kibol
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- Apr 24, 2012
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I have this friend of mine ambaye we are schooling togethr a certain college in dsm and we are living in the same room..this dude has been seduced me to have sex with him(gay sex).my financial situation is not good compares to his,frankly speaking he has helped me alot,most of the time he pays for my meals,giving me pocket money,buying me expensive gifts,taking me out to different places and much more,the only reason doing all of this is to convince me sleeping with him,i have been avoiding him since he asks me of such a thing,but he does nt seems to understand,he even dares to wash my boxer and my clothes,he is too caring sometimes i feel pity of him.honestly he is the one who is taking car of me in all my things,but according to my religion it does nt allow me to do so,sometimes he even cry asking me to accept his request,one day i told him to leave me alone and i dont want to do what he wants,as a results he stops everything he used to do to me,he does nt support and help me no more he has changed completely,to be honest i still need his help i dont know what to do am in dillema plz help me out....
some issues are better to be kept silent na kufanya maamuzi sahihi ambayo hayahitaji ata ushauri frm 3rd party,wewe ni mtoto wa kiume ata kama ungekua ni mwanamke usijirahisishe hivyo,pata picha unajiingiza ktk vitendo km hivyo wazazi/ndugu zako na jamii yako watakuchukuliaje?km ni muumini Mungu kitabu chako kitakatifu kinasemaje kuhusu hilo?usijidhalilishe na kuutoa utu wako kwa vijimsaada vidogo vidogo kama hivyo,kwani kabla ya kufahamiana na huyo rafiki/mp***vu ulikua unaishije?alikuonaje onaje mpaka akakuletea habari hizo?manake si mchezo kumtongoza m'ume mwenzio.kweli utegemezi unaondoa uhuru binafsi wa mtu.