Kibanga Ampiga Mkoloni
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- Aug 9, 2007
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A few easy pointers to get yourself a sugar daddy. easy to follow and its all based on my personal experiences.
Overview your choice so you know you're not going down a dead path. If he is dressed nicely that is a good indication that he has money. Now if he is wearing a nice dress shirt he got from a department store he is harder to train then a man wearing say Gucci. (doesn't have to be Gucci but if he looks EXPENSIVE it's a better indicator of money.Seriously, men usually don't pay attention to labels unless they are gay or stacked.) Either way, it's easier to coax money out of a richer man.
You also need to position yourself into what the majority of sugardaddy/sugarmamas are searching for. Are you younger (twenties)? Are you reasonably physically and facially attractive? Do you enjoy sex (not always with your type)? Can you provide a 'girlfriend experience' to someone you have a friendship with, but no romantic feelings for?
You should also be able to provide an intellectual stimulus. Blabbing about reality TV and gossip rags does not cut it. Read and discuss books, learn about politics or certain historical periods. Listen to classical music, and attempt to pick out certain composers that you enjoy. Go to museums and take in the varying art periods, particular artists. Brush up somewhat on sports, so at the least you don't appear to be tremendously bored if he discusses them.
Having a career where more sugardaddys/mamas are to more easier found is essential ,such as being a stripper, model or other career where you can come into contact with more affluent people.
Try to figure out his personality. Now what is his personality like? Is he laid back? Does he work a lot? Does he seem like the romantic type? You need to find a man that is more of a loner due to him working so hard when he was younger. Someone who likes to have a good time but also is old enough to have the experience. Also older men are less likely to be players besides, the point of having a sugar daddy is to get the most expensive gifts.
Make him feel like he matters. If you have picked out the man then you must make him feel like he never has before. Not including sexual acts, you must treat him like a king but act like it comes natural, (if a man acts like he wants to treat you like queen it feels more fulfilling than if he does it because he knows he should) and do sweet little things for him. Cater to him but do not make it obvious. the subconscious mind is easier to sway. IF YOU GET CLINGY HE WILL PULL AWAY. Make him think about you when you leave. he will want to spoil you if you make him feel like a king.
Remember manners and courtesy. VERY IMPORTANT When he buys you anything (dinner, flowers, clothes, even something small at Pick n Pay) Smile very sweetly and say thank you. DO NOT BE A UNGRATEFUL BITCH. Everyman wants to feel appreciated ALL THE TIME. Don't chronically swear. Use good table manners.
Be safe. When you get to the point of gifts you want to have sex with them. (Always make sure you're wearing a condom since dating a sugar daddy is never a good idea; and guys don't stay faithful to girls they aren't dating so don't catch anything you don't want!)
Control the bedroom. You MUST walk into that room and make him feel like he turns you on so much. Be dominant, but not pushy. Let him enjoy himself. The sex is not about you! Fake it if you have to! The gifts is what he gives you, not orgasms.
Know what you're getting yourself into ladies. It's fun but it can get messy if you don't protect yourselves.
Overview your choice so you know you're not going down a dead path. If he is dressed nicely that is a good indication that he has money. Now if he is wearing a nice dress shirt he got from a department store he is harder to train then a man wearing say Gucci. (doesn't have to be Gucci but if he looks EXPENSIVE it's a better indicator of money.Seriously, men usually don't pay attention to labels unless they are gay or stacked.) Either way, it's easier to coax money out of a richer man.
You also need to position yourself into what the majority of sugardaddy/sugarmamas are searching for. Are you younger (twenties)? Are you reasonably physically and facially attractive? Do you enjoy sex (not always with your type)? Can you provide a 'girlfriend experience' to someone you have a friendship with, but no romantic feelings for?
You should also be able to provide an intellectual stimulus. Blabbing about reality TV and gossip rags does not cut it. Read and discuss books, learn about politics or certain historical periods. Listen to classical music, and attempt to pick out certain composers that you enjoy. Go to museums and take in the varying art periods, particular artists. Brush up somewhat on sports, so at the least you don't appear to be tremendously bored if he discusses them.
Having a career where more sugardaddys/mamas are to more easier found is essential ,such as being a stripper, model or other career where you can come into contact with more affluent people.
Try to figure out his personality. Now what is his personality like? Is he laid back? Does he work a lot? Does he seem like the romantic type? You need to find a man that is more of a loner due to him working so hard when he was younger. Someone who likes to have a good time but also is old enough to have the experience. Also older men are less likely to be players besides, the point of having a sugar daddy is to get the most expensive gifts.
Make him feel like he matters. If you have picked out the man then you must make him feel like he never has before. Not including sexual acts, you must treat him like a king but act like it comes natural, (if a man acts like he wants to treat you like queen it feels more fulfilling than if he does it because he knows he should) and do sweet little things for him. Cater to him but do not make it obvious. the subconscious mind is easier to sway. IF YOU GET CLINGY HE WILL PULL AWAY. Make him think about you when you leave. he will want to spoil you if you make him feel like a king.
Remember manners and courtesy. VERY IMPORTANT When he buys you anything (dinner, flowers, clothes, even something small at Pick n Pay) Smile very sweetly and say thank you. DO NOT BE A UNGRATEFUL BITCH. Everyman wants to feel appreciated ALL THE TIME. Don't chronically swear. Use good table manners.
Be safe. When you get to the point of gifts you want to have sex with them. (Always make sure you're wearing a condom since dating a sugar daddy is never a good idea; and guys don't stay faithful to girls they aren't dating so don't catch anything you don't want!)
Control the bedroom. You MUST walk into that room and make him feel like he turns you on so much. Be dominant, but not pushy. Let him enjoy himself. The sex is not about you! Fake it if you have to! The gifts is what he gives you, not orgasms.
Know what you're getting yourself into ladies. It's fun but it can get messy if you don't protect yourselves.
