Mchumba wangu ameamua tuachane

[adakiss23]

Dear What the kid has to do na break up yao? I call it irresponsible parent to any Father does that.. Thanks..

Wanawake bana. Kwahiyo akili ya huyo mwenzio kujiingiza ktk mahusiano wakati ana mtoto mdogo wa kunyonya huoni anatengeneza mazingira ya sintofahamu. Kwa akili ya kawaida tu unaweza kuanza kuhoji mtoto ni wa jamaa au vipi?
Jamaa akimsusia atatafutwa tu. Au anaweza asitafutwe pia mtoto anaweza akawa yupo kwa babake. Mwanamke type hiyo hana maana hata kidogo.

 

[mumemwema]

Wanawake bana. Kwahiyo akili ya huyo mwenzio kujiingiza ktk mahusiano wakati ana mtoto mdogo wa kunyonya huoni anatengeneza mazingira ya sintofahamu. Kwa akili ya kawaida tu unaweza kuanza kuhoji mtoto ni wa jamaa au vipi?
Jamaa akimsusia atatafutwa tu. Au anaweza asitafutwe pia mtoto anaweza akawa yupo kwa babake. Mwanamke type hiyo hana maana hata kidogo.

Still you didn't answer my question what the child has to do na mistake ya Huyo Dada? I think the baby has to be left out of this crazy mess na jamaa has to take care of that baby since the child is his .. Thanks..

 

[love more than100]

Ndugu zangu mm ni kijana miaka 30,elimu yangu ni kidato cha 4. nina mchumba ambaye ukweli nnapenda sana, nimekuwa nae kwenye mahusiano, kuanzia 2014 alipo maliza tuu degree ya uhasibu pale tia, nilikutana nae mtaani tuu ndipo mahusiano yakaanza.

Tumebahatika kupata mtoto wa kike 19. 10 2015, mwenzagu kwa sababu anavyeti alikuwa amesha apply kazi sehemu tofauti tofauti na bahati nzuri 2015 alipata kazi selikarini. Alipo pangiwa sehemu ya kazi ikabidi tukubaliane mm nimfuate, ingawa kipindi hicho nilikuwa na umachinga wangu Dar, kweli baada ya miezi kadhaa mm niliamua kumfuata mpenzi wangu ili tuishi pamoja, maisha yamesonga ingawa mikwaruzano ya hapa na pale ni mingi tumeishi hivyo hivyo.

Mwezi wa kwanza walipewa maelekezo na tasisi waende kusoma, Short courses ya miezi 4, ameenda na mtoto baada ya wiki akamuachisha mtoto ziwa ili awe na muda mzuri wa kusoma mtoto akampeleka kwa bb yake huko huko dar. Kwa hili mm niliona ni sawa ili awe na muda mzuri wakujisomea maana mwisho wa siku wafanye tena mitihani.

Tulikuwa tunawasiliana vizuri tuu. Muda wowote ule, baada ya wiki tatu, ndipo matatizo yalipoanza, kuna siku nilimpigia simu zote mbili zikawa hazipatikani, sikujua shida ni nini kwa sababu tulikuwa tumeshazoeshana kujulisha kwa kila hali mm hiyo siku nilipaniki nilipiga simu usiku mzima simu zikajapatikana saa 3 asubuhi kumuuliza anasema ziliisha chaji, wakati huo huo, usiku niliingia WhatsApp niliona last seen yake ilikuwa saa8:43 usiku.

Nilishidwa kuelewa, nilimtukana sana kwasababu ya hasira ila yy akawa ananicheka, nilimuambia kuongea na mm lazma anipe sababu za kuridhisha sikumuamini kwa sababu ya kuonekana online usiku.

Sikumtafuta nikiamini kwamba lazima anitafute angalau aniombe msamaha, imepita miezi 2 bila mawasiliano, nimekuja kusitukia sasa mm nnahitaji mawasiliano nae tayari yupo kwenye uhusiano mwingine huko huko chuo eti ameshachoka kusubili hasira zangu ziishe, na ananitamkia wazi hataki tena kuishi na mm sababu sijamtafuta miezi 2, nimelia sana nmemuomba mm kama nilikosa anisamehe aachane na jamaa hataki anasema nimeshachelewa kusolve tatizo.

