Single Mama Ananipenda lakini mi naogopa!

Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

Habari wanajamii
Moja kwa moja kwenye mada;
Tangu mwaka 2011 kuna binti nilikuwa nimemzimia sana, ila nilikuwa nashindwa kimwambia ukweli(domo zege) hasa ukizingatia huyu binti kadiri miaka ilivyokuwa inakwenda akaanza kunizoea na hadi sasa ameshanizoea kabisa. Tunachat sana kwenye whatsapp/sms lakini inaonekana ana hamu na mimi ila mi naogopa, kwani kwa kipindi tangu tulipozoeana 2011 nilishindwa kumwambia ukweli na baadae akapata lijamaa likampa mimba na sasa ana mtoto mkubwa tu. Inaonekana binti anani-mind sana ila mi nashindwa pa kuanzia.
Naomba ushauri wenu

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Malyenge · Feb 6, 2019

Beberu Mwitu said:
Habari wanajamii
Moja kwa moja kwenye mada;
Tangu mwaka 2011 kuna binti nilikuwa nimemzimia sana, ila nilikuwa nashindwa kimwambia ukweli(domo zege) hasa ukizingatia huyu binti kadiri miaka ilivyokuwa inakwenda akaanza kunizoea na hadi sasa ameshanizoea kabisa. Tunachat sana kwenye whatsapp/sms lakini inaonekana ana hamu na mimi ila mi naogopa, kwani kwa kipindi tangu tulipozoeana 2011 nilishindwa kumwambia ukweli na baadae akapata lijamaa likampa mimba na sasa ana mtoto mkubwa tu. Inaonekana binti anani-mind sana ila mi nashindwa pa kuanzia.
Naomba ushauri wenu

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Unaomba ushauri wetu kwa dhati?

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Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

Malyenge said:
Unaomba ushauri wetu kwa dhati?

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Ndio mkuu

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Malyenge · Feb 6, 2019

Beberu Mwitu said:
Ndio mkuu

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Ngoja tukuukize swali. Pamoja na kuwa unaomba ushauri wetu je wewe mwenyewe dhati yako ya moyo imeamuaje kuhusu huyo mwanamke?

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MERCIFUL · Feb 6, 2019

Malyenge said:
Ngoja tukuukize swali. Pamoja na kuwa unaomba ushauri wetu je wewe mwenyewe dhati yako ya moyo imeamuaje kuhusu huyo mwanamke?

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Mkuu, bora umsaidie kijana maana majibu anayo ila ni kama hajiamini - "Nimemzimia sana, ila nashindwa kumuambia ukweli…nashindwa pa kuanzia"

MERCIFUL · Feb 6, 2019

[QUOTE="Beberu Mwitu, post: 30309485, member: 188842"]Tangu mwaka 2011 kuna binti nilikuwa nimemzimia sana[/QUOTE]

2019 - 2011 ni muda wa kutosha; Ni nini kilikutatiza mpaka ukashindwa kumtamkia yalio moyoni mwako? Na iweje ukaendelea nae hata baada ya kujua kua amejaliwa mtoto na mwanamume mwingine (lijamaa). Be a man enough to start the conversation on "way forward", the sooner the better. Do you like her? Love her?

Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

Malyenge said:
Ngoja tukuukize swali. Pamoja na kuwa unaomba ushauri wetu je wewe mwenyewe dhati yako ya moyo imeamuaje kuhusu huyo mwanamke?

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Nampenda mkuu, ila nilishindwa kumwambia ukweli mapema thus Y amekuwa single mother

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Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

MERCIFUL said:
[QUOTE="Beberu Mwitu, post: 30309485, member: 188842"]Tangu mwaka 2011 kuna binti nilikuwa nimemzimia sana

2019 - 2011 ni muda wa kutosha; Ni nini kilikutatiza mpaka ukashindwa kumtamkia yalio moyoni mwako? Na iweje ukaendelea nae hata baada ya kujua kua amejaliwa mtoto na mwanamume mwingine (lijamaa). Be a man enough to start the conversation on "way forward", the sooner the better. Do you like her? Love her?[/QUOTE]I really love her but at that time I was not matured enough also at that time me with women I become tongue tied [emoji16][emoji16][emoji16][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

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mshipa · Feb 6, 2019

Tangu 2011 hadi leo 2019 ni karibia miaka 8 imepita bado umeshindwa kumwambia NAKUPENDA neno jepesi na tamu maskioni mwao(wanawake)

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Malyenge · Feb 6, 2019

Beberu Mwitu said:
Nampenda mkuu, ila nilishindwa kumwambia ukweli mapema thus Y amekuwa single mother

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Basi tunakushauri jipe ujasiri wa kumvaa na kumweleza. Huenda yeye hakuhitaji lakini wewe umekuwa ukijipa matumaini yasiyokuwapo au yapo kweli. Sasa ili ujue ni lazima umvae na kumweleza ukweli. Tahadhali ni kwamba ukianza kwa kukosea basi ni lazima utamalizia kwa kukosea na hatimaye kukosa.

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SK2016 · Feb 6, 2019

Unajua wamefikia wapi yeye na jamaa aliyemzalisha?

Isije baadae ukarudi na vilio.
Kuwa na single mother kunahitaji moyo wa chuma na macho na masikio ya mbao.

Ingia pole pole tena kwa umakini wa hali ya juu.
Most of them, ni waelewa ila ukipata asiyejitambua itakula kwako

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Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

SK2016 said:
Unajua wamefikia wapi yeye na jamaa aliyemzalisha?

Isije baadae ukarudi na vilio.
Kuwa na single mother kunahitaji moyo wa chuma na macho na masikio ya mbao.

Ingia pole pole tena kwa umakini wa hali ya juu.
Most of them, ni waelewa ila ukipata asiyejitambua itakula kwako

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Ahsante kwa ushauri mkuu

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MERCIFUL · Feb 6, 2019

Beberu Mwitu said:
2019 - 2011 ni muda wa kutosha; Ni nini kilikutatiza mpaka ukashindwa kumtamkia yalio moyoni mwako? Na iweje ukaendelea nae hata baada ya kujua kua amejaliwa mtoto na mwanamume mwingine (lijamaa). Be a man enough to start the conversation on "way forward", the sooner the better. Do you like her? Love her?[/QUOTE]I really love her but at that time I was not matured enough also at that time me with women I become tongue tied [emoji16][emoji16][emoji16][emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]

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GOOD! Now that you are matured, do something. END it or START all over. I am sure the tongue is not tied any more😛

Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

MERCIFUL said:
GOOD! Now that you are matured, do something. END it or START all over. I am sure the tongue is not tied any more😛

Now I'm talking like parrot. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji16][emoji16]
Thanks for your advice, I'm gonna drop it like its hot.

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MERCIFUL · Feb 6, 2019

Beberu Mwitu said:
Now I'm talking like parrot. [emoji23][emoji23][emoji16][emoji16]
Thanks for your advice, I'm gonna drop like its hot.

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That's whats UP! Go get her...😎

Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

MERCIFUL said:
That's whats UP! Go get her...😎

I'm on my way, full of confidence wait for feedback[emoji2445][emoji2445][emoji2445]

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Shunie · Feb 6, 2019

Fanya vile moyo wako unapenda

Foxhound · Feb 6, 2019

Shunie said:
Fanya vile moyo wako unapenda

Sawa, ahsante mdada

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Ndebile · Feb 8, 2019

Jamaa naona alipofika akajifanya ameenda kuangalia Isidingo, tusubiri majibu labda Mama Junia alikuta kaenda kwenye vikoba/

Foxhound · May 10, 2019

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