Utakubali tena??
Utakubali tena??
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sun wu
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Ha ha haaa kwanini nijute kuzaliwa mkuu hata kama nimekumbana na mabaya na shida kiasi gani mkuu Je ile furaha ya sekunde chache niliyopata is it not worth it... unanikumbusha msemo wa
Its Better to have Loved and Lost than Never to have Loved at All....
Na shida zote ninazopata mkuu ila hii experience na challenges they have made me who I am, and the Journey is worth travelling
BUMI JAMES
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ya! mi ningekubali coz challenges are there to be solved and not to be run away.
gfsonwin
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ukiona mtu anafikiria kama mtoa mada jua kabisa amekata tamaa na hawazi kama ulivyosema hapo juu.
gfsonwin
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hahahahh! mdogo angu Eiyer unanikumbusha msemo wangu wa primare
'i was complaining of having not a shoe size until i saw someone with no foot."
tumewaza negativity of the negative simply kwasababu ume mquote sun wu that side. bad enough unacriticise ponit za mtu ili hali wewe ulitaka kujua mtazamo wa mtu.
the best thing you was you to ask him to justify his statements rather than saying
'''Una uhakika?Hebu jikague! '''
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Zero One Two
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Hapana sikubali kuzaliwa!
gfsonwin
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Eiyer naomba leo nigeuke mwl nikueleweshe jambo dogo hapa.
wewe umeuliza hivi:-
hili ni swali zuri sana ila tu ni subjective question na sio objective.
hapa chini sun wu kajibu kwa uwezo mpana sana wa kufikiri
na nikweli manake manake tulipokuwepo kabla ya aya maisha hatukuwa na ufaham pakoje, na amesema vzr sana kwamba inategemea huo pakoje so siwez kusema zuri ama ovu na mahali nisipokuwa na ufaham napo.
hapa juu sun wu akakujibu very prudently na miminikakubali jibu lake.
kuona unawaza matatizo your writings can tell and funny enough hata pale unapopelekwa kwenye opposite side bado unaona shaka.
mm nakuuliza swali hili ''what drove you to write such a topic??''
hapa nikuitie Kiranga na Asprin waje wakueleweshe
wewe umeuliza hivi:-
hili ni swali zuri sana ila tu ni subjective question na sio objective.
hapa chini sun wu kajibu kwa uwezo mpana sana wa kufikiri
na nikweli manake manake tulipokuwepo kabla ya aya maisha hatukuwa na ufaham pakoje, na amesema vzr sana kwamba inategemea huo pakoje so siwez kusema zuri ama ovu na mahali nisipokuwa na ufaham napo.
hapa uka criticize, sawa ndivyo ulivyoona sawa .
hapa juu sun wu akakujibu very prudently na miminikakubali jibu lake.
ila na yeye huyu BUMI JAMES akakujibu vyema san akwa lugha nyepesi.
mm nikamwambia kama ivi hapo juu, na me saying mtu akiwaza kama mtoa mada wewe ulitumika kama mafano tu manake ndo modo iliokuwepo mbele yangu, na kwa uzoefu mtu akianza kuwaza kukompea alikokuwa yupo sijui tumboni ama wapi na hapa duniani mara nyingi kwa psychologist huwa wana reason ana kutana na magumu san akwenye maisha kias cha kumfaya akate tamaa na pale alipo. hiyo ni kweli mnake huwez mtu uka illusinate kama huna jambo lisilokuwa na majibu. mfano mu aliyezaliwa burundi wakati wa mauaji ya kimbari ama sudan lazima afike mahali awaze hivi kama wewe mtoa mada.
haya sasa wewe tuambie nje gani ya kiberiti manake umeona mawazo ya wote sio kitu. kwangu mm is like ulitaka tukupe majibu ambayo wewe tayari unayo while the topic ni subjective. na hatuwez sote kuwaza kama wewe kwan kila mmoja ana utash wake.
kuona unawaza matatizo your writings can tell and funny enough hata pale unapopelekwa kwenye opposite side bado unaona shaka.
mm nakuuliza swali hili ''what drove you to write such a topic??''
hapa nikuitie Kiranga na Asprin waje wakueleweshe
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gfsonwin
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mwanangu kwa nn hukubali??
