My husband does not support me and our kids but helps relatives

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[h=5]My husband does not support me and our kids but helps relatives

I am 29 and have been married for four years with two kids. My husband and I live apart because of our jobs. I have a problem with my hubby because he doesn’t support me and my children at all financially, saying he is investing for the future. The worst thing is that he complains when I assist my extended family. He lives with his sister’s children and pays their school fees. He even sometimes asks me for money to support them and I give him. He has stopped talking to me because I told him my mom came to visit us. Is he serious about the family? Is it wrong for a married woman to assist her parents?[/h]

 

[Karucee]

You guys need to sit down and talk because money can and does break families.
Since you are both earning you need to decide who pays for what to keep the family intact.
I wish you all the best.

 

[MERCIFUL]

Excuuuuuse Meee?! :A S angry:. The Future is NOW my dear. Anasomesha watoto wa dada yake; Wa kwenu je? Does he know how much you earn?! Kuna baadhi ya wanaume wakishajua tu mshahara wako - KOSA!

 

[Kaunga]

Tukusaidieje?

 

[Executivesister]

Google "how to live with a selfish husband",may God be with you.

 

[doup]

did u ask him to marry you, or he did propose to you? huna mume tafuta mwingine

 

[fazaa]

The situation you're describing is extremely common in home after home, the first thing you need to do is sit down together and discuss this problem.


You sound like an amazing wife, and BTW if you show your husband that you love him madly and only him...Then you're paying the price babe :biggrin1:

 

[amu]

Tukusaidieje?

mbona leo sijakuelewa dada??
Mi nlijua ndo sekta yako hiii.
Leo umejibu kama BADILI TABIA au Kongosho si wewe nliyekuzoea

 

[amu]

Subiri niende kwenye dictionary kutafuta maana ya ''husband'' nikiijua nitakuletea na wewe mleta mada ili ujue kuwa huyo ni mume au gume gume??

 

[Access Denied]

Its not bad at all but your husband hv problems and for ths u two needs to talk with your husband with help of your close friends.

 

[SoNotorious]

My husband does not support me and our kids but helps relatives

I am 29 and have been married for four years with two kids. My husband and I live apart because of our jobs. I have a problem with my hubby because he doesn't support me and my children at all financially, saying he is investing for the future. The worst thing is that he complains when I assist my extended family. He lives with his sister's children and pays their school fees. He even sometimes asks me for money to support them and I give him. He has stopped talking to me because I told him my mom came to visit us. Is he serious about the family? Is it wrong for a married woman to assist her parents?

DNA has proved otherwise.

 

[BADILI TABIA]

bado unamuita ni mume huyo? Mume gani kiazi hivyo? Anakutumia tu huyo shtuka

 

[BADILI TABIA]

mbona leo sijakuelewa dada??
Mi nlijua ndo sekta yako hiii.
Leo umejibu kama BADILI TABIA au Kongosho si wewe nliyekuzoea

hahaha amu, acha Kaunga huyu dada nae ana mume?

 

[Kaunga]

mbona leo sijakuelewa dada??
Mi nlijua ndo sekta yako hiii.
Leo umejibu kama BADILI TABIA au Kongosho si wewe nliyekuzoea

Tatizo analiona, tena amelilea hadi likakomaa.
Anachotakiwa kufanya ni kujua anataka nini na a-demand au achukue maamuzi.

 

[Tetra]

Do the same to him it may change your destiny

 

[sun wu]

please forgive me if am wrong

if he does not support you and your kids and sometimes you give him money to support his relatives why dont you use the money you are giving him to support yourself and your kids?

 

[BAK]

IMO there is no marriage between you two. Tafakari kwa kina na kufanya maamuzi muafaka. Pole sana.

My husband does not support me and our kids but helps relatives

I am 29 and have been married for four years with two kids. My husband and I live apart because of our jobs. I have a problem with my hubby because he doesn't support me and my children at all financially, saying he is investing for the future. The worst thing is that he complains when I assist my extended family. He lives with his sister's children and pays their school fees. He even sometimes asks me for money to support them and I give him. He has stopped talking to me because I told him my mom came to visit us. Is he serious about the family? Is it wrong for a married woman to assist her parents?

 

[Petro E. Mselewa]

Ni uamuzi wake ingawa sii mzuri.Mkae mzungumze.Yawezekana kuna jambo limejificha hapo

 

[mkizungo]

MMH DADA YANGU POLEEE,hayo yanatokea katika ndoa .cha kukushauri mchunguze lazima kuna kitu ,au from the beginning of your relationship ulimzoesha kumpa pesa.kama ni hivyo rekebisha kwani amesahau majukumu yake.

 

[King’asti]

mbona leo sijakuelewa dada??
Mi nlijua ndo sekta yako hiii.
Leo umejibu kama BADILI TABIA au Kongosho si wewe nliyekuzoea

kuna mambo hayasaidiki.
Natalia njoo unisaidie kumtukana huyu ila naomba uongee kiswahili manake na wewe kidhungu chako kigumu sana.