Secrets to keep only to yourself

[Fakyuol]

In any Relationship, either Married or still in Courtship, there are things you should not tell another person. You never know who will be the Judas over your relationship. There are high secrets you have to keep only to yourself...

1. Don't tell anybody how weak your partner is. Someone may use it against you/them.

2. Don't tell people how much you quarrel with your partner, make them see it as perfect from the outside while you settle issues from the inside.

3. Don't tell even a best friend how much you get as pocket allowance from your husband, if they ask tell them that he's giving more than you expected.

4. Men don't tell your friends how good your wife is in bed, that's a secret between you and your wife.

5. Don't ever tell your mother the way he or she is acting in the marriage, you won't like the outcome if she's a jealous mother-in-law.

6. Ladies, a friend may be eyeing your hubby and that's why you shouldn't tell them what moves him most.

7. Even if your pastor is not worthy to know how many times you quarrel with your husband, most of them will use it as a sermon. Just talk to God alone.

8. Don't tell the children that their father/mother is a bad person. It can make them hate them.

9. Don't tell anybody about your partner's past mistakes, it is too risky for your marriage.

10. Don't tell anyone to try seducing your partner to prove their loyalty. They may end up winning their love. Prevention is better than cure.

 

[Pendaelli]

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Katika Uhusiano wowote, iwe ni Ndoa au bado katika Uchumba, kuna mambo ambayo hupaswi kumwambia mtu mwingine. Huwezi kujua nani atakuwa Yuda juu ya uhusiano wako. Kuna siri kubwa unatakiwa kuziweka kwako tu...

1. Usimwambie mtu yeyote jinsi mwenzako alivyo dhaifu. Mtu anaweza kuitumia dhidi yako/yao.

2. Usiwaambie watu kiasi gani unagombana na mwenza wako, wafanye waone ni kamili kwa nje huku wewe ukisuluhisha maswala kutoka ndani.

3. Usimwambie hata rafiki wa karibu kiasi gani unapata kama posho ya mfukoni kutoka kwa mumeo, akikuuliza mwambie kwamba anatoa zaidi ya ulivyotarajia.

4. Wanaume usiwaambie rafiki zako jinsi mkeo alivyo mzuri kitandani, hiyo ni siri kati yako na mkeo.

5. Usiwahi kumwambia mama yako jinsi anavyofanya katika ndoa, huwezi kupenda matokeo ikiwa ni mama mkwe mwenye wivu.

6. Wanawake, rafiki anaweza kuwa anamtazama mumeo na ndiyo maana hupaswi kumwambia kile kinachomsonga zaidi.

7. Hata kama mchungaji wako hastahili kujua ni mara ngapi unagombana na mumeo, wengi wao watayatumia kama mahubiri. Zungumza tu na Mungu peke yake.

8. Usiwaambie watoto kuwa baba/mama yao ni mtu mbaya. Inaweza kuwafanya wawachukie.

9. Usimwambie mtu yeyote makosa ya mwenzako hapo awali, ni hatari sana kwa ndoa yako.

10. Usimwambie mtu yeyote kujaribu kumtongoza mpenzi wako ili kuthibitisha uaminifu wake. Wanaweza kuishia kushinda upendo wao. Kinga ni bora kuliko tiba.

 

[Powell Gonzalez]

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Katika Uhusiano wowote, iwe ni Ndoa au bado katika Uchumba, kuna mambo ambayo hupaswi kumwambia mtu mwingine. Huwezi kujua nani atakuwa Yuda juu ya uhusiano wako. Kuna siri kubwa unatakiwa kuziweka kwako tu...

1. Usimwambie mtu yeyote jinsi mwenzako alivyo dhaifu. Mtu anaweza kuitumia dhidi yako/yao.

2. Usiwaambie watu kiasi gani unagombana na mwenza wako, wafanye waone ni kamili kwa nje huku wewe ukisuluhisha maswala kutoka ndani.

3. Usimwambie hata rafiki wa karibu kiasi gani unapata kama posho ya mfukoni kutoka kwa mumeo, akikuuliza mwambie kwamba anatoa zaidi ya ulivyotarajia.

4. Wanaume usiwaambie rafiki zako jinsi mkeo alivyo mzuri kitandani, hiyo ni siri kati yako na mkeo.

5. Usiwahi kumwambia mama yako jinsi anavyofanya katika ndoa, huwezi kupenda matokeo ikiwa ni mama mkwe mwenye wivu.

6. Wanawake, rafiki anaweza kuwa anamtazama mumeo na ndiyo maana hupaswi kumwambia kile kinachomsonga zaidi.

7. Hata kama mchungaji wako hastahili kujua ni mara ngapi unagombana na mumeo, wengi wao watayatumia kama mahubiri. Zungumza tu na Mungu peke yake.

8. Usiwaambie watoto kuwa baba/mama yao ni mtu mbaya. Inaweza kuwafanya wawachukie.

9. Usimwambie mtu yeyote makosa ya mwenzako hapo awali, ni hatari sana kwa ndoa yako.

10. Usimwambie mtu yeyote kujaribu kumtongoza mpenzi wako ili kuthibitisha uaminifu wake. Wanaweza kuishia kushinda upendo wao. Kinga ni bora kuliko tiba.

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[kijani11]

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[100 others]

men, dont tell your partner how much you earn/your real salary.
kataa ndoa.