pay less. This frustrates me, because I worked so hard to pay off my house early and I feel like he’s taking advantage of that. He has made less money than me the entire seven years we’ve been together, and it’s been a constant issue in our relationship. I think that the man should contribute a bit more than the woman. I’d love to split everything and own a house together, but he’s nowhere near being able to do that. What’s the fair option once you are married?"

 

[SK2016]

Tayari umetugawanya wachangiaji.
Sisi darasa la pili B unataka tuwe wapenzi watazamaji tu!

 

[Atoto]

 

[capitalpool]

Tayari umetugawanya wachangiaji.
Sisi darasa la pili B unataka tuwe wapenzi watazamaji tu!

Nilikusudia kuwagawa hata hivyo!

 

[Extrovert]

With that mean heart you should never even think of getting married in anyhow!😆

 

[bro_A]

My opinion is, you guys should not have that marriage doesn't how you two love each other. You already underestimate him somehow, and that house will be the source of you to separate.

 

[capitalpool]

With that mean heart you should never even think of getting married in anyhow!😆

Ha hah

Paying rent to your wife?

 

[Extrovert]

Ha hah

Paying rent to your wife?

That never worked before, and it never will!😄

 

[capitalpool]

My opinion is, you guys should not have that marriage doesn't how you two love each other. You already underestimate him somehow, and that house will be the source of you to separate.

So, are you saying they should split up? But they do love each other!? The issue isnt love, there are responsibility issues.

 

[capitalpool]

That never worked before, and it never will!😄

Marriage isnt a good idea for these two...

 

[Glenohumeral joint]

Marriage is not meant for you two....good marriage needs people who can understand each other,help one another and not taking self advantages....u two seem to put money forth and it is really imposing the biggest catastrophe in your relationship, once u get married together,things are going to become more fatal....marry someone u can understand well