Kupenda ndiyo nini?

Beesmom · Jan 9, 2023

pureman2 said:
JF huwa hatunyimani uzoefu na maarifa. Funguka tu

Hawez kukuelezea huyo,huwa hausudu kabisa hizo mambo

Sax · Jan 9, 2023

Ndege mjanja hunasa kwenye tundu bovu,ni suala la muda tu utaelewa.

pureman2 · Jan 9, 2023

Unavoidable Servant said:
Fahamu zenyewe huna, Sasa utastuka vipi?

Ebu elezea wewe ,kwako kupenda ndo nini? Usikute na wewe ni mwenzangu mie tuaoendeshwa na nyege afu ndo tunasema nampenda mtu flani

pureman2 · Jan 9, 2023

Doctor G said:
Ndege mjanja hunasa kwenye tundu bovu,ni suala la muda tu utaelewa.

Haisee inashangaza ...comment 10 but no one is bold enough to explain what Love really is ?

Raymanu KE · Jan 9, 2023

pureman2 said:
Nisaidie kujua tofauti za hizo terms ?

Love Ni Hali ya kumpenda mtu kwa dhati ya moyo wako au kihisia bila kujali mapungufu Yake.
INFATUATION Ni Hali ya kumtamani mtu kwa jinsi anavyoonekana.Hapa sio lazima pawe na mapenzi ya dhati.

pureman2 · Jan 9, 2023

Mshana Jr said:
Kupitia hapa nadhani ataelimika

Mimi naona this word Love is overated and missunderstood term . Mkuu wewe ni nguri na mzoefu wa hizi mambo . Tumia lugha nyepesi utufafanulie kupenda ndo Nini ?

pureman2 · Jan 9, 2023

RAYMANU254 said:
Love Ni Hali ya kumpenda mtu kwa dhati ya moyo wako au kihisia bila kujali mapungufu Yake.
INFATUATION Ni Hali ya kumtamani mtu kwa jinsi anavyoonekana.Hapa sio lazima pawe na mapenzi ya dhati.

So mtu akizama penzini anaweza zitofautisha hizo feelings. Na kumpenda mtu kunaanza lini ? Je unaweza mpenda MTU from first sight au ndo hizo infatuation zetu ?

Uhakika Bro · Jan 9, 2023

pureman2 said:
Haisee inashangaza ...comment 10 but no one is bold enough to explain what Love really is ?

Tuliwahi kujaribu kugusia katika video fupi

Sharamdala · Jan 9, 2023

Kila kitu na Wakati wake, huo muda utafika na utakuwa mpoleee

Sax · Jan 9, 2023

pureman2 said:
Haisee inashangaza ...comment 10 but no one is bold enough to explain what Love really is ?

Love simply refer to a strong like for something...

SatCitAnanda · Jan 9, 2023

Umewahi kupendwa?
Mama / baba / yeyote aliyekulea anakupenda?

pureman2 · Jan 9, 2023

SatCitAnanda said:
Umewahi kupendwa?
Mama / baba / yeyote aliyekulea anakupenda?

Sijawahi hata hisi kuna mtu ananipenda

SatCitAnanda · Jan 10, 2023

pureman2 said:
Sijawahi hata hisi kuna mtu ananipenda

Inawezekana kweli hukuwahi kuhisi
Lakini nikuhakikishie ulipendwa ndomana ulilishwa, uliogeshwa, ulibadilishwa nepi, umetunzwa kiubishiubishi hivyo hivyo hadi umekua! (Mambo ya love languages).
Wao wenyewe walikuwa na yao wanayapitia but I think they did their best!

Hata hao exes zako kutakuwepo na waliokupenda mkapishana lugha!

Upendo ni hisia chanya kuelekea wengine,
hisia za kutaka wajisikie vizuri, wafurahi,
wafanikiwe n.k.,
zinazokupeleka wewe kutenda kufanikisha hayo.

So ni hisia + matendo.

At first sight huwa ni sexual attraction sio upendo,
Lakini with time hizo positive feelings (upendo) hukua.

Then commitment comes in. Bila kuwa committed kuwa nimeamua / nina wajibu kumpenda huyu, love dies! ! !

Wanaoshindwa kuishi bila exes are just attached to their exes.

Attachment inajifikiria yenyewe, upendo unamfikiria mwengine!

Mfano mama anampenda sana mtoto wake kiasi kwamba hataki aoe / aolewe, anataka abaki yeye na mwanaye tu kila siku, mahusiano yote ya mwanaye anayaharibu au hayabariki.
Is that love?

Ndo kama ex,
Kama ex hafurahi na wewe anataka ku move on,
Kama unampenda kweli you will let him/her go afurahishe moyo wake!

Anayeona bora abaki naye wateseke hivyo hivyo mradi wawe wote,
its not love,
just attachment.

So letting go doesn't mean hujawahi kupenda,
Lakini if you cannot form an emotional bond with someone and stay committed,
tatizo lipo!

Wagumu Tunadumu · Jan 10, 2023

Kiukwel hata mimi sijawah kuwa na mwanamke akanipagawisha mpaka nikawa napagawa juu yake

Yaani hata kama sijamkula ninakuwa namchukulia kawaida tu

Superb2014 · Jan 10, 2023

Inawezekana wewe bado ni Mtoto.

pwilo · Jan 10, 2023

Mapenzi yalikuwa yananitesa sana ila tangu nilivyoanza kusoma vitabu ndio kidogo nikapata nafuu tusome vitabu vinasaidia na kitabu changu cha kwanza kilikuwa men are from mars and women are from VENUS sasa hivi sihangaiki na mtoto wa mtu lolote litakalotokea sawa tu.

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