Sexual jibes

Sexual jibes

Barikiwa kiinglish chako kipo biyeeee. ila nawasiwasi na Wa lasaba B Sijui umewaacha njiani
 
You are right but siku hizi za mwisho ni hatari ya danger. ma-baba na ma-mama wanataka kutoka na vitoto na vitoto navyo vinajiona vimekuwa vinawataka walio na umri sawa au zaidi ya wazazi wao. Who is to be blamed???! As it was in Sodomah and Gommora we are in the same shoes!
 
Vipi kwani, unahisi kainyakua sehemu?

source ni mm mwenyewe
hivi unafikiri mm ni mlughalugha kama wewe?

Source si yako Umeichukua huku

Chief Executive Officer
MIC Tanzania LTD
HEAD QUARTERS
P.O. Box 2929
New Bagamoyo Rd, Dar es Salaam,
Tanzania.
Phone: Dial 0716123103
Fax +255 22 2120474
Email: customercare@tigo.co.tz
Dear Sir,
RE; COMPLAINS AGAINST YOUR ADVERTISEMENT “‘UZEE MWISHO
CHALINZE; MJINI KILA MTU HONEYYYY!’
I am one of the citizens offended by your advertisements encouraging cross
generational sex while you categorically know the effects of cross
generational sex in Tanzania. Hardly a week passes by before you hear of a
rape case, incest or sexual scam involving a minor. Sexual jibes are perhaps
the most common way that manifests how the society views sex and
sexuality. Any improper joke, insinuation or insult around sex and sexuality
affect the society, especially children and teenagers.
It’s a few months since a popular local artiste has been airing one of your Tigo
Facebook advertisements in TVs and Radios under a popular clip ‘Uzee
mwisho Chalinze; Mjini kila mtu Honeyyyy’. As if to add salt to the already
sore wound, recently, you modified the advert ‘Uzee mwisho Msata; Mjini
kila mtu Babayyyy’, something like that. Ironically most of this advertisement
goes out at prime time when families are together with children and
teenagers. It’s indeed offensive, especially for we wazee who are fathers to
teenage daughters. This is against the culture of Tanzania of respect and
integrity.
I wonder why TCRA have not sought to ban or regulate this offensive
advertisement. According to the TCRA Act No. 12 of 2003, the TCRA’s
mandate is to regulate the postal, electronic communications and
broadcasting industries in the United Republic of Tanzania, which includes:
protecting the interests of consumers; and establishing standards for
regulated goods and services, among other things.
I further wonder why TVs and Radios have gone ahead to air this offensive
advertisement against the THE BROADCASTING SERVICES ACT, 1993
(No. 6 of 1993) REGULATIONS (Made under section 27) THE
BROADCASTING SERVICES (CONTENT) REGULATIONS, 2005, Section 5
which categorically state that “Every licensee shall ensure that the programme
and its presentation; (b) projects Tanzanian national values and national
points of view; (c) observes good taste and decency; (d) upholds public
morality; (g) protects children from negative influences; and (h) does
not incite or perpetuate hatred against or vilify, any group or persons on
the basis of ethnicity, race, gender, religion or disability. And also
Section 15 and 16 which prohibit use of bad language and explicitness
respectively, among other things.
The official position of the government of the United Republic of Tanzania
which is stated in the Tanzania National Ageing Policy (2003) is that the old
people should ‘…. to sustain good customs and traditions for the youth
in the society’. The commonly accepted view of Tanzanians is that of
disapproving irresponsible indecent old people who pries out to young girls
the age of their daughters as depicted by the well acceptable ‘Fataki’
campaign which works to lower the spread of HIV/AIDS by rallying
communities around Tanzania to put an end to harmful cross-generational
sex. According to common Tanzanian view, Fataki may be a "big man," but
people are laughing him out of town.
We know that it is NOT true that in the city every elderly man (and woman)
seeks to be addressed ‘honey’ or ‘baby’! This is totally misleading. We don’t
want our daughters and sons to call elderly men and women ‘honey’ or ‘baby’,
neither do we elderly persons want to be so addressed ‘honey’ or ‘baby’ by
our sons, daughters, grandchildren. A good population of the elderly people in
the city are people of high integrity, who have diligently served the nation, the
community and our families. We want to be treated with respect and dignity.
We can’t withstand being labelled as ‘respect-less, sex crazy people’. No
thank you.
Sir, such messages should not be allowed at a time when the nation is going
through serious moral decadence. You hear elderly men rapping young girls
some of who are their relatives! At the colleges, one of the major challenges is
cross-generational sex- a scenario where someone goes with a girl 10+ years
his age. Sugardady, sugarmammy dirt is on rise!
We believers should be influenced by the Word of God and follow its
