Kwanini kuna watu hawaheshimu "personal space"?

haszu · Jun 6, 2025

Nimekuja sehemu msibani, nimekaa kwenye kiti, amekuja jamaa ameweka kitu chake kinagusana kabisa na kiti changu, huku mabega yake yakikutana na yangu.

Nikakausha, sasa jamaa anapiga story anajisahau anakugusa miguuni, hii kitu ni very awkward. Nashindwa kumuelewa huyu jamaa yeye anaona kawaida au anamatatizo hanastarabika?

KENZY · Jun 6, 2025

Mng'ate bichwa

Inside10 · Jun 6, 2025

Sasa si umuulize hapo hapo msibani mkuu!!
Hivi kila kitu cha kupost?!

No Reforms, No Election.

Moisemusajiografii · Jun 6, 2025

Ukisikia kujumuika ndiyo huko.Changamana na watu.Au una ule ugonjwa wa kutopenda kuguswa na kitu kama vile manyoya,mbao/anaphylaxis nk?

mshamba_hachekwi · Jun 6, 2025

"Personal space" kibongo bongo sio kipaumbele sana

Kwenye daladala unafanyaje? au hupandi?

Risen man · Jun 6, 2025

Sawasawa... Mello ameyasikia malalamiko yako atayafanyia kazi.

Midekoo · Jun 6, 2025

Pole sana

Burkinabe · Jun 6, 2025

Kwa mawazo haya tuko na safari ndefu hadi kuifikia nchi ya ahadi

Moisemusajiografii · Jun 6, 2025

Midekoo said:
Pole sana

Burkinabe said:
Kwa mawazo haya tuko na safari ndefu hadi kuifikia nchi ya ahadi

Kuna uwezekano mkubwa ana:-
-changamoto ya kiafya/allergy,
-hajawahi kuchangamana.
-ana kinyaa tu akikaribiana na watu
-amejipata na anahitaji kuishi/kukaa sehemu kwa kujidai na kuchukua nafasi kubwa.
-muoga wa watu na hawezi kuchangamana na idadi fulani ya watu.

patrickk · Jun 6, 2025

Jf imekua kama shimo la taka, kila uchafu watu wanatupia huku

Iselamagazi · Jun 6, 2025

haszu said:
Nimekuja sehemu msibani, nimekaa kwenye kiti, amekuja jamaa ameweka kitu chake kinagusana kabisa na kiti changu, huku mabega yake yakikutana na yangu.

Nikakausha, sasa jamaa anapiga story anajisahau anakugusa miguuni, hii kitu ni very awkward. Nashindwa kumuelewa huyu jamaa yeye anaona kawaida au anamatatizo hanastarabika?

Ulipaswa kuchukua hatua mapema. Kuna option mbili ambazo ungefanya:

Kumwambia (politely) kuhusu kitendo chake cha kugusanisha viti na mabega yako kusuguana naya kwako, au
Kusogeza kiti chako mbali kidogo na yeye alipokaa.

Sasa, kutokana na traits zako za melancholic (Blue personality), sasa umemwachia na akaendelea kukutesa.
Pole sana!

Fbn · Jun 6, 2025

Utapanga foleni kama hivi unabakishiwa

Iselamagazi · Jun 6, 2025

patrickk said:
Jf imekua kama shimo la taka, kila uchafu watu wanatupia huku

Wewe mbona umetoa mawazo yako huku? Mwacha naye ataoe ya moyoni.
This is JamiiForums where we dare to talk openly.

Tlaatlaah · Jun 6, 2025

haszu said:
Nimekuja sehemu msibani, nimekaa kwenye kiti, amekuja jamaa ameweka kitu chake kinagusana kabisa na kiti changu, huku mabega yake yakikutana na yangu.

Nikakausha, sasa jamaa anapiga story anajisahau anakugusa miguuni, hii kitu ni very awkward. Nashindwa kumuelewa huyu jamaa yeye anaona kawaida au anamatatizo hanastarabika?

Gentleman,
hama, sogeza kiti au chukua kiti chako na uhame pembeni kidogo kuepusha shari.

in fact,
muheshimu anaekuheshimu asie kuheshimu usimjali🐒

boniuso · Jun 6, 2025

haszu said:
Nimekuja sehemu msibani, nimekaa kwenye kiti, amekuja jamaa ameweka kitu chake kinagusana kabisa na kiti changu, huku mabega yake yakikutana na yangu.

Nikakausha, sasa jamaa anapiga story anajisahau anakugusa miguuni, hii kitu ni very awkward. Nashindwa kumuelewa huyu jamaa yeye anaona kawaida au anamatatizo hanastarabika?

Mim sehemu ya kazi, nimeweka maji yangu kwenye kopo nakuta yamepungua kumbe jamaa kanywa na nimgeni. Sikuwaza nikahis labda kanawa nikachota tena maji kwaajili yangu ninywe nakuta yameisha fyuu namuuliza anacheka et ni mim hapa nimekunywa.

Nimebaki najiuliz maswali kadhaa kama anafany hivi kwa mtu hatujazoeana nae itakuwaje kwa anaowamudu?

Lakini pia unaanzaje kugusa kitu kama maji, tena yapo ndan ya kopo bila kuomba ama utaratibu wowote kuufata?

Elimu na malezi ni changamoto sana juu ya watu kutambua mipka na nafasi.

Yusufu R H Sabura · Jun 6, 2025

dah ! personal space ,,, sipendi kugusana na watu.........nilijua ni mimi tu.

Shadow7 · Jun 6, 2025

Vishu Mtata · Jun 6, 2025

Intelligent businessman njoo umuwahi mdogo wako, mahali alipo si salama kabisa. Kwa nature yake akikutana na watu kama DIVISHENI FOO ameisha.

Kadhi Mkuu 1 · Jun 6, 2025

haszu said:
Nimekuja sehemu msibani, nimekaa kwenye kiti, amekuja jamaa ameweka kitu chake kinagusana kabisa na kiti changu, huku mabega yake yakikutana na yangu.

Nikakausha, sasa jamaa anapiga story anajisahau anakugusa miguuni, hii kitu ni very awkward. Nashindwa kumuelewa huyu jamaa yeye anaona kawaida au anamatatizo hanastarabika?

Naona unawaza muda wa kula itakuwaje. Ndicho kinachokukera.

Mbalizi feedstuff · Jun 6, 2025

Dah kuna wale lazima wakiongea mtu lazima akuguseguse huku ndani ya mkono

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