Nnapiga cmu anakata nnatuma sms hazijibiwi, na hadi fb ameandika ameingia kwenye uhusiano mpya. Ndugu zangu nnalia sijui cha kufanya, ukweli nnampenda sana.

Elimu yako na yake now dys hayo ni lzm yangetokea. Jipange upy kuanza sfr nyingine

 

[adakiss23]

Still you didn't answer my question what the child has to do na mistake ya Huyo Dada? I think the baby has to be left out of this crazy mess na jamaa has to take care of that baby since the child is his .. Thanks..

How sure r u the kid is his? mtoto yuko kwa babake (biological one)

 

[pinky toto]

pole sana kaka yangu, huyo hakuwa fungu lako. mshyjuru Mungu kakuepusha mapema, ila km hukumtenda vbaya ipo cku atajutia na kukumbuka.
mapenzi ya dhati hayachagui elimu mcmdanganye jmn. kuna watu wanaelimu kubwa lkn wanaoa hta ambae hajasoma na anampnda na kumheshimu pia. kwny mapebz ya dhati hakuna elimu, kabila, rangi wala hali ya uwezo wa mtu.

 

[kibaravumba]

Ndugu zangu mm ni kijana miaka 30,elimu yangu ni kidato cha 4. nina mchumba ambaye ukweli nnapenda sana, nimekuwa nae kwenye mahusiano, kuanzia 2014 alipo maliza tuu degree ya uhasibu pale tia, nilikutana nae mtaani tuu ndipo mahusiano yakaanza.

Tumebahatika kupata mtoto wa kike 19. 10 2015, mwenzagu kwa sababu anavyeti alikuwa amesha apply kazi sehemu tofauti tofauti na bahati nzuri 2015 alipata kazi selikarini. Alipo pangiwa sehemu ya kazi ikabidi tukubaliane mm nimfuate, ingawa kipindi hicho nilikuwa na umachinga wangu Dar, kweli baada ya miezi kadhaa mm niliamua kumfuata mpenzi wangu ili tuishi pamoja, maisha yamesonga ingawa mikwaruzano ya hapa na pale ni mingi tumeishi hivyo hivyo.

Mwezi wa kwanza walipewa maelekezo na tasisi waende kusoma, Short courses ya miezi 4, ameenda na mtoto baada ya wiki akamuachisha mtoto ziwa ili awe na muda mzuri wa kusoma mtoto akampeleka kwa bb yake huko huko dar. Kwa hili mm niliona ni sawa ili awe na muda mzuri wakujisomea maana mwisho wa siku wafanye tena mitihani.

Tulikuwa tunawasiliana vizuri tuu. Muda wowote ule, baada ya wiki tatu, ndipo matatizo yalipoanza, kuna siku nilimpigia simu zote mbili zikawa hazipatikani, sikujua shida ni nini kwa sababu tulikuwa tumeshazoeshana kujulisha kwa kila hali mm hiyo siku nilipaniki nilipiga simu usiku mzima simu zikajapatikana saa 3 asubuhi kumuuliza anasema ziliisha chaji, wakati huo huo, usiku niliingia WhatsApp niliona last seen yake ilikuwa saa8:43 usiku.

Nilishidwa kuelewa, nilimtukana sana kwasababu ya hasira ila yy akawa ananicheka, nilimuambia kuongea na mm lazma anipe sababu za kuridhisha sikumuamini kwa sababu ya kuonekana online usiku.

Sikumtafuta nikiamini kwamba lazima anitafute angalau aniombe msamaha, imepita miezi 2 bila mawasiliano, nimekuja kusitukia sasa mm nnahitaji mawasiliano nae tayari yupo kwenye uhusiano mwingine huko huko chuo eti ameshachoka kusubili hasira zangu ziishe, na ananitamkia wazi hataki tena kuishi na mm sababu sijamtafuta miezi 2, nimelia sana nmemuomba mm kama nilikosa anisamehe aachane na jamaa hataki anasema nimeshachelewa kusolve tatizo.

Nnapiga cmu anakata nnatuma sms hazijibiwi, na hadi fb ameandika ameingia kwenye uhusiano mpya. Ndugu zangu nnalia sijui cha kufanya, ukweli nnampenda sana.