standards. Not jibes and maxims of the streets. The Word of God says
In April 23, 20131 it was reported that “KATIKA hali isiyokuwa ya kawaida
iliyowashangaza wengi mganga wa kienyeji, Edward Mwakalebela (86),
anadaiwa kumbaka mtoto wa miaka 6….”
On November 28, 20132 in Zanzibar, Police in Zanzibar reported that “ Mzee
Muslih Mserembe (55), mkazi wa Kijiji cha Kidutani Gando mkoa wa
Kaskazini Pemba ametiwa mbaroni kwa tuhuma za kumbaka mtoto
mwenye umri wa miaka 12 na baadaye kujitosa bahari kukwepa mkono
wa dola. Mzee huyo, alikamatwa na wananchi waliokuwa wamekizingira
kibanda chake kilichojengwa kwa miti, kuezekwa kwa makuti na
1 http://rizikimgaya.blogspot.co.uk/2013/04/mzee-wa-miaka-86-ambaka-mtoto-wa-miaka-
6.html
2 http://tulonge.com/profiles/blogs/mzee-ambaka-mtoto-wa-miaka-12-na-kujitosa-baharinikuepuka-
mkonokukandikwa
kwa udongo wakati akimbaka binti huyo bila ya huruma.
(Jina la binti huyo linahifadhiwa kwa usalama).”
Recently on May 11th 20143 it was reported that “WAZEE wawili Thomas
Machugu (72) na Salum Mfumbasi (66), Wilaya ya Bunda, mkoani Mara,
wamefikishwa katika Mahakama ya Wilaya ya Bunda kwa tuhuma za
kuwabaka na kuwalawiti wanafunzi sita wa shule za msingi zilizoko
wilayani hapa…Mbele ya Hakimu James Manota, Mwendesha Mashitaka,
Masoud Mohamed, alidai washitakiwa hao waliwabaka na kuwalawiti
wanafunzi hao wenye umri kati ya miaka 10-13 tarehe na muda tofauti,
katika maeneo mbalimbali likiwemo la ofisi ya CCM iliyoko mtaa wa
Saranga mjini hapa.
In fact people are now using your catchphrase to vilify or justify refer to rapes
against minors. For example on 23/05/2014 it was plainly reported that ·
Uzee Mwisho Chalinze.....Babu anaswa na kabinti gesti.....Babu huyo ...
“Wewe kama huyu ni mchumba wako hilo mimi nilikuwa silijui, .... you
google up ‘uzee mwisho chalinze’. You won’t believe your eyes what you’re
promoting. Your advertisement is fuelling these illicit behaviours.
Claiming that ‘Mjini kila my honey’ is to encourage cross-generational sex.
Studies show that cross-generational sex is associated with a higher risk of
HIV infection. Data show that young women ages 15 to 24 in sub-Saharan
Africa are three times more likely to be infected with HIV than young men the
same age4.1 It is clear that in much of Africa, young women bear the brunt of
the AIDS epidemic. Telling that every old man would like to be addressed
‘honey’ or ‘baby’ is killing them. The main drivers for cross generational sex
are among other things influence from advertisements and peers5.
The Bible says that “The glory of young men {is} their strength: and the beauty
of old men {is} the gray head. (Proverbs 20:29 KJV)” and that The hoary head
{is} a crown of glory, {if} it be found in the way of righteousness.” Proverbs
16:31 KJV)
the QURAN also says that “Your Lord has commanded that you worship none
but Him, and that you be kind to your parents. If one or both of them reach old
age with you, do not say to them a word of disrespect, or scold them, but say
a generous word to them. And act humbly to them in mercy, and say, ‘My
Lord, have mercy on them, since they cared for me when I was small.” (17:
23-24)
Old men are sensible people. They deserve respect and honour. It is not
proper for one elderly person to speak vain on behalf of others. Tigo is neither
our spokesman nor the artiste our mouthpiece. We decline to be lumped
3 Tanzania Daima
4 UNAIDS, Report on the Global AIDS Epidemic (Geneva: UNAIDS, 2006).
5 The DHS HIV/AIDS Sero-Behavioural Survey for Uganda, 2004-2005, indicated that the
prevalence for girls ages 15 to 17 was 9.4 percent and for ages 18 to 19 was 9.9 percent. No
data is shown for the 2006 numbers on cross-generational sex, nor is it subdivided by age
groups other than 15 to 19. There is no explanation of the decline in the 2006 DHS report
together with the immoral old men who seek to be called ‘baby’ and ‘honey’ by
everybody in the city.
Please shelve off this advertise and release an apology to restore the good
image and faith of your company.
We are frustrated by this insinuation. Should it continue, we will be bound to
seek redress either by mobilising masses of people who don’t approve this
advertisement to boycott your products and/ or we will file an official complain
to the regulators.
Yours truly
Charles Sokile
Concerned Parent and old man
CC. The Director General
Tanzania Communications Regulatory Authority (TCRA)
Mawasiliano Towers
20 Sam Nujoma Road
P.O Box 474
14414 Dar Es Salaam
Executive Secretary
Saidia Wazee Tanzania (SAWATA)
P.O. Box 9846,
Dar es Salaam
Executive Secretary
Getting Old Is to Grow (GOIG) Society . ... Kuzeeka ni Kukua,
P. O. Box 34048, Dar es Salaam.
Appendix 1
Sample – modified jibe promoting explicitness and promiscuity influenced by
your advert
 
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