I badly need your advice

I badly need your advice

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alsumry

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Hiii jf am I just join jf I used to read ur posts n comments o really liked it wallah. ..yeah am sara from oman am 22yrs 10 yrs back I used to live in znz I really liked ur programme n today I come with my problem hope to be inspired. ..yeah I have been in love with a guy n get deep in relationship with him for the first in my life..I met him online n we started meeting n finally we found our parents knows each other n we got deep n after 5 monthes he asked me to marry him n I agreed n his older sis come to our house n met me..then after meeting his sis he went academis police training in other city for 7 months n said its oky if his parents come to propose me even if he is not here but I told him its better to make all procedures when he is bck frm academia n he agreed. ..then he has been always a guy who easy to get angry n nt easy to melt him even if the phone wasn't with me n missed his call he would stop talking with me for 2weeks n I keep saying sorry until he talk with me again he wnt to be treated as king n be obeyed every thing he says....so when he finished academia his anger increased even if he tells to apply hinna in my hands n I did get anyone to apply hinna on me he wil stop talking to me n sende girls pics tht looks beautiful with hinna then I will do upside down to apply myself hinna so he become happy I sent him every pic he asked me mine my bros mu sis my ancles all my family pics o sends him bt when I asked him to send me his little sis pic he refussed totaly n said he like tht he cnt send his family pic n if I ask for it again he says I want fight it and at the same tym he command me to send him my pic or he would nt talk to me then I sent him n say sorry n never asked for his little sis pic again cz we wil end up fighting. ...then we decided to meet n talk n talked he told me oky I stil wnt to marry u but I don't want u to continue working of u want rice I wil give y u wnt to work n get salary for wht u r a girl atleast thank god u got someone to save u..then I told him I dnt like to work but I have to help my dad n family he refused n told me doesn't ur family knows tht u wil get marriage one day..I told him I wil nt work after marriage n I went bck home n we ws doing oky planning marriage then just last week I told him tht I dont feel good when he say he save me n wil give me rice cz I want to marry him cz I love him but bcz I wnt someone to save me..n he says my responsibility to call him n text him coz cnt do it he is too busy n million things on his head so I told him those things dnt make me feel gud. ...n I am ready to leave my work for u even though u dnt knw tht my dad has lost everything n we many in our family n am the only one who is working nw but he got very n said I am I lier y I did nt told him tht dad has lost everything n we have only room in my ancle house so I am big lier he is scared to go on with me in future I might be hiding things n stil lie to him....I said sorry again n again n told him my lies r nt bad lies if am hungry I lie n say am nt hungry if I dnt hv money I says I have I dnt like to show it but he said I have to forget him he is no more interested I stil love him but he is so tough pls
 
Okay pole sana...hata mods wakiiwekea paragrgaphs, itakuwa shida kuelewa kwa akili ya kawaida, nimejaribu kuisoma juu juu tu

usijiingize kwenye utumwa kwa hali kama hiyo tulia saidida wazazi wako utampata akupendaye penda unapopendwa
 
Kaizer said:
Okay pole sana...hata mods wakiiwekea paragrgaphs, itakuwa shida kuelewa kwa akili ya kawaida, nimejaribu kuisoma juu juu tu

usijiingize kwenye utumwa kwa hali kama hiyo tulia saidida wazazi wako utampata akupendaye penda unapopendwa
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khaaa.......hebu mshauri mtoto........
 
Mydear sarah,,,...he is not a right man for u,,....leave him once n for all,,...u will get a man of ur life who will be there for u no matter what happens,,...!!
 
