Open relationships....do they work?

Rogie · Jun 28, 2012

mzabzab said:
well nikwambie kitu kimoja kwa haraka haraka itaonekana kuwa hii italeta maambukizi mengi ya ukimwi ila ukweli ni kwamba itapunguza. kulinga na stats inaonekana kuwa maambukizo mengi utokea kati ya wanandoa na bf/gf relationships. actually statistically ur are less likely kupata ngoma kutoka kwa malaya than ur wife/husband or gf/bf. hivyo basi mkiwa na open relationship kila mtuu atakuwa anajua kabisa kuwa huyu mwezangu anagawa kwa wengine hivyo full kijikinga. naamini utakubaliana na mie kuwa wengi waliokuwa kwenye mahusiano ya bf/gf mwishio wanakulana peku lakini hilo huwezi fanya kwa malaya au mwanamke/mwanamume yeyote yule ambaye una uhakika kuwa anatoa utamu nje

Nakubaliana na hoja yako lakini tunakoelekea siko turudi kwetu.

Purple · Jun 28, 2012

Khaaaa!mawazo mengine tunatakiwa kusoma tu na kuacha!

Theodora · Aug 24, 2012

Habarini wanaJF. Nimeshangaa kuona kwenye FB wabongo wengi wanaweka kwamba wako kwenye open relationship na wanaiona ni hype au fashion flani. Hata kuna wengine eti wanapewa hongera/ likes moving from relationship to open relationship...

Je, open relationship ina maana gani au ni mimi nimekuwa nikielewa maana tofauti....

Nawasilisha.

IGWE · Aug 24, 2012

Theodora said:
Habarini wanaJF. Nimeshangaa kuona kwenye FB wabongo wengi wanaweka kwamba wako kwenye open relationship na wanaiona ni hype au fashion flani. Hata kuna wengine eti wanapewa hongera/ likes moving from relationship to open relationship...

Je, open relationship ina maana gani au ni mimi nimekuwa nikielewa maana tofauti....

Nawasilisha.

Ni open relationship...ama nimekosea...lo!

naumbu · Aug 24, 2012

Maanake hiyohiyo unayoifaham uhusiano ambao unaruhusu wahusika kupiga ndondo aka mchangan

Who Cares? · Aug 24, 2012

open relationship ni uhusiano unaoruhusu kuwa na wapenzi wengi kwa wakati mmoja. FULLSTOP.

piper · Aug 24, 2012

Ni kuwa upo available na hujajifunga na upande wowote

Elia · Aug 24, 2012

At your own risk

HorsePower · Aug 24, 2012

An open relationship is a relationship where one person does not own the other. The couple are not exclusively seeing each other and can date, flirt and hook up with other people should they wish to do so.

EJM_ · Aug 24, 2012

Unajua taabu yangu ni kwamba tafiti zinaonyesha kwamba the longer you stay together ndivyo bond between you inapokuwa kubwa na hiyo inasababisha hisia za umiliki kuanza kujitokeza ndio maana nikawa nauliza does it really work?

afrique · Aug 24, 2012

M'Jr said:
Unajua taabu yangu ni kwamba
tafiti zinaonyesha kwamba the longer you stay together ndivyo bond
between you inapokuwa kubwa na hiyo inasababisha hisia za umiliki kuanza
kujitokeza ndio maana nikawa nauliza does it really work?

they don't work,hayo mambo ya ulaya tuwaachie he!hivyo face buk itawaharibu watu wasiofikiri ka kweli

EJM_ · Aug 24, 2012

afrique said:
they don't work,hayo mambo ya ulaya tuwaachie he!hivyo face buk itawaharibu watu wasiofikiri ka kweli

Hata huko Ulaya pia imefail na mfano mzuri ni wa Willy Smith na Jada Pinket

Blaine · Aug 24, 2012

M'Jr said:
Hata huko Ulaya pia imefail na mfano mzuri ni wa Willy Smith na Jada Pinket

Will na Jada ni US sio Ulaya.

on topic: OR don't work in the long run kwa sababu zinahitaji too many rules.

watu tuna wivu so imagining your gf/bf akiwa na mwingine inaumiza.
pia ni ngumu ku-incorporate into the family due frequent change of partners inawachanganya watoto (imagine kuintroduce mtu tofauti kila weekend nyumbani, watoto wanafikiriaje?).
society haija-accept it as something serious, inachukulia as wahusika wanachezeana tu
hakuna role models. the demographic inayomudu OR zaidi kuzidi zingine haitaki kusapoti OR as inawapa picha mbaya mbele ya wengine within the same demographic and out of the demographic

Neylu · Aug 24, 2012

Mmmh... Hii mbona kwangu naona kama ni kitu cha ajabu sana..!

mzabzab · Aug 25, 2012

open relationship is just a euphemism for sexmate.

Mtambuzi · Aug 25, 2012

Hao wazungu wameiga kutoka huku Africa, huo utamaduni ulianzia Afrika lakini ni bahati mbaya kizazi hiki hakijui kwa sababu vijana wengi wanakimbia tamaduni zao na hivyo kushindwa kudadisi ili kujua asili ya kabila lzo na mila na desturi zao.

Kuna Mzee mmoja liwahi kunisimulia kwamba kuna kabila (Naomba nisilitae) Iwapo baba anafaruiki lakini ana wake wengi, basi yule mtoto mkubwa kabisa wa huyo mzee anaweza kuwarithi wake wote wa baba yake kasoro ti=u mama yake ikli kuendeleza ukoo.....................

Njua kuna watu watabisha hapa.......................

Freema Agyeman · Aug 25, 2012

neylu said:
Mmmh... Hii mbona kwangu naona kama ni kitu cha ajabu sana..!

Kwa sababu hukijui lazima ukione cha ajabu. Jifunze kujifunza mambo mapya, kuna baadhi yakawa na manufaa yakakufaa.

Mshawa · Aug 25, 2012

Wakuu naomba kuelimishwa hii open relationship ni ipi kati ya hizi; mtu yupo kwenye ndoa na ana vidumu 6 pembeni na baadhi wanajuana? au ni ile mtu mume na mtu mke wanakubaliana kupeana vikojoleo for while huku wakiendelea kutambuana?? please naombeni ufafanuzi...

Kongosho · Aug 25, 2012

Nimeshafungua vifungo vya shati tayari kwa mahusiano wazi.

Neylu · Aug 25, 2012

Freema Agyeman said:
Kwa sababu hukijui lazima ukione cha ajabu. Jifunze kujifunza mambo mapya, kuna baadhi yakawa na manufaa yakakufaa.

Ni kweli, hata hivyo naishukuru sana JF maana nimejifunza mambo mengi sana kupitia humu...

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