Eiyer
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gfsonwin,nitasema machache kwa kuwa MOD amekwaza sana.
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Faham kuwa aina na lengo la swali halikua kulinganisha maisha ya duniani na huko tulikokua kabla ya kuzaliwa,hivyo lugha za "inategemea huko huko kukoje" ni za kimakosa.
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Msingi wa swali langu ni kuwafanya watu(sio mimi)wajiulize kuhusu maisha wanaoishi hapa duniani.
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Sikumpinga sun wu kama wewe unavyodhani,nilichokifanya ni kumuuliza swali ambalo litanifanya mimi na yoyte atakaesoma uzi huu kujua kama @su wu ana sababu za kutosha kusema vile.
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Uliposema "mtu akiwaza KAMA MTOA MADA" hii ni kauli yenye maana mbili
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Moja,mtoa mada ndio mawazo yake.
Mbili,mtoa mada kawakilisa wanaowaza hivyo.
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Nilipokuambia "wrong" nilitaka kujua ulikua na maana gani kati ya hizo mbili..
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Lakini ulipodhani nampinga sun wu na uliponiuliza "what drove you to ask such question" nikagundua ulikua na maana ya kwanza.
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Na hili ni tatizo hapa JF,watu hawaiangalii mada inafundisha nini,wanadhani mtoa mada ndilo tatizo lake,zipo mada za aina hii lakini sio zote.
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Pia nilipomuuliza sun wu sikutaka ajibu kama ninavyotaka mimi,sababu ya kumjibu hivyo nimekuambia hapo juu na kwa nyongeza ni kuwa ili mjadala uwe mzuri kunatakiwa kuwe na pande mbili.
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Kwa hayo machache nadhani utakua umenielewa!
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Faham kuwa aina na lengo la swali halikua kulinganisha maisha ya duniani na huko tulikokua kabla ya kuzaliwa,hivyo lugha za "inategemea huko huko kukoje" ni za kimakosa.
'
Msingi wa swali langu ni kuwafanya watu(sio mimi)wajiulize kuhusu maisha wanaoishi hapa duniani.
'
Sikumpinga sun wu kama wewe unavyodhani,nilichokifanya ni kumuuliza swali ambalo litanifanya mimi na yoyte atakaesoma uzi huu kujua kama @su wu ana sababu za kutosha kusema vile.
'
Uliposema "mtu akiwaza KAMA MTOA MADA" hii ni kauli yenye maana mbili
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Moja,mtoa mada ndio mawazo yake.
Mbili,mtoa mada kawakilisa wanaowaza hivyo.
'
Nilipokuambia "wrong" nilitaka kujua ulikua na maana gani kati ya hizo mbili..
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Lakini ulipodhani nampinga sun wu na uliponiuliza "what drove you to ask such question" nikagundua ulikua na maana ya kwanza.
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Na hili ni tatizo hapa JF,watu hawaiangalii mada inafundisha nini,wanadhani mtoa mada ndilo tatizo lake,zipo mada za aina hii lakini sio zote.
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Pia nilipomuuliza sun wu sikutaka ajibu kama ninavyotaka mimi,sababu ya kumjibu hivyo nimekuambia hapo juu na kwa nyongeza ni kuwa ili mjadala uwe mzuri kunatakiwa kuwe na pande mbili.
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Kwa hayo machache nadhani utakua umenielewa!
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Arushaone
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JosephElly
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Mi ningekubali kuzaliwa bana... Laifu tamu... Si unajua mbinguni ni kuimba tu daily... Njoo duniani ubadili mazingira
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