King’asti
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Love is all about compromising. If you had come from a culture where there was no tongue kissing on the menu, or husbands didnt buy their women cars. Would you refuse the change?
If my culture allowed then it means I am accustomed to it. And now that I don't it sounds like pulling off my arm to please a man.
Nakuombea upate mke mwema!!!!
I do....!!!
Mind you, sijasema mie napiga goti. Hata la kuigiza huwa nasahau. Lakini ni utamaduni tu wa background yangu, ila ningekutana na mpenda goti mbona easy tu? Kuna mtu anapenda snaa kuamkiwa shkamoo, nikaona isiwe kesi. Mshkaji kanizidi 15 yrs, japo we work and feel same level. Nikaona why not, tuko peace kabisaa.
Kaka that is abusive .upigiwe magoti are you kidding me .African men are not worth it ,very hard looking,noI had this conversation with a friend of mine and shes like she can never and will never do it! Men are not worth it bla bla bla...
I was like what the heck! This is absolutely the peak of pride!
Whats the big deal? After all hes your husband (your head).
My question goes to all the ladies in the house both married & unmarried. Can you kneel down for your husband openly?
Is anything wrong in doing that? Or Im the one not seeing things right.
NOTE: This question might not apply to people that kneeling down is not part of their culture.
Thanks.
Im not from a culture of kneeling, but i would. I dont mind doing it. Its like saying shikamoo to him asubuhi na jioni. It doesnt take a piece off my mouth, sio? I can show him respect without kneeling. We argue like adults, we joke, we laugh and we fight too. WITH RESPECT!
my dear goti linabigwa kwa Mungu tu, hakuna ruhusa ya kumuabudu binadamu, kwani Mungu wetu ni mwenye wivu!
Only God no body elsegoti si kuabudu tu,mfano ukimkosea mmeo,uwez mpigia magot kumwomba msamaha
Honey it is called " abuse" .goti linaloongelewa kwenye biblia ni la unyenyekevu. Haina maana lazma upige goti physically. Ni unyeyekevu chini ya mkono ulio Hodari. Hapa tunaongelea utii, ambayo ndio sign yake.kwa baadhi ya tamaduni ni goti lile la mwadelaaaa! Unaabudu na kunyenyekea kwa Mungu, lakini unamtii mume. Its Biblical. Japo hatutii ujinga.
You need propofol and seroquel to treat your extremely insecurity level .Exactly na kama linapigwa kwa upendo wote mtaenjoy aiseee ila mtu kutumia kumnyanyasa mwenza wake hiyo sio sahihi! Kwa mimi binafsi nilivyolelewa hadi dada zangu wananipigia magoti, mama yangu pia kuna baadhi ya vitu ni lazima anipigie magoti sasa ni kitu ambacho nilikiheshimu! Believe me I treated her kama mama yangu, na sikuwahi kuomba wala kulazimisha alijua ni kitu nakipenda akajizoesha! In turn unajikuta mnakua close kuliko!
Sweet heart culture does change .siku Natalia unikute Napiga goti ujue nimekutana na yesu.mume wangu hata glass ya maji simpiMind you, sijasema mie napiga goti. Hata la kuigiza huwa nasahau. Lakini ni utamaduni tu wa background yangu, ila ningekutana na mpenda goti mbona easy tu? Kuna mtu anapenda snaa kuamkiwa shkamoo, nikaona isiwe kesi. Mshkaji kanizidi 15 yrs, japo we work and feel same level. Nikaona why not, tuko peace kabisaa.
Kaka that is abusive .upigiwe magoti are you kidding me .African men are not worth it ,very hard looking,no
Cash ,vitumbo vya chips ,mpaka ufike kwake mpaka uruke mifereji ya maji.pleseeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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Sweet heart culture does change .siku Natalia unikute Napiga goti ujue nimekutana na yesu.mume wangu hata glass ya maji simpi
Ofcoz it does change. If you would tell me a black african woman can live happily being jobless, i would have sworn that aint true! Gimme a bag of benjamins, but working keeps me sane. Its a social need.
Mfano christmas I got brand new Tahoe 0 mileage from my hubby.Nilipiga magoti kwa mungu.Thank God .And I pray to God for my hubby's health and all that .African men are very insecure ,controlling and alcoholicNatalia APO KWENYE RED,WAKIZUNGU NDIO WANASTAHILI?