Men are cruel to single women

Men are cruel to single women

Nimeelewa Single mother tu, mengine yote ni buluu. Tafsiripo bas kidogo
 
Kabla sija reply, nilianza kwanza kuangalia your profile niangalie unapenda kutumia lugha gani. Anyway I thought haujui kiswahili. Kwasababu umetumia kiingereza, nitakujibu hivyo hivyo.

To start with, I am extremely sorry you feel that way. I can imagine what you are going through. Now to make this short as possible. Its not like, men are cruel to single women, maybe you are sending the wrong signals.

The way you described yourself, you sound like a beautiful woman. I don't know of any men who wouldn't be attracted to you. Seriously, I am literally attracted to you now, just by the style of your writing.

To give a short description about my relationship. When I asked her to date me, guess what she asked. "I want you to promise me, you will marry me." That was a huge thing to promise. But I did, because I saw what successful woman she would become. This is why I can imagine what you are feeling like right now.

With all those features you have, I can tell you this, with confidence "You are a total package". I am pretty sure someone who will see deep inside your 'left boob'(heart) will come sooner than you know it.

Thirty it is, your age? Well I tell you, age is just a number. And you are pretty much young. Don't rush it, great days are ahead of you. My advice; try and have a more open body language. Perhaps you look too serious and guys are scared away. Talk more, if you go to church, that's a great way to meet people. Join clubs(GYM, Yoga..etc). SMILE, I would approach a girl who looks happy any day.

Tl;DR you are a huge magnet. The objects around you are plastics, keep on the force, the perfect metal will be attracted soon. Have a nice day, will you.

-callmeGhost
 
Sonnet said:
There I said it, its a cruel world for a single woman. I know that for a fact because I am one. ...

So ladies (and gents), why are we single?
I really don't know. ...

If you dear reader want to be helpful, maybe you can give us single women some pointers on how and were we can meet available men.
"Sonnet"
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Sonnet: I would simply summarise your post as a "wolf's cry" knowing that you and yourself can make what you want.

I say so because you must have been in relationships, but you would not dare tell us what happened to break up.

My advice: please reflect on your strengths (capitalise on them) and weaknesses (eliminate them), I beleive there are opportunities out there to take advantage of.
 
hii lugha umenisababishia usingizi bure. umeniambia una 30's unatafuta kwa ku meet perfect men, here i am.
 
You already stereotyped on your own choice. Why did you not write single men but single women?

You make or break your confidence by that. Single sometimes is not a bad thing....let love come naturally and it will hit u when u least expect.
 
Tatizo lipo hapo kwenye "am born again Christian"....wanawake wengi waliookoka wako na akili za kushikiwa sana sana sana na wachungaji wao hawawi wanawake watiifu kwa waume zao....achana na hio biashara just be a christian fasta utapata mume hata mm mwenyewe Sonnet
 
Sonnet said:
There I said it, its a cruel world for a single woman. I know that for a fact because I am one.

This post is not a "I am looking for a husband post", I already wrote such a post about a year ago, right here at Jamii Forum, with sad, disheartening results. Not one serious man responded, my inbox was full of jokers, pranksters and alas the married man...

This post is for fellow single women and for some men to have a glimpse of what it feels like to be single. To watch your friends and relatives get married and to have the rest of the world mock you for being single, as if it were your fault, as if you wouldn't change that in an instant if you could. (wouldn't you ladies)

So ladies (and gents), why are we single?
I really don't know. Could it be that the men around us are officially blind? Could it be that their minds are saturated with retouched instagram/facebook pics of women with perfect bodies, gorgeous skin, thin waist, perky breasts and butt. That for real they wouldn't spot a normal natural good looking woman even if an angel descended on earth and personally pointed towards the girl's direction?

Could it be that we girls love too deeply and we trust too much? Tell me what is wrong with loving someone? With believing him when he tells you he loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Is it our fault that all we get instead is a broken heart and a wet pillow from crying ourselves to sleep?

There must be something wrong with me, you wonder; I am a born again Christian woman who embraces her imperfections and acknowledges that through Christ everyday I become a better me.
Maybe I am too old? Age is nothing but a number so a woman can never be too old. Since you wondered I am thirty years old.
Maybe I am a single mother? I am not. I have never been married and I don't have children. (However even if I was, WHAT IS WRONG WITH BEING A SINGLE MOTHER? why can't you look past that and see the wonderful woman in-front of you?)
Maybe I am always asking a man for money? Nope - I have my own. With a university education and a good highly satisfying job that pays me around 2 million or so per month, I can pay my own bills thank you.
Maybe I can't cook you think? I can cook in a way that would put Jamie Oliver to shame
Maybe I don't clean or wash? Nope that isn't it, I'm clean as clean can be .
Maybe I am short, fat and ugly? I am not bad on the eyes I would like to think, thin body (with an athletic build thanks to aerobics, swimming and some weightlifting here n there to keep me toned), shoulder length hair, good skin and I am ever so comfortable being seen without makeup on my face.

So why am I single? I don't know. But what I do know is Tanzanian men should spot judging us from our marital status but from who we are as human beings. Look at my heart not my body, look at my mind not my ass, look at my education and job accomplishments and for heaven sake stop judging me from my age, or whether or not I have children.

If you dear reader want to be helpful, maybe you can give us single women some pointers on how and where we can meet available men.

As a concluding remark, if Prince Harry can fall in love with a black, divorced woman three years his senior, maybe just maybe there is hope for the rest of us.

"Sonnet"
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There are men being treated the same because tupo single... life is too short, just stick with what makes you happy, the rest will follow!!!
 
Miss Natafuta said:
i dont care whether i am single or not because i choose not to love or trust any man also am not a sex toy.so please guys stay away from me
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I had no feelings, no time and love reserved for single mother! Only fake and temporarily love and feelings i can offer for them..!
 
Anamaanisha nini...!? Anatafuta houseboy wa Kumsu****...I really don't understand....Ni jambo gani anajaribu kuelezea.....
 
I see the mature mind with talent.

I don't know why this problem if double coincidence, but here i think we loves those who do not love us and yet we want to believe there our choices

I will PM you! I want to shame something with you

Na hili sio kwako tu hata upande wapili tunaface the same shida... but we (men) have an ability to say "am ok" "it's fine" .....
 
Sonnet said:
I am a born again Christian woman
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perhaps Men are scared of what you were doing before your second birth. When you listen to those giving ''ushuhudaz'' you find that they were scary.
 
Jamie Oliver! Really girl? really hehehe. How many folks in here know of Jamie Oliver? Rule one, tone down your upper class mannerisms for niggaz in TX are intimidated by your kind. Rule two, don't act desperate for it shows. Rule three, don't be too picky ie most girls your type want a guy who's tall, dark/light, exposed, widechested, financially stable, no kids, with perfect hair, and all that crap. The few that are around are all no good Playaz coz all bitches be jocking their style. Food for thought.
 
Nitapingana na hoja yako. Not all men arw cruel to woman. So unapotoa mada as if ni all of them.. unakuwa hauko sawa.
 
When it comes to marriage men are looking for a woman with ''something good in her heart' not arrogance, education or what. As far as i know the level of education of woman is inversely proportional to marriage
 
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