Babe, I am afraid this was never meant to be...

I am so sorry.

Man, you really have taste for music, took liberty to call you music connoisseur.[emoji16]

This one classic song of Whitney Houston reminds me of my first break up [emoji26].
I don't want to spill the beans.

" Where do broken hearts go?

Can they find their home?

Back to the open arms of love that's waiting there?

And if somebody love you, won't they always love you? "

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The situation obviously isn't fun and I am sorry you are going through it in the first place Sis.

Congrats for being matured enough not to villainise him for this. (you are letting him be him without judgment) .
You really should be proud of yourself for handling the situation with so much grace.

Let him go once and for all before you get rant over!! Move on sweetheart like a nigga never existed[emoji123]. Don't worry everyone is replaceable however it takes efforts to replace someone, but you will actually being brave by letting him go for good.
By doing that you are making yourself available for when Mr right comes along.
 
Oooh My Gosh!!!!!!!!!
This gave me tingles and made me tear up. This was such a wonderful thing to read and I am sure she knows this is exactly how you feel about her.
 
