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Mapenzi kwa watoto!

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Pearl, Jan 21, 2011.

  1. Pearl

    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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    Mapenzi,mapenzi ,mapenzi,mara mwaume huyu kanitongoza,mara mwanamke huyu hivi lkn ni vizuri pia tukajua na kuchambua mapenzi na pia kuwakumbuka haswa wale watokao ktk muungano wetu wa mapenzi,hapa namaanisha watoto wetu.
    Mapenzi neno lenyewe ni pana asana lakini pia ni mjumuhisho wa watu na vitu vingi kama a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend. Si vibaya leo tukajikumbusha majukum yetu kama wazazi na pia kutambua mchango wetu kwa watoto wetu!
    Take Care of the Biological Needs of Children
    The first role of the parents is to take care of their child’s biological needs. Providing physical care to fulfill the needs of the child imply: proper food, fresh air, good lighting, enough sleep, recreation time, etc.
    Provide an Optimal Environment

    You have to provide a safe, nurturing and supportive environment that allows the children to grow healthy. For an optimal development, children need: adequate physical home environment; a tolerant and positive atmosphere; conditions for positive changes and improvements; opportunities to explore and experiment in his environment; consistent routine; etc.
    Protect Your Children

    Make sure their environment is safe. You have to protect your children, to warn them by telling what is safe to do and what isn’t, before they venture out on their own. Teach your child the difference between right and wrong, and that wrong may be harmful both for him and for others
    Teach and Educate Your Child

    To raise your children properly, your duties aren’t limited to food, shelter and protection, but also require you to teach and educate them, to shape knowledge and character, to prepare your child to face the real world. So another parent’s role is to make possible learning of such actions as walking and talking, reading and writing (to facilitate learning of these activities, a parent must have patience and understanding).
    Provide Guidance, Direction, Assistance and Help

    Sit back and listen to your child, abstain from imposing your point of view and just offer appropriate direction and guidance. Another important role of parent is to provide guidance and assistance in the process of personal development and growth. The most effective way to help children is to advise them instead of commanding and to guide the progress of child development without doing his work (help them cope, but don’t solve yourself their problems).

    Take Care of the Social Emotional Skills

    Another duty of you as a parent is to help your child to acquire emotional wellbeing. There are positive factors, such as: praise, encouragement, calm talk and response, affectionate attention, etc. that will help to build healthy emotions. Strive to eliminate negative factors such as will annihilation, sarcasm, neglect or bullying. Each child is unique, don’t compare your child with others (especially when you observe a weakness), rather help him deal with being different and even encourage him to be unique. Assist children in learning how to express their feelings and desires and help them develop healthy relationships. Socialize your child.
    Discipline Gently

    Understand what the child is communicating directly or indirectly by his attitudes and behaviors. A major aspect of the parent’s role is to establish and maintain order in family by requesting a certain level of discipline. Always have a calm reaction, respond consistently, appropriately, and sensitively and gently give a corrective feedback to your child when his behavior is inappropriate. A calm and emphatic talk helps children become conscious of their mistakes. An upset reaction increases the tendency of child to defend him. You have to do what is best for your children, rather than overlook their ways of behaving in order to meet your need for silence. Practice a gentle but firm style of discipline.
    Kwa leo ni hayo tu,nawatakia malezi mema.
  2. hashycool

    hashycool JF-Expert Member

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    NB Never forget to kiss them goodnight even if they are asleep!
  3. Pearl

    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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    ah ah ah kweli kabisa and leading them in prayes and singing lullabies
  4. Chauro

    Chauro JF-Expert Member

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    asante wazazi wa leo tumekuwa busy kutafuta mali za mashindano huku tukiangamiza kizazi chetu naamini tutasoma na kufanyia kazi haya
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    Pearl JF-Expert Member

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    yap hope we do so!our kids need us the most
  6. la Jeneral

    la Jeneral JF-Expert Member

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    exactly,,,waacheni watoto wadogo waje kwangu,rejea biblia yako au msahafu
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    Eng. Smasher JF-Expert Member

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    Inabidi nitafute mtoto fasta Pearl thanks kwa hii attachment!!!
    Wabeja sana.
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    The Finest JF-Expert Member

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    To lead them in prayers is the most important thing
  9. Desidii

    Desidii JF-Expert Member

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    Ni vyema na haki kuwakumbuka watoto wako katika sala na kusali pamoja Mungu huwasikiliza wote
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    shosti JF-Expert Member

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    Kama wayatenda tenda haya umbaba mwema ubarikiwe sana.