I am dilemma in this issue, I need your advice

I am dilemma in this issue, I need your advice

jathurwa

jathurwa

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Hope you are doing well my learned friends. I first of all send my condolences to all families already affected by the COVID-19 disaster and to the nation.

I have been quiet for a while but problems bring us together again. This is the issue and how it started:

It all started when I was in form six two years ago. We had a housemaid, she was not that beautiful but somehow good looking. I had just finished my mock exam and I was at home for a while without anything in particular to do. We used to remain home with the girl while my parents went to work.

Earlier I neglected any romantic gestures from her and whenever the issue arose I would change the topic. As the days went by I became weaker and I could not resist the temptation and we ended up fornicating. Oh my God what a mistake!

Before I knew she started romantic moves sometimes in the presence of my parents but I would pretend that it was nothing serious. She even started sneaking out of her room at night and came in my room and we did what married adults do. By 5 am she would go back to her room and life went on.

I thought I was the luckiest guy to get what I wanted any time. Little did I know I was digging a hole for myself. On the D-day she popped up and all hell broke loose.

She was pregnant! And she claimed that I was responsible but something I never said is that someone else in the same house had made romantic advances on her(my elder brother). I was baffled and we kept this a secret to ourselves. When schools reopened I went back to school and we would chat occasionally.

Sometimes she would demand money saying that my kids in the womb need to eat well. I'm not joking I would divide my little pocket money with her and left a little for myself. I began thinking of her than my studies and thought so much of her.

This continued till mother realized that she was pregnant for me. She chased her away and even wanted to sue her for engaging in love affair with a student. So she left home and kept texting me on the issue.

To cut the long story short she is now at her home place and she keeps asking me for money saying she loves me. NB she is older than me by 3 years.

I'm sure if I'm well understood but please I need your advice.

Meanwhile may God save us from Corona. Au revoir.


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House maid chronicles!!!!
You were digging her sugar pot, now she is pregooo!!
Be a man,send her money.
Bad enough ur not even accepting your mistakes, just here condemning her.

Be a man jombaa take responsibility.
 
The language that used to deliver your problem lead too difficult to some people to provide their views. As you know that this kind of language used is segregative to our most of Tanzanian citizen. So if you need your fellow Tanzanians to provide advice to you please deliver your problem to the easiest language that made most of Tanzanians to easily understand and be participative.

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Ohooo... Siku zote inakuwaga hivyo Bwana Mdogo.. Hiyo ni kawaida na ndio uanaume. Mama yako nadhani alikosea kidogo kwa maana kilichoko tumboni mwa Dia wako ni damu yako so Mjukuu wa mamayako. Hivyo mamayako alipaswa kuendelea na huyo house girl kwa maana tayari damu mtakuwa mmechangia. Bado una nafasi ya Kumshauri mamayako amrejeshe house girl kwa lengo la kulea mimba yako ili mtoto azaliwe na afya nzuri then makuzi mazuri.
 
Mleta mada naona unachezea kingereza wakati Kuna watu wanakitamani kupiga nacho dili lakini ndo hivyoo hawakiwezi.


Huyoo mama yako nae anaroho ngumu Bora angemrudisha nyumbani amtunzie huko huko, hiyoo damu yako mkiitelekeza hivyoo hamtabaki salamaa.

Kwenye SEX Kuna matokeo 4

1, KUPATA MIMBA
2,KUPATA UKIMWI/stds
3,KUPATA MIMBA NA UKIMWI/stds KWA PAMOJA
4,KUTOKUPATA MIMBA WALA UKIMWI


Kumpa mimba SIO bahati mbaya.
 
Unaomba ushauri upi ndugu, kumuoa? Au kujiridhisha kama mimba ni yako?

Vyovyote itakavyokuwa, hakikisha unamlea huyo mtoto na pia hakikisha mama yake anaridhika na maamuzi yeyote unayochukua juu yake.

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jathurwa said:
Hope you are doing well my learned friends. I first of all send my condolences to all families already affected by the COVID-19 disaster and to the nation.

I have been quiet for a while but problems bring us together again. This is the issue and how it started:

It all started when I was in form six two years ago. We had a housemaid, she was not that beautiful but somehow good looking. I had just finished my mock exam and I was at home for a while without anything in particular to do. We used to remain home with the girl while my parents went to work.

Earlier I neglected any romantic gestures from her and whenever the issue arose I would change the topic. As the days went by I became weaker and I could not resist the temptation and we ended up fornicating. Oh my God what a mistake!

Before I knew she started romantic moves sometimes in the presence of my parents but I would pretend that it was nothing serious. She even started sneaking out of her room at night and came in my room and we did what married adults do. By 5 am she would go back to her room and life went on.

I thought I was the luckiest guy to get what I wanted any time. Little did I know I was digging a hole for myself. On the D-day she popped up and all hell broke loose.

She was pregnant! And she claimed that I was responsible but something I never said is that someone else in the same house had made romantic advances on her. I was baffled and we kept this a secret to ourselves. When schools reopened I went back to school and we would chat occasionally.

Sometimes she would demand money saying that my kids in the womb need to eat well. I'm not joking I would divide my little pocket money with her and left a little for myself. I began thinking of her than my studies and thought so much of her.

This continued till mother realized that she was pregnant for me. She chased her away and even wanted to sue her for engaging in love affair with a student. So she left home and kept texting me on the issue.

To cut the long story short she is now at her home place and she keeps asking me for money saying she loves me. NB she is older than me by 3 years.

I'm sure if I'm well understood but please I need your advice.

Meanwhile may God save us from Corona. Au revoir.


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At your level you were in a position to control each and everyting but because you didnt take precautions that is the result of what you have done so bear responsibility.You better advise your mum to bring back the .... for safe and better growing of your future baby.
 
first of all concentrate in your studies, Secondly talk to your parents to bring the maid back, and when the baby is born your parents can assist her in everything until the baby reach 1 year you'll need to speak with your baby mama to leave the baby with grandmother so that she can move on (but is not a guarantee as a mother i cannot leave my baby no matter what), Here parents have to use wisdom.
 
Okoth p'Bitek said:
Ah sawa! nadhani anajaribu kuelezea maafa yaliyoletwa na huu ugonjwa wa mabeberu.
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Mkuu usichukulie serious anaongelea mimba! Katia beki tatu mimba hlf beki tatu kafukuzwa na mama mkwe! Jamaa yupo dilema hiyo mimba vipi maana anashuku kuna mtu humohumo kwao anatafuna hiyo beki tatu😜😜
Hii ndo inaitwa kikulacho ki nguoni mwako
 
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