Kazi na maisha

Ron70

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Jan 20, 2022
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I don’t know if this is the place to put this ila I just need somewhere to vent

Najua kuna watakao kuja na matusi na kejeli but ni vile I’m ready for all that throw everything you have at me atleast maybe I will feel better then

So I have this job I currently hold, kwa standard za Tanzania I can say ni well paying job, I’m not actually bragging cause I know people who get paid way more than I do.

Thing is I don’t feel my purpose in doing this job. Kazi ina ninyima uhuru, I literally don’t have a life. I can’t socialize anymore, can’t hold on to relationships yani I can’t even better my life in ways I imagined this job will let me do.

I have some amount saved up and napata mawazo ya kuacha kazi nifanye mambo mengine but again I’m not a street smart person, sijioni nikitoboa on the street.

So I’m like stuck in the middle niko nimechoka na hii kazi and I can’t seem to find a strong plan B option for my life and lately it has taken a toll on my life maana siwezi concetrate na kazi and I also don’t enjoy the little free time I get. Honestly nimechoka I can’t seem to figure my life out.

My mind ina nambia just write that letter ondoka ofisini and the other part of it tells me to give myself time and to give time time, I’m at a crossroad. I want my life back but I don’t see how I can achieve this.
 
I don’t know if this is the place to put this ila I just need somewhere to vent

Najua kuna watakao kuja na matusi na kejeli but ni vile I’m ready for all that throw everything you have at me atleast maybe I will feel better then

So I have this job I currently hold, kwa standard za Tanzania I can say ni well paying job, I’m not actually bragging cause I know people who get paid way more than I do.

Thing is I don’t feel my purpose in doing this job. Kazi ina ninyima uhuru, I literally don’t have a life. I can’t socialize anymore, can’t hold on to relationships yani I can’t even better my life in ways I imagined this job will let me do.

I have some amount saved up and napata mawazo ya kuacha kazi nifanye mambo mengine but again I’m not a street smart person, sijioni nikitoboa on the street.

So I’m like stuck in the middle niko nimechoka na hii kazi and I can’t seem to find a strong plan B option for my life and lately it has taken a toll on my life maana siwezi concetrate na kazi and I also don’t enjoy the little free time I get. Honestly nimechoka I can’t seem to figure my life out.

My mind ina nambia just write that letter ondoka ofisini and the other part of it tells me to give myself time and to give time time, I’m at a crossroad. I want my life back but I don’t see how I can achieve this.
Kuwa na malengo ndo uache na kuanza shughuli nyingine kama ni kilimo au biashara,kazi inachosha sana Hasa za Mauzo!
 
I don’t know if this is the place to put this ila I just need somewhere to vent

Najua kuna watakao kuja na matusi na kejeli but ni vile I’m ready for all that throw everything you have at me atleast maybe I will feel better then

So I have this job I currently hold, kwa standard za Tanzania I can say ni well paying job, I’m not actually bragging cause I know people who get paid way more than I do.

Thing is I don’t feel my purpose in doing this job. Kazi ina ninyima uhuru, I literally don’t have a life. I can’t socialize anymore, can’t hold on to relationships yani I can’t even better my life in ways I imagined this job will let me do.

I have some amount saved up and napata mawazo ya kuacha kazi nifanye mambo mengine but again I’m not a street smart person, sijioni nikitoboa on the street.

So I’m like stuck in the middle niko nimechoka na hii kazi and I can’t seem to find a strong plan B option for my life and lately it has taken a toll on my life maana siwezi concetrate na kazi and I also don’t enjoy the little free time I get. Honestly nimechoka I can’t seem to figure my life out.

