Nyani Ngabu
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- May 15, 2006
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Khaahh
I'm sure waweza kuwa na marafiki ambao ni wakawida
tu wa jinsia tofauti..
I have got plenty of them..
nway I think will be better if you write in swahili
So many people can understand.. not everyone knows
english in here..
Sorry if i offend u in any way..
From a broad perspective, there have been dozens of scientific studies and surveyed numbers of people about cross-gender friendships to discover whether these relationships can actually work or not. Also there have been studies listened in on countless discussions with men and women on the issue. Well
... For a man, a woman who is just a friend allows him to express his more emotional side, to experience his vulnerability, to treat himself and his friend more tenderly than is permissible with male friends. What is typically missing for him in this cross-gender relationship, however, is the kind of rough camaraderie he can have with another man. For a woman, a man who is just a friend helps her express her independent, more reasoned and tougher side - the harder edge that's kept under wraps in relationships with women. The down side for her is the relative absence of emotional reciprocity and intensity she normally shares with a female friend.
So, okay, twist our arms for a NO or YES answer to this question and the answer will be YES. But we will quickly qualify it. Men and women can enjoy friendship together, but not at the same level they do with friends of the same sex.
That's that.I don't see why most of you thinks its not possible to maintain a ''we are just friends'' kinda relationship between a man and a woman. Ofcourse it's possible for one to fall for the other on the way but that could happen even without being friends on the first place.For two Exes it could be slightly difficult because most of the time one leaves the other who is still inlove, but at the end of the day if one of them doesn't want to keep that relationship going then that's it!So it's all about commitment, if your girl/boy is in to you , chill out and enjoy WHAT IS instead of worrying about WHAT ISN'T!
I don't see why most of you thinks its not possible to maintain a ''we are just friends'' kinda relationship between a man and a woman. Ofcourse it's possible for one to fall for the other on the way but that could happen even without being friends on the first place.For two Exes it could be slightly difficult because most of the time one leaves the other who is still inlove, but at the end of the day if one of them doesn't want to keep that relationship going then that's it!So it's all about commitment, if your girl/boy is in to you , chill out and enjoy WHAT IS instead of worrying about WHAT ISN'T!
Never!! mwanamke husihia kutongozwa tu, nimejaribu nimeshindwa.
Kwa"Miafrika Ndivyo Tulivyo"Atuwezi!!
Khaahh
I'm sure waweza kuwa na marafiki ambao ni wakawida
tu wa jinsia tofauti..
I have got plenty of them..
nway I think will be better if you write in swahili
So many people can understand.. not everyone knows
english in here..
Sorry if i offend u in any way..
To be or not to be; is still the question.
not to beto be is the answer!!