"My name is James. Im a typical Tanzanian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, Its another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether shes my mother or my wife. Dont get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married marriage has turned her into something that doesnt amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years. A lot of people say its unethical for married guys to be found in a club, but I wish everyone wont be too quick to judge and understand that people look for fun to run away from their problems; they just want to breathe, like me. I forgot to say that I work in Diamond Trust Bank, I love my job and my job loves me, maybe its because Im the senior banking officer. Lol. This particular morning, a lady breezed into my office. My heart raced faster because I had not sighted anything this beautiful in a long while. She wasnt the typical slender Barbie, in fact, she was a bit chubby but her smile, cuteness and I was tripped. Hi Good morning! Your ATM has swallowed my card! She laughed, unlike a typical customer that would ram you. I just tried to form Boss laughter Good morning, You know what? Id personally make sure they get it out for you, but not today. Can you wait till Monday? I smiled OK, can I just drop my number so you could call me up or just text when its ready so I dont come twice? Please? My name is Grace She blinked her eyes in a funny way. SureIsmiled We exchanged numbers. What a lucky Friday! So it was 10:00pm and I headed to the club as usual my friends were chilling for me. My wife had called a couple of times, I just ignored it. She knows Im never home Friday nights. Look at you! I heard someone say. I raised my head and it was the ATM lady-Grace. Wow, look at you too! I was surprised to see her but I was happy I didnt have to wait till Monday to see her again. Happy Friday! She screamed because of the noise, Wanna dance? I didnt even have the chance to answer, she already pulled me to dance floor. I really suck at dancing but she helped me; she was a great dancer! I had fun! At some point we decided to go to a private area and we talked, ranging from work, business to personal life. I tried to hide my ring as much as possible, I certainly didnt want this to end now. You are a really wonderful lady. You are so interesting any guy would want to be with you all day I said. I wasnt always like this but I have learned the hard way that life is just too short to be sad she sang Then her phone rang Hey baby! Yeah Im at the private lounge, Id like you to meet someone alright boo she talked excitedly as usual. I was in shock until this tall handsome man walks up to her and kisses her. You were late. Meet James; I met him this morning, hes helping with your ATM I told you got swallowed and James this is my B to the O-O, she laughed Meet my husband Dan, we only come here to dance every fortnight Friday; away from work, stress and kids. Wow, a pleasure I managed to shake him Then she stood now excitedly holding her husbands arms. Why dont we invite James for Isabellas 9th birthday tomorrow? Her husband said They have kids too? How long have they been married and they look like a couple just dating! Silly me, please come for my second daughters 9th tomorrow. It would be an honor She brought out an I.V from her purse. I began to feel so ashamed of myself this was another guy like me, getting it right with one woman. I collected the I.V and promised to be there. See you tomorrow! Have you had something to eat Dan? she talked and dragged her husband along. They left and I kept staring at the thin air like I had seen a ghost. They come just to dance together every fortnight Fridays? Why didnt I think of that! Tunda loves to dance she also likes long walks, she loves to talk she loves jazz music, theres this vivid picture I have of me putting her hand on my chest when we danced at a jazz club on our first year anniversary I found myself typing all the things I knew Tunda loved to do on my Ipad and I realized I had denied her of all I had made her the old woman she acts. What the hell was I doing here! I didnt even tell my friends goodbye, I walked out of the club into my Jaguar. Tundas call came through and I picked at first ring. Tunda? My heart raced I know you are not coming home I am, stay up so we can gist. Been a while I decided to do everything on that list and to even add many more for the rest of my lifetime with her. Are you alright? She was shocked I suppose And Id like us to go for a birthday party tomorrow. I want you to meet this amazing couple You sound different James Maybe Im different Dont say it! dont say it! when you come we will gist very well she laughed She laughed!!! In just that laughter that I hadnt heard in a while, she sounded like the lady I married six years ago Dear reader, I wrote this natural piece just to remind us that creating memorable moments with our partner matters. Do you know that little things are the sweetest things? Just creating time to gist and laugh with your partner, having a day in the week thats exclusively for you both-No friends or kids allowed. Lady, when last have you told your partner he is so darn hot? Guy! When last have you told your lady she is the sweetest thing? When last have you whispered Thank you? When last have you been quick to say Im sorry? Do you even have a clue on what your partner loves to do? When you ignore little things, they are the little pieces of rocks that build up to become a mountain you cant easily break down as a married couple. Make each other happy. Pay attention to little things, believe that they work and experience new bliss and enjoy your partner!" Authored by ..... Couples-In-Christ admin.