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EXCLUSIVE FOR MEN: How To "Warm Up" A Cold Woman

Discussion in 'Mahusiano, mapenzi, urafiki' started by Bramo, Jun 7, 2011.

  1. Bramo

    Bramo JF Bronze Member

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    I have been talking to this girl for about a month
    now and I find myself falling in love with her
    everytime we see each other (every Tuesday Night).
    She recently told me that she didn't want to date
    me yet, because she would hurt me. She also said
    that if it is meant to happen it will, and that
    we shouldn't force it. My question is how do I
    get her to realize that it is meant, and that we
    should push it, and how do I prove to her she
    won't hurt me??
    Sincerely, XXXXXX


    Well, I'd say that the FIRST thing you should
    do is grab a piece of paper and a pen, and walk
    into the bathroom right now.
    Turn on the light.
    On the piece of paper I want you to write the
    word "YSSUW" on it. I know, it doesn't make
    sense... but do it anyway.
    Now, hold the piece of paper in front of you,
    so it's facing the mirror... almost as if it's a
    Look at yourself in the mirror.
    Let that settle in for a minute.
    Now that you have a clear picture of what a
    WUSSY looks like, move on to a more advanced
    Carefully take your right hand, and raise it up
    next to your face.
    Hold it about 12 inches away.
    Now firmly BITCH SLAP yourself with it.
    Repeat until the Wuss has been slapped out of
    Dude, duuuuuude.
    You are SOOO missing the point here.
    She does not want a guy who will prove to her
    that she won't hurt him. She doesn't want to be
    with you because you're acting like a WUSSBAG.
    Women aren't attracted to girly-men.
    Girly-men freak women out.
    Women RUN from girly-men.
    The answer is for you to start acting like a
    MAN... and stop acting like a GIRL.


    was once a 27 year old virgin, I know, extreme! I
    had never been on a date, and I had one girlfriend
    when I was 17. And get this, I've been told by
    loads of women that I'm hot. The reason for this
    is my complete lack of confidence, I just had
    none. I would get eyed up in a bar, and want to go
    over, but I just didn't know what to say! If I
    was approached by a lady, I either froze up or
    shook so much that everyone in the room thought
    their cell phone was vibrating!
    I just got up 1 day decided to go on the Internet
    and learn! I really didn't think I would come
    across so much rubbish! But I signed up to all
    the free newsletters and I used techniques subtly
    with me female friends! Well as you've obviously
    guessed, your tips were the ticket! I bought the
    book and I was off... ..
    I am now 28, been using your techniques for
    about a year, year and a half and I am so happy! I
    have girls coming out of my ears! I am now dating
    3 women (very hot women) and I have 4 that wont
    leave me alone!
    I am emailing you to say thank you, I would
    really appreciate an email back if you don't post
    it on a newsletter, just so I know you've read it,
    or I might send it again knowing me!
    Ok here's the question, I have heard similar
    questions so much on your newsletters but this is
    quite specific and a 'proper' answer would be
    great, rather than the default one!
    Right, the one girl that I want is the one
    playing hard to get. I've played it cool so far, I
    knew her from work but didn't know her very well,
    she's now left and I saw her in a club and 'told'
    her to give me her number! I rang her but her
    phone is always off, so I sent her a text message
    (sms) asking if she fancies going for a coffee
    during the week. She replied that she's busy all
    week and she said that she has just got back with
    her ex and if I want to get to know her as a
    friend is my decision.
    I REALLY like her, and she does not know this
    (because she doesn't need to know). I am still a
    novice at the game so could you tell me exactly
    what you would do and exactly what you would say?


    Well then... welcome to the world of being an
    adult man! Exciting.
    and I'm glad to hear that you're doing well
    with the ladies... FINALLY.
    Now, you want me to give you a "special" answer
    to your "special situation."
    Let's see...
    You are surrounded by gorgeous women... and
    they're chasing you around like you're some kind
    of rock star... but you don't want THOSE women...
    of course.
    You want the ONE who isn't interested in you...
    the one who just got back with her boyfriend.
    Before I give you a "special" answer, I'd like
    you to consider your own situation.
    Let's be honest, shall we?
    Right now you are OUT OF CONTROL.
    You are not into this girl because she's
    actually that "special."
    You're into her because she's NOT INTO YOU.
    If you'll admit this to yourself, and admit
    that you're basically out of control in this
    situation, then we can make some progress.
    So admit it. Say it out loud.
    "I'm out of control. I want this girl mostly
    because she doesn't want me... and it really
    fascinates the hell out of me... and I can't stop
    thinking about it."
    Just read that out loud.
    Read it again, just so you hear the words this
    Think about it for a minute.
    And it STILL works on YOU.
    That's profound.
    And by the way, the more you try to "resist"
    the idea... and tell yourself that she's just a
    challenge and you only want her because she's
    "special," etc. the worse it will get.
    So what should you do?
    Hit the road.
    Say "Next."
    Move on.
    One of the best things you can do for YOURSELF
    is to get the number of an unusually attractive
    woman, then THROW IT AWAY.
    Why? Duh.
    Because it's a symbol. It's you saying to
    yourself "I don't need ANY woman. I can go out and
    meet women anytime. I'm happy as I am."
    That kind of thing will help you, big time.
    Now, if you REALLY REALLY REALLY don't want to
    take my advice... and you want to make yourself
    crazy some more, here's what to do:
    1) Stop calling this girl for a couple of weeks.
    2) Call her in two weeks and say "Hey, I have a
    question that I really need to ask you... call
    3) When she calls, say "Yeah, I wanted to ask you
    why it's taking you so long to call and ask me
    out...." Tell her about some beautiful and
    intelligent woman you've been dating, and then
    tell her that you'd like to get together with her
    and hang out as friends.
    4) When you do see her, JUST BE FRIENDS. Chill
    out, and give her space.
    5) Take the time and energy to actually get to
    know her as a person. Find out if she is really
    the kind of girl that you'd like to be with. Make
    a list of all the things that would make a
    "perfect" woman. Then make a list of all the
    things that would be "deal-killers." Ask her all
    the questions when you meet her... and do it in a
    "friend" kind of way.
    I'd be willing to bet you a dollar in cash that
    she is NOT AT ALL the kind of girl you really want
    to be with.
    On the other hand, if she IS your dream girl,
    lean back and take your time.
    Bust on her. Tease her. Make fun.
    Tell her that you can't possibly understand how
    her boyfriend could stand her.
    Chances are that she won't be with this guy for
    long, and you will have now established that she's
    your dream girl... and you'll be ready to
    Just get on with your life, man.
    You're talking like a Wuss who's trying to
    pretend that he's not.
    My Wuss-Dar is going off like 4th of July
  2. M

    Marytina JF-Expert Member

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    ah kumbe hapatuhusu wadada
  3. Bramo

    Bramo JF Bronze Member

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    Ukiona waweza,changia pia, waruhusiwa...Najua Michelle lazima ata coment tu, i love her comments
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    ENZO JF-Expert Member

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    Kingezera bana!
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    Lizzy JF-Expert Member

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    Nani alikwambia usome shule ya kata????
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    umtwale Member

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    hii move au kitabu? gv a summary of what u wanted us to comment/advise_copying and paste is pragialism( review the jf rules)
  7. Bramo

    Bramo JF Bronze Member

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    Dou want a Link?
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    The Boss JF-Expert Member

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    hukupaswa kuleta hizo link hapa
    masifa yatakuponza

    MTAMBOKITAMBO Senior Member

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    Ah,hatuwezi kutype kwani?:confused2:
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    ENZO JF-Expert Member

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    St. mizengopinda.
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    Dr.Chichi JF-Expert Member

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    Mwanzoni nilijua yamekukuta wewe ila naona kama umecopy sehemu na kupaste huku