kwa wale walio kwenye mahusiano ya ,,,,,,,,,,,

kwa wale walio kwenye mahusiano ya ,,,,,,,,,,,

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Hello everyone, am here because am curious and maybe i want to learn and understand something.
To you all who are in a love relationship, i wish to know something;
how many of you are happy/satisfied and maybe why and
how many of you are unhappy/unsatisfied and maybe why.
Tafadhali sema ukweli, i believe it will cost you nothing.
 
Du, hayeni kwa kututenga...nami naijweka pembeeni naepusha msongamano!!!

Ila, haturuhusiwi hata kuhadithia how it was when we were in those 'love relationships' (i wonder who is in a hate relationship)??
 
Mhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! Vingerezaring hivi mbona mnataka kuniaibisha Kubwa La Maadui! Slang kushney babu G! Okay! Let me give it a try.

Well to be honest (Something of which im not most of the time)

Happiness!

I am happy sometimes. Maybe not happy everyday all day, but somehow happy!

Satisfied!

Mmmmmmmh! Well people like me the realist we can never be satisfied! We always prefer more to less! We always want more. We always believe we can better than what we have. So its constantly a tag of war between wanting more and settling for less. That is a riddle i myself cant solve.

The Why!!!!!!!!!!

Why am i not happy all the time and not satisfied!???? Well for starters THE WORLD AIN'T FAIR , NEVER HAS BEEN, NEVER WILL BE!!!!!!!!!

1. Unaempenda kaoa na hampendi mkewe sema hamkukutana mapema!

2.Unaempenda anawapenda wote wa 3 kila mtu amempendea chake.

3.Anaekupenda humpendi kabisaaaaaaaa!

4.Unaempenda hataki hata kukusikia, anakuonaje mbaya sasa?!

WHO CAN WE REALY BLAME? THE GODS!? OUR FATE!? KARMA!? OUR LUCK!? Choose whatever suits u to blame!:smash:
 
Kama ni satisfaction na kuwa happy its all upon me, meself and i! To be happy is a choice. I am so selfish. I create my own happiness haven. Kwa hiyo kama nikiona mwenzangu anafanya nisiyoona sawa nabaki tu 'huyu nae....crappy looser'. Nacheka nasepa. Crazy huh?
 
,,,i don't think it's really crazy,,but nadhani ume choose a good way yakuleta uhusiano wako in a good balance and have given it an opportunity to progress,,kwanini nasema haya, it is because no matter how good a person can be hakuna alie perfect.
 
In a relationship since September last year. Happy. Very happy and satisfied.
The relationship satisfies our expectations, we both look for the same thing 🙂
 
Mentor said:
Du, hayeni kwa kututenga...nami naijweka pembeeni naepusha msongamano!!!

Ila, haturuhusiwi hata kuhadithia how it was when we were in those 'love relationships' (i wonder who is in a hate relationship)??
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Mi nimesha change group. Nakuacha na Smile huko kw wasolid.
 
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Relationships are not meant to make you happy. They are meant to make you complete.
Your happiness, is still your own responsibility to bear.
Relationships are meant to give you the parts that you can never have on your own
Whether you choose to find happiness from there, is still your choice,

and remember it's not going to be something given to you when you find someone you love.
it has always been something you create. Whether you choose to create that happiness
with the the person that completes your life, is a responsibility that rests solely on your shoulders.
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Mwali said:
Mi nimesha change group. Nakuacha na Smile huko kw wasolid.
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Hahaha...really?? know what my dear...u r always welcomed back!!!

I was where you are, I felt what you feel...I dreamt the best of dreams..until one new year eve when it all came down..castles, mansions n cities built in the sky all came crumbling like the sand of the ocean!

never be so sure...but yet again, never stop to enjoying the moments you have right now!

Cheerio...until we meet again this side next time!

...with love.
 
leona said:
Hello everyone, am here because am curious and maybe i want to learn and understand something.
To you all who are in a love relationship, i wish to know something;
how many of you are happy/satisfied and maybe why and
how many of you are unhappy/unsatisfied and maybe why.
Tafadhali sema ukweli, i believe it will cost you nothing.
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wewe ni me au ke..
 
i have been in a relationship for almost 5 years, yani mda wote huo i have enjoyed(apart from the fights za hapa na pale which is normal, without forgeting the 2-3 hours chicky breakups), am happy bt the idea kwamba one day ntaweza umizwa is killing me(cant help it), i dnt know kama i can live with her hurting me! ila ndo ivo anythng can happen,just praying it goes well(and i trust her, dont throw stones at me)...
 
Mentor said:
Hahaha...really?? know what my dear...u r always welcomed back!!!

I was where you are, I felt what you feel...I dreamt the best of dreams..until one new year eve when it all came down..castles, mansions n cities built in the sky all came crumbling like the sand of the ocean!

never be so sure...but yet again, never stop to enjoying the moments you have right now!

Cheerio...until we meet again this side next time!

...with love.
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What matters is to have been there, done that. Hata kama it all crumbled down into the sea, the memories are there to say it was worth the experience. Don't let the bitterness of the last moments spoil the happiness of moths (if not years) you shared.
 
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