Achana nae!Anafanya research ya mahusiano na ndoa siku akikamilisha ataamua mwenyewe aje kwako ama abaki kwingine!Ila bahati mbaya hiyo research huchukua muda mrefu inaweza kuisha akishaanza kuzeeka

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[Dr Hor]

Cha msingi kaka fikiria kutafuta ela tu mapenzi siku hizi hayana mjuzi wala formula, ila mtoto husiache kumlea ata ukipata kumi we mtumie tu maana hasije kumuambia ata mtoto kuwa baba yako ndio alitukimbia hawachelewi hawa.

 

[mumemwema]

How sure r u the kid is his? mtoto yuko kwa babake (biological one)

According on his thread the baby was born in October ,2015 during this time everything was okay ingawaje some problem za hapa na pale za relationship zilikuwepo but it was not cheating involve and he did not say that he has doubt ya kuhusu the baby if she is his or not ... About grandma I did not see kwa thread kama the baby yuko kwa grandma wa baba or mama , it just grandma Dar.. And you dear, you tried to convince him asuse the baby hadi mama aamtafute , why it has to be that way? And why the inocent blood a new born has to pay something she did not create ?? He is not suppose to do that.. He has to be responsible for his daughter unless his ex says that baby is not his ( which I doubt it )... I hope you got my point .. Thanks..

 

[adakiss23]

According on his thread the baby was born in October ,2015 during this time everything was okay ingawaje some problem za hapa na pale za relationship zilikuwepo but it was not cheating involve and he did not say that he has doubt ya kuhusu the baby if she is his or not ... About grandma I did not see kwa thread kama the baby yuko kwa grandma wa baba or mama , it just grandma Dar.. And you dear, you tried to convince him asuse the baby hadi mama aamtafute , why it has to be that way? And why the inocent blood a new born has to pay something she did not create ?? He is not suppose to do that.. He has to responsible for his daughter unless his ex says that baby is not his ( which I doubt it )... I hope you got my point .. Thanks..

Hao wanaokuja kugundua watoto sio wa kwao wanakuwa katika mazingira yapi? Kifupi huyo mwanamke mwehu. A kid needs both parents' attention, love n care. Huo upuuzi alioanzisha huyo mwanamke ataumaliza mwenyewe. Asusiwe mtoi tu

 

[okoyoko]

Umeongea point loveissweet ila napenda kukuliza kwanini mara nyingi mwanamke akimzidi mwanaume elimu au fedha wanaanza kuleta kiburi na dharau kwa wanaume zao??

 

[KikulachoChako]

Nadhani kuna tofauti kubwa kati ya elimu tunayosoma huku dunia ya tatu na huko dunia ya kwanza....maana huku dunia ya tatu elimu baada ya kumpa ustaarabu na ufahamu mwanamke badala yake inamjengea kiburi kikubwa sana mwanamke.....huku afrika mwanamke kadri anavyopiga hatua kielimu ndivyo anavyokuwa na kiburi na jeuri.....Mimi binafsi ninawafahamu mashemeji zangu zaidi ya watano maisha yao na tabia zimebadilika baada ya kupata elimu tena kwa msaada wa waume zao ambao hapo mwanzo walikuwa wakiwaheshimu sana....

Hali hii ipo tofauti na wanawake wa kizungu ambapo unaweza kumkuta mwanamke wa kizungu ambaye ni phD holder akawa yupo kawaida tu....lakini mwanamke wa kiafrika akiwa na kiwango hicho cha elimu anatamani hata awe anawatemea usoni.....nadhani kuna kitu katika elimu ya kizungu....

 

[KikulachoChako]

Dear If I was you ..as bitter as it is ningeshukuru Mungu for the everything .. Huyo hakuwa wako my Kaka subiri wako anakuja.. Just move on by taking a time off on dating for a while .. Take care of your child with all your heart .. Invest your time on Praying, your child and work.. Na God will heal you.. Dont worry huyo yakimmshindwa mbona atakukumbuka na kurudi kwa kasi kwako.. But never take her back because hakuthamini Upendo wako bali alithamini money , forget her dear , she is not worthy for your tears to come out ... Nakuhakikishia she will pay for your tears huko ataaishia kuchezewa na kupotezewa muda .. Why? For what she did to you.. Unajua ni bora MTU akucheat , au ku lie then can do that the way she did.. But you didnt ... Ni wivu tuu wa kummpenda ... Sasa wait the outcome yake ya ku reap for what she sowed .. Soon it will come .. Pole sana... Thanks..

Nataka nikuoe dada je tutawezana....mimi standard seven na wewe phD holder.....???






Joke

 

[izzo]

Mkuu futa machozi songa mbele lakini unatakiwa kujua kuwa mwanamke wa kiafrika ajaumbwa na mungu kumiliki ni tofauti na wenzetu weupe mwanamke wa kiafrika akisema anakupenda ujue kuna kitu tu akipenda kutoka kwako bado watu weusi tunapenda vitu si mtu si jambo la kushangaza kusikia mtu anasema nampenda mtu mweusi, Au napenda mtu mrefu Au napenda mnene Au mwenye nundu Au mwembamba bt tumesahau kuwa vyote vinaweza kuondoka mnene akawa mwembamba na mwembamba akawa mnene

lakini kama umempenda mtu coz kama umempenda frank hawezi kubadilika akawa juma hata siku moja still atakuwa frank tu ni tofauti na wenzetu weupe yy akisema nakupenda anamaanisha kweli unaweza kuwa nae miaka yote asikwambie nakupenda coz neno nakupenda ni neno kubwa sana ila watu weusi tumeligeuza ni fursa inawezekana ulivyokuwa machinga wakat yy yupo chuo alikupenda coz ulikuwa unampiga pamba so now anauwezo wa kununua pamba mwenyewe so umeonekana ni jipu

cjajua Kwa mwanawake weusi wa nje kama na wenyewe wana tabia kama za wenzao ktk genetic bt naamini nyani wa kufuga ni tofauti na nyani wa porini so inawezekana wakawa tofauti kidogo na wa huku

 

[mtoto wa kibopa]

Sisi wenye elimu ndogo tunanyanyasika sana daaah hili darasa la saba la mkoloni nitapata mchumba kwelii kwa mwendo huu??! Anyway piga chini hiyo mwanamke.fanya kazi kwa bidii lea mtoto wako vizur.maisha yatakuwa pouwa tu.na kamwe usimrudie ni jipu

 

[bbc]

Kijana acha kulialia nenda darasani, kakuvumilia sana uchumba gani huo!

 

[nusuhela]

Anza kutumia ubongo wako. Usiache moyo ukutawale. Utabaki una lilia lia tu. Cha kufanya mwambie we unataka kumtunza mwanao . Achana na huyo mdada.

Ye amesha Pata maisha mapya na wewe tafuta yako. Kuwa mwanaume acha kulia lia.

Yote yanawezekana. Lakini sio rahisi hivyo. Mapenzi yanauma zaidi ya mwiba mguuni. Wewe yasikie tu kwa mwenzio

 

[mumemwema]

Nataka nikuoe dada je tutawezana....mimi standard seven na wewe phD holder.....???






Joke

Haaaahhhaaaaaaa.... Thanks..

 

[KikulachoChako]

Haaaahhhaaaaaaa.... Thanks..

Hahahaaaa....lakini ni kwanini nyinyi wanawake wasomi manatukataa sisi tusiosoma.....??

 

[Malafyale]

Dear If I was you ..as bitter as it is ningeshukuru Mungu for the everything .. Huyo hakuwa wako my Kaka subiri wako anakuja.. Just move on by taking a time off on dating for a while .. Take care of your child with all your heart .. Invest your time on Praying, your child and work.. Na God will heal you.. Dont worry huyo yakimmshindwa mbona atakukumbuka na kurudi kwa kasi kwako.. But never take her back because hakuthamini Upendo wako bali alithamini money , forget her dear , she is not worthy for your tears to come out ... Nakuhakikishia she will pay for your tears huko ataaishia kuchezewa na kupotezewa muda .. Why? For what she did to you.. Unajua ni bora MTU akucheat , au ku lie then can do that the way she did.. But you didnt ... Ni wivu tuu wa kummpenda ... Sasa wait the outcome yake ya ku reap for what she sowed .. Soon it will come .. Pole sana... Thanks..

Huyo wake atakuja kama HANA PESA?
Cha kumshauri atafute pesa tu;akiwa na pesa hao viumbe hawasumbui atachagua yyt ampendaye

 

[Dream Queen]

Yaani mwanaume wa leo bado unalilia mwanamke?...inbox nikugawie dada yangu.

Unamuuza!