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Ten major problems that divide couples

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by MAHENDEKA, May 7, 2011.


    MAHENDEKA JF-Expert Member

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    The happiness of a couple can be measured to a large degree by effectiveness of their communication. How a couple communicates is the one of the most powerful factors affecting success or failure of their relationship.
    Arranged in order of importance

    1. Communication break down
    Lack of heart-to- heart communication tops the list of marriage problems..! WHY? Because communication is basic to intimate relationships
    Many couples keep their communication on superficial level because they lack basic skills at the art of dialogue
    2. Loss of shared goals and interests
    Intimate living demands sharing basic ideas and principles as well as high amount of hobbies and likes
    3. Sexual incompatibility
    Behind this term we usually find lack of true love, sensitivity and ability to accept one another
    4. Infidelity
    Logicall, when one of the partners doesn’t fulfill his or her promise of exclusive love, the other one wishes to pull apart although there may be a chance for gentle forgiveness
    Behind this term we usually find lack of true love, sensitivity and ability to accept one another
    5. Exitement and fun gone from relationship
    Confrontation and dullness can diminish the needed fun and excitement that should go with the so called sexual game
    6. Money
    Money is an important part of life…… and of marriage
    7. Conflicts over children
    Children, being a basic part of HOME, may become a source of home or of despair
    8. Alcohol and drug abuse
    More and more marriages are breaking up due to alcohols and other drugs
    9. Women’s right issues
    When confronted women’s rights and men’s rights can tear marriage apart
    10. In-laws
    Interference of in-laws and other persons foreign to married couple’s home can make conflicts between the couples arise
  2. KWI KWI

    KWI KWI JF-Expert Member

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    Well said.....arranged in order of importance...am doughting.:A S check_03: