Dem wa mizinga

marrykate · Jul 22, 2013

OLESAIDIMU said:
If I may ask wanajamvi

Tunatofautishaje mtu anapoomba msaada na mzinga?????????

Kuna mahusiano,yoyote yale bila kusaidiana??????

kuomba msaada,

ni pale kweli umekwana, basi unaomba usaidiwe, umeugua ama kuuguliwa na ndugu yako wa karibu na huna pesa kipindi hicho basi utasaidiwa pesa ukatibiwe,

au umeachishwa kazi ghafla, hukuwa na saving yoyote, basi hapo utasaidiwa mpka utakajiona unaweza simama pekeyako tena

mizinga iko hivi, unafanya kazi, unalipwa vizuri au una biashara nzuri ila hutaki kutumia pesa yako,uanpenda kutumia ya mwenzako tu. ukitaka suluali nzuri unamwomba mpenzi wako hela akununulie, akujazie mafuta kwenye gari, akununulie umeme home, akulipie bill ya maji, aje na kagunia aya mchele

mara friji yako imeharibika unataka mpenzi wako akunulie mpya,mara unataka mpenzi wako akutumie pesa ukafanye check up wakati una bima yako ya afya, yaani lango ni kumfuja tu

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Mmmh!!
Unadhani kwamba tabia ya mizinga ni kitu cha kurithiwa?

Maundumula said:
I strongly disagree mtu mwenye tabia ya mizinga huwa haachi hata akiwa bibi anawpaiga wajukuu virungu hadi wajukuu wanamkimbia.

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Ila kuna wadada wengine kusema tu ile kweli wamezidi mizinga...

Yaani akishajua tu kuwa sasa anamilikiwa basi utaletewa mlolongo wa matatizo...

Mwisho wa siku utajiuliza hivi huyu mtu kabla ya kuwa nami alikuwa anaishije??

Mrembo by Nature said:
Niko kwenye mfungo wa kutoa like ila hapa ninatamani hata kulike mara ya pili. Hawa wanaume wako kama wanaishi sayari ya mars. Msichana unayetegemea awe mkeo kuhudumia hutaki sasa nani amhudumie ili wewe uje uchukue vilivyotengenezwa?

Maundumula · Jul 22, 2013

watu8 said:
Mmmh!!
Unadhani kwamba tabia ya mizinga ni kitu cha kurithiwa?

Kama amerithi au amejifunza hizo tabia huwa watu hawaachi kabisa!

Hata kama anapesa atazificha halafu akupige mzinga. Hata kama ni bosi ofisini atawapiga mizinga watu wa chini yake wanaopokea mahshara mdogo. Ni tabia moja mbaya sana na huwa haifutiki.

Binti Magufuli · Jul 22, 2013

watu8 said:
Ila kuna wadada wengine kusema tu ile kweli wamezidi mizinga...

Yaani akishajua tu kuwa sasa anamilikiwa basi utaletewa mlolongo wa matatizo...

Mwisho wa siku utajiuliza hivi huyu mtu kabla ya kuwa nami alikuwa anaishije??

Sasa ayapeleke wapi, ujue mtu akikuletea matatizo yake ujue anakuamini sana so take part

kemashafe · Jul 22, 2013

Jamani wewe mwanaume usikute unapigwa mizinga ya kawaida tu mwanaume ni majukumu aisiii jitahidi kumridhisha mpenzi wako na hata kama hauna unamwelekeza tu kwa hali uliyonayo maisha ni mipango tu na kumbuka ni vizuri kurekebishana mapema na kama ana tabia nzuri kweli umempoteza mke kwani hilo ni jamabo rahisi sana it means wewe ukimuoa hautamtimizia mahitaji kwa sababu ana kazi ni wajibu wako tu baba

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Naam mkuu ni kweli kabisa, huwa wanasema kuwa "mazoea hujenga tabia"

Lakini mimi binafsi kulingana na mada hii nimejaribu kutokuwaza moja kwa moja na kuepuka kuelekeza fikra zangu kwenye neno mizinga kama linavyomaanisha...
Huenda mambo aliyokuwa akiombwa bwana huyu ni ya kawaida kabisa kwa wapendanao, lakini kwake hakuyaona kwa mtazamo huo...
Pia hajatueleza pindi alipokuwa akikataa kutoa hiyo mizinga, nini ilikuwa reaction ya huyo mpenzi wake?

Maundumula said:
Kama amerithi au amejifunza hizo tabia huwa watu hawaachi kabisa!

Hata kama anapesa atazificha halafu akupige mzinga. Hata kama ni bosi ofisini atawapiga mizinga watu wa chini yake wanaopokea mahshara mdogo. Ni tabia moja mbaya sana na huwa haifutiki.

Papa Mopao · Jul 22, 2013

Mizinga mingine ni sehemu ya kukusanya hela tu basi...hakuna cha maana utakachopata kutoka kwa mtoa mizinga labda K, asilimia kubwa wanatumia hii njia kama njia ya kutunisha mifuko yao tu....hii ipo kabisa mitaani!

Yaani akiwa kama hana hela, anamkumbuka David, anarusha mzinga wa 30,000, akitoka hapo anakwenda kwa Salum, anarusha 70,000, keshapata laki hapo tayari, anamkumbuka mwingine Joseph, anarusha mzinga wa 20,000 hivyo hivyo. hawa ndo hatare...

Bora hawa wa mizinga midogo midogo hasa ya chakula na misaada mingine ya kibinadamu ambao unaona kabisa ana shida hiyo...lkn wengi wao hawapiki makwao au kwenye mageto yao, akipiga mizinga ya chakula na akapata anarudi nyumbani kulala, kamaliza kazi basi!

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Kuna matatizo na kuna mengine ni zaidi ya matatizo...

Unajua kwa jinsi hiyo, ndio maana ni rahisi kwa wadada kutekwa kirahisi kwa nguvu ya pesa tu...mwanamke shurti awe independent sister...

Kuombaomba sana nako kunamfanya mwanamke awe mtumwa atii

Mrembo by Nature said:
Sasa ayapeleke wapi, ujue mtu akikuletea matatizo yake ujue anakuamini sana so take part

CnaJina · Jul 22, 2013

mzabzab said:
a man should never run away when a woman asks for money...it is our duty as men to take care of our ladies and provide them with the security that money provides.

however a man needs to ecercise prudence when it comes to financial demands of his woman....they should not be excesive nor aimed at living lavishly beyond ur means.

last but not least her demands should match her beauty, character and the value she adds to ur life.

Kudos!!! Leo umeongea kama wabunge kumi hivii tena wa ccm lol

Binti Magufuli · Jul 22, 2013

watu8 said:
Kuna matatizo na kuna mengine ni zaidi ya matatizo...

Unajua kwa jinsi hiyo, ndio maana ni rahisi kwa wadada kutekwa kirahisi kwa nguvu ya pesa tu...mwanamke shurti awe independent sister...

Kuombaomba sana nako kunamfanya mwanamke awe mtumwa atii

mwanaume lazma apimwe atii

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Hvi sis, si unajua kuna utofauti kati ya "taking care" na "mizinga"?

So tell me, between the two kipi ni kipimo?

Mrembo by Nature said:
mwanaume lazma apimwe atii

Binti Magufuli · Jul 22, 2013

watu8 said:
Hvi sis, si unajua kuna utofauti kati ya "taking care" na "mizinga"?

So tell me, between the two kipi ni kipimo?

These two are synonymous and they correlate. Taking care inahusisha mizinga pia hasa kwa mwanaume ambaye hana moyo wa kutoa yeye mwenyewe hadi aombwe/akumbushwe na mwanamke wake

afrodenzi · Jul 22, 2013

Swali gumu .
Maana we Ndo unaejua nafsi yako
Na unataka nini maishani ..

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Umenena vyema lakini pia umesahau kuangazia na upande mwingine...

Kuna wanaume ambao wana moyo wa kutoa na huwa wanatoa...lakini tatizo huja pale mwanamke anapoamua kuutumia mwanya huo kutaka kutatua shida zake zote...

Nadhani ushawahi kusikia habari za mwanaume kuwekwa kiganjani na mkewe, au familia ya mke imemteka na kusahau familia yake kabisa...

Achana na hii mizinga midogo midogo ambayo kimsingi yanafall kwenye part ya "taking care"

Mrembo by Nature said:
These two are synonymous and they correlate. Taking care inahusisha mizinga pia hasa kwa mwanaume ambaye hana moyo wa kutoa yeye mwenyewe hadi aombwe/akumbushwe na mwanamke wake

multmandalin · Jul 22, 2013

banizle said:
Vijana tukiwa kwenye harakati za kutafuta mwenza wa maisha tunakumbana na mambo mengi sana unless uwe na bahati sana kumpata yule mnae match. Moja kati ya mabinti niliokua na date nao alikua ni mtu wa mizinga kila kukicha mara kodi mara hela ya shopping ukizingatia ni mfanyakazi anaelipwa vizuri tu. Kitabia yuko perfect.Niliamua kumuacha huyu binti maana mizinga ilizidi. Ninachotaka msaada humu je nilifanya the right decision or nilimpoteza mke?

Acha usenge nna kazi nyingi, we unataka kugegeda bureeeeeee!

Nawasaka girini gadi.

Binti Magufuli · Jul 22, 2013

watu8 said:
Umenena vyema lakini pia umesahau kuangazia na upande mwingine...

Kuna wanaume ambao wana moyo wa kutoa na huwa wanatoa...lakini tatizo huja pale mwanamke anapoamua kuutumia mwanya huo kutaka kutatua shida zake zote...

Nadhani ushawahi kusikia habari za mwanaume kuwekwa kiganjani na mkewe, au familia ya mke imemteka na kusahau familia yake kabisa...

Achana na hii mizinga midogo midogo ambayo kimsingi yanafall kwenye part ya "taking care"

Hii mada ni pana sana, hahaha kuna wabeijing waliotaka more autonomy ila kwenye ishu ya kuhudumiwa madaraka yabaki kwa mume. Hahaha hapa tutakesha.

Watu8 · Jul 22, 2013

Hahaha hapo wabeijing ndio ambapo huwa mna-surrender lol...

Na kweli tutakesha maana mada ina angles nyingi za kuijadili...

Mrembo by Nature said:
Hii mada ni pana sana, hahaha kuna wabeijing waliotaka more autonomy ila kwenye ishu ya kuhudumiwa madaraka yabaki kwa mume. Hahaha hapa tutakesha.

Mentor · Jul 22, 2013

madameA said:
Ulijua umemkomoa lakini ulipoteza MKE. Relationships ni commitment, hakuna mwanamke anayetaka kuwa kwenye uhusiano na mwanaume ambaye hawezi kumpetipeti. Utazunguka kote, unapoteza muda wako tu. Hata ukienda kuoa kijijini lazima huyo mke utamnunulia chupi, pad, viatu, mafuta, utamlisha na kuangalia familia kwa ujumla. Sasa kwa nini aliyesomeshwa na BABA yake usimsaidie kwenye baadhi ya vitu? Mbona K yake unaitaka au unafikiri inajitunza? Kufanya kazi kwa mchumba/mke wako isiwe sababu, MWANAUME ni majukumu.

madameA, coming from a woman comment yako imenisikitisha sana kama ulivyoandika ndivyo unavyoona sababu halali ya kupewa pesa...then u simply defined a -----..am really worried kama hiyo ndo perception yako!

Hebu msome ata mgegedaji mzabzab...

mzabzab said:
a man should never run away when a woman asks for money...it is our duty as men to take care of our ladies and provide them with the security that money provides.

however a man needs to ecercise prudence when it comes to financial demands of his woman....they should not be excesive nor aimed at living lavishly beyond ur means.

last but not least her demands should match her beauty, character and the value she adds to ur life.

Walas Ba · Jul 22, 2013

madameA said:
Ulijua umemkomoa lakini ulipoteza MKE. Relationships ni commitment, hakuna mwanamke anayetaka kuwa kwenye uhusiano na mwanaume ambaye hawezi kumpetipeti. Utazunguka kote, unapoteza muda wako tu. Hata ukienda kuoa kijijini lazima huyo mke utamnunulia chupi, pad, viatu, mafuta, utamlisha na kuangalia familia kwa ujumla. Sasa kwa nini aliyesomeshwa na BABA yake usimsaidie kwenye baadhi ya vitu? Mbona K yake unaitaka au unafikiri inajitunza? Kufanya kazi kwa mchumba/mke wako isiwe sababu, MWANAUME ni majukumu.

Jamani polepole basi!!!

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