Ndoa sio jambo la masihara,wala sio jambo la kujaribu,hilo ni suala la maisha yako yote
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Usifanye majaribio kwenye jambo gumu,kama unajipenda wewe na wanao utakaowazaa acha akili yako ifanye kazi usiruhusu hisia zikakupoteza
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Hayo anayoyafanya ni ujumbe tosha wa kukuashiria uwe makini
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Kuwa makini nae!
 
achana nae haraka huyo hafai unles umempa one more enough time kuona muelekeo wake kama atabadilika,
atakufanya mtumwa , who is he kua na uhakika wa kuprovide rice in ur ol life time, kwani ana mkataba na MUUMBA.
atakufanya uwe poor more than hujaget mariage, wait for ur right choice.
coz shudnt have such compromise
 
He has been so tough and tht inanisumbua sana yeye kila kitu yake anataka ifuatwe au itahamaki 2weeks and anapenda kuona kila siku I apologize endlessly bt stil I cnt forget him am weak n perhaps he knows no matter what he do I will stil follow him behind pls wht to do to move on
 
since u are able to recognise that u r weak dats enaf indication that u r no longer weak,so mek strong decision that might hurt u now bt will b e of big advantage in ur future life.
 
alsumry said:
He has been so tough and tht inanisumbua sana yeye kila kitu yake anataka ifuatwe au itahamaki 2weeks and anapenda kuona kila siku I apologize endlessly bt stil I cnt forget him am weak n perhaps he knows no matter what he do I will stil follow him behind pls wht to do to move on
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Kumbe unajua kiswahili?

Back to topic.
Kama kila mtu angekua anapenda kwa kiwango ambacho wewe unasema unampenda mwenzi wako basi kusingekua na usaliti wala kusingekua na migogoro maana kila kitu unachoambiwa unatekeleza kama anavyotaka.

Ifike mahali nawewe uwe na maamuzi yako, uwe na sauti kwa mwenzi wako sio kila kitu ufanye kufuata anavyokuambia bila kuangalia ni kwakiasi gani kunakuumiza na kukutesa.

Hivi unafikiri wenzio wanaishi hivi na wenzi wao? Kama unaishi na mpenzi wako halafu hata akusikilizi anataka ufanye anayoyataka yeye hapo hakuna mapenzi.

Itafika mahali atataka akukule KABAAANG sijui utafanyaje.
 
Smile said:
anatakaje eti..hebu nieleweshe mi sijui kusoma kiarabu
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Hahahahaha , walah Smile umenifanya nicheke kwa sauti mbele ya umati lol... Hivyo ulivomuulza Preta afu ukaja kujazia na hapa mie hoiiii lol
 
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But yeye inataka kila kitu ile anaitaka me nifanye na in case he made mistakes he doesn't want me wnt to point it out if he doesn't want to reason he says he dnt hv tym to bla bla only I have to do as he say n close the story n I hv to act as a girl n be obidient
 
sweetlady said:
hahahahaha , walah smile umenifanya nicheke kwa sauti mbele ya umati lol... Hivyo ulivomuulza preta afu ukaja kujazia na hapa mie hoiiii lol
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ahaaa umepoteaje? Duh upo miss u bwana... Wewe umeelewa ? Mi sioni best nisaidieni
 
Aiwa wallah najua but not bad bt also not that good I damn like swahili hamna neno
 
alsumry said:
But yeye inataka kila kitu ile anaitaka me nifanye na in case he made mistakes he doesn't want me wnt to point it out if he doesn't want to reason he says he dnt hv tym to bla bla only I have to do as he say n close the story n I hv to act as a girl n be obidient
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Mh.... Pole ndugu manake huyo sasa ni dikteta khaaaa!
 
Smile said:
ahaaa umepoteaje? Duh upo miss u bwana... Wewe umeelewa ? Mi sioni best nisaidieni
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Nipo my dear, majukum ya hapa na pale yanabana tu mpenz ila am good kabisa khofu kwako.... Miss you more darling afu namba ilipotea na kamchina kangu eti lol

Mie hata sijasoma huo uzi manake umenitia uvivu, najaribu kumwelewa mdada huku kwenye vi quote vidogo vidogo anavyoweka sahivi hahahaha.... Wewe mvivu kama mimi afu mbaya zaidi imeandikwa kwa hii lugha ilokuja kwa ndege, nachokaje dear!!!
 
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