My mind ina nambia just write that letter ondoka ofisini and the other part of it tells me to give myself time and to give time time, I’m at a crossroad. I want my life back but I don’t see how I can achieve this.
Don't quit unless you have clear plan B. Naunga a na mkuu hapo juu, weka ratiba yako Sawa, uwe na muda mzuri wa kuenjoy but also uamue muda utakaotaka kufanya kazi kabla ya kuexit job. Uwe mvumilivu na tumia muda uliopo kazini kujifunza skills zitakazokusaidia kufikia malengo ya plan B. Identify networks za msaada kukusaidia ktk plan B ili ukitoka ujue nani wa kumuuliza.
 
I don’t know if this is the place to put this ila I just need somewhere to vent

Najua kuna watakao kuja na matusi na kejeli but ni vile I’m ready for all that throw everything you have at me atleast maybe I will feel better then

So I have this job I currently hold, kwa standard za Tanzania I can say ni well paying job, I’m not actually bragging cause I know people who get paid way more than I do.

Thing is I don’t feel my purpose in doing this job. Kazi ina ninyima uhuru, I literally don’t have a life. I can’t socialize anymore, can’t hold on to relationships yani I can’t even better my life in ways I imagined this job will let me do.

I have some amount saved up and napata mawazo ya kuacha kazi nifanye mambo mengine but again I’m not a street smart person, sijioni nikitoboa on the street.

So I’m like stuck in the middle niko nimechoka na hii kazi and I can’t seem to find a strong plan B option for my life and lately it has taken a toll on my life maana siwezi concetrate na kazi and I also don’t enjoy the little free time I get. Honestly nimechoka I can’t seem to figure my life out.

My mind ina nambia just write that letter ondoka ofisini and the other part of it tells me to give myself time and to give time time, I’m at a crossroad. I want my life back but I don’t see how I can achieve this.
Ndugu hizo tabia za kizungu kizungu zitakuumiza. Unamika mingapi?Ni ke wewe?Chukua likizo kakae na wazazi wako upumzike. Sasa we acha tu hiyo kazi uje ukumbane na moto wa mtaani,utawehuka nakwambia.
 
Acha kazi nenda ukasocialize na kuanzisha new relationships with peers.
Huenda ukawa una akili sana
Ila una kaujinga fulani pia Yan una ung'ombe ng'ombe fulani unaunukia.

Hujaelewa the whole point ila nashukuru kwa mawazo pia.
 
Don't quit unless you have clear plan B. Naunga a na mkuu hapo juu, weka ratiba yako Sawa, uwe na muda mzuri wa kuenjoy but also uamue muda utakaotaka kufanya kazi kabla ya kuexit job. Uwe mvumilivu na tumia muda uliopo kazini kujifunza skills zitakazokusaidia kufikia malengo ya plan B. Identify networks za msaada kukusaidia ktk plan B ili ukitoka ujue nani wa kumuuliza.

I already have a job offer mahali nilikua na stall kwanza cause job security ya hapa ni kubwa zaidi compared na huku niliko pata ila nashukuru sana kwa ushauri nitafanyia kazi.
 
Omba likizo, go search your soul n refresh. After that come back n work.
Mtaa ni mgumu kama mbute la mhogo kama huna plan

Hapa nimetoka leave ya 3 weeks sikuweza hata ku keep intouch na watu wangu wa karibu maana ni kama nilikua nimesha wapoteza. Nitajitahidi kufanya hivi mara kwa mara huku naendelea kujitafuta.
 
Ndugu hizo tabia za kizungu kizungu zitakuumiza. Unamika mingapi?Ni ke wewe?Chukua likizo kakae na wazazi wako upumzike. Sasa we acha tu hiyo kazi uje ukumbane na moto wa mtaani,utawehuka nakwambia.

Asante sana kwa ushauri mimi ni ME na si tabia za kizungu zungu kama ulivyo weka. Ni priority za kila mtu katika maisha. I know watu walio quit mbele yangu na they are doing much better. Though inaweza kua si same case kwangu ila sometimes it’s not worth it kufanya kazi katika kazi inayo kuumiza zaidi ya kukujenga.
 
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