Mbu...
they say kila kitu ni relative to the scenario and time....
Mimi lazima niseme ukweli kama nafanya kitu na mtu, na lazima niweke facts zangu wazi, but that truth remain between me and the partner of crime tu! privacy is always key to personal life
However, if i have seriously messed up, i would try as much as possible to let it go... In a movie burning bridges, the mom told a daughter --- "lie, it is the only thing that separate human beings from animals", and that advice came as the mom discovered that her daughter cheated on her husband
i stand to be corrected but not every truth is noble...
Hata wewe bibie, nilidhani waniamini..............U got to have a friend that u trust! .............. they have a name for people who don't ..........of course it can be you and yourself................ but u got this guy/gal that is on your side till death do u apart.Some secrets are bound to remain secrets.....................................................and its not a lie its just.........not telling the truth.
hili hi tatizo la kitaifa
Jamani mimi hapo ndio tatizo langu yani mimi sijui nikoje sijui kabisa kujiwekea siri zangu huwa nasikia kuna kitu kinanisumbua kama mzigo fulani hivi, najikuta tu yani najikuta tuu nishamwambia shemeji yenu (sijui kaniendea bwagamoyo hahahaa) na nikisema mengine kweli huwa yananirudia mwenyewe sasa hata sijui nifanyeje ili nisiwe na kiherehere (hahahaaaa) cha kumwambia baba watoto kila kitu.
Kwa hapo red, unahatarisha mahusiano yetu....! Maana nikija kugundua mwenyewe basi ujue hakutakuwepo mjadala wowote...! Katika ubongo wa mtu, kuna files kama kwenye RAM ya computer hii unayoitumia...! Sasa hizo 10% zitakuwa kwenye file lipi, kama sio file la "SECRETS"? Iwapo hili file lipo kwenye ubongo wako basi litaendelea kuhitaji updates na utakuwa na nafasi ya kuendelea kufanya/kukaribisha secrets zingine nyingi kwa kuwa una pahala pa kuhifadhi....! Now, the only thing that will set you free in your relation is to delete this file completely from your memory, and the only way to delete it ni kuanika kila kitu kwa mwenzio, unless you are rushing and running.....! Tafadhali sana, elewa kuwa japo ni kazi ngumu kutimiza, lakini "Ukweli siku zote unakuweka huru"....! Just think on yourself, binafsi ni rahisi kumsamehe mkweli au muongo? Kwangu mimi huenda nikamsamehe mkweli toka moyoni bile kujali kanitendea kosa la aina gani, lakini nikishagundua kuwa alichoniambia sivyo, basi asitegemee msamaha kabisa, nitamsamehe lakini tutaachana mara moja...!mmhhh hilo swali hatari
lakini kwa maoni yangu ukisha oana/olewa itakuwa fresh mkiwa mnaelezana.....
lakini kuna vitu vingine vinaweza kuhatarisha ndoa yenu..
so u have to be careful and choose you words properly before you say any thing...
(most of people have a little secret that no one have to know)
so im gona say u have to say 90% and keep the 10% to yourself...
Some secrets are bound to remain secrets.....................................................and its not a lie its just.........not telling the truth.
...ok,
Nimewasoma wote, wengi wenu mna support "kusema ukweli daima uwongo kwenu ni mwiko!"
Lakini?
inawezekana kweli? in a real 'Baba & mama' life kusema ukweli daima?
Tuwe wakweli jamani, ndoa nyingi mbona zi mashakani?
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