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To The men who read this

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Pearl, Mar 10, 2010.

  1. Pearl

    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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  2. Mpita Njia

    Mpita Njia JF-Expert Member

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    Well, we have read the one side of the coin. Now, if we can have the other side as well... To the women who reads this...
  3. Who Cares?

    Who Cares? JF-Expert Member

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    nimesoma mamaa na nifanye nini kingine tena??
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    MalaikaMweupe Member

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    Dada ni nzuri,kweli na hakika!
    Hope wanaume wangeelewa na kufuata!
  5. Kiranja Mkuu

    Kiranja Mkuu JF-Expert Member

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    To The men who read this…..please read fully and understand…………..
    To all the women who read this……….. An excellent forward……please read fully..... and forward to
    the boys you know……….
    This is a beautiful article:
    T he woman in your life...very well expressed...

    Tomorrow you may get a working woman, butyou should marry her with these facts as well.

    Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
    Who is earning almost as much as you do;

    One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
    you have because she is as human as you are;

    One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
    Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
    that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements

    One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
    much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

    One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name

    One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen

    One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
    food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
    and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
    a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
    to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

    One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

    Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
    Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

    One, who can be late from work once in a while whendeadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

    One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
    relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
    and trust her;

    One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

    But not many guys understand this.........

    Please appreciate "HER"

    I hope you will do......

    Respect Her.
  6. FirstLady1

    FirstLady1 JF-Expert Member

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    oops kumbe mie sio mwanaume na wewe Pearl wewe Lulu ...
  7. Pape

    Pape JF-Expert Member

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    kazi ipo!