Kuna happiness inayo yokana na kufanya kitu ili wewe uwe happy moja kwa moja (direct link), even using other people sometimes, na kuna hapiness inatokana na kumfanya mtu mngine kua happy (inderect link). Ikiwa unamfanya mtu awe happy na hata happiness yake yenyewe haikufanyi wewe kua na furaha basi hiyo sio sustainable sababu huna motivation yoyote, utaishia kuona kama ni sacrifices tu.
To me life is about happiness, giving and receiving. Na ukiwa na hii philisophy ndio unapata kwa undani maana ya "there is more pleasure in giving than receiving", mnakua mnashindana tu who will make mwenzie happier ili mwenyewe awe happy.
Sawia! Ningesema "intrinsic" motivation, ambayo kimsingi inaanza kwa kujitizama binafsi/kuangalia au kuzingatia "maslahi" binafsi... motivation ...
Swadaqta! Lazima kwanza ujipende mwenyewe ndio utajua namna ya kuwapenda wengine. But mapenzi yako mwenyewe yasiwe yakuwatumia wengine. yawe ya kuwafurahisha wale uwapendao.mon ami, falsafa yake nimeielewa ila kama alivyosema mchangiaji mmoja, kupenda huanza kwa kujipenda mwenyewe na wengine husisitiza kuwa mtu asiyejipenda hawezi kumpenda mwingine - na ndio maana mwenye hekima mmoja alisema mpende jirani yako kama nafsi yako.
kwenye kupenda mamuie lazima ujue furaha ya umpendaye iko ukimfanyia nini.lakini saaasa mbn tunaambiwa ili nipende inabidi nijue kujipenda kwanza(SIYO TUNAAMBIWA HATA MIMI NAITUMIA SANA HII!)
like kwa kuwa najipenda na napenda kuwa na furaha basi nitahakikisha ninayempenda ana furha aili niwe na furaha kupitia furaha yake!sasa hapo si ndo hilo analosema Roulette au?
ahahahah inaeezekana hta kuelezea tu kupenda na kwenyewe ni kazi ati!
Katika filamu maarufu ya Shaka Zulu kuna sehemu anamuambia mama yake: You have no capacity for such emotion. Kwa tafsiri ya moja kwa moja: Huna uwezo wa kuwa na hisia hiyo. Hapa alikuwa akimaanisha kuwa mama yake hana uwezo wa kupenda na wala hajawahi kuwa nao kutokana na maisha ya chuki na kisirani
Mkulu
Wena we ndovu...
Nandi na Sanzagakona walipendana sana na ndiyo maana Gendiana alifanya jitihada mbalimbali kuweza kushinda penzi la Nandi matokeo yake hakufanikiwa.
Tatizo ni kwamba penzi kubwa likiwepo kati ya watu wawili ...na mmoja wapo akashindwa kulitunza, hugeuka kuwa uadui mkubwa.
Kumbuka kule mtoni wakati prince anaomba vitu kwa Nandi....
Mayeete Companero
In this matter be the captain of somebody's boat and don't mind too much whether the captain of your boat is sailing in the right direction coz as you say, you might never be able to find out.I sense a very thin line btn the motivation to love someone in order to achieve your own happyness, and loving someone purely becaise you want to see her happy..like your satisfaction comes from her being happy because of what "you do" to her in the name of love. For the two perspectives there is information asymmetry...the "loved" one ca never get to know the motives behind, whether itbis the former, or the latter. She sails in a boat where the origin.and the destination are only known to the captain.
In this matter be the captain of somebody's boat and don't mind too much whether the captain of your boat is sailing in the right direction coz as you say, you might never be able to find out.
Sorry.. information is not knowledge ?
how?
Sorry.. information is not knowledge ?
how?
Afadhali umemuuliza, mimi nilitaka kumuuliza lakini nikaogopa "Tittle yake"
Labaik!!!
Tuna information about a tape featuring lwakatare kua mikononi mwa mwigulu. Tuna knowledge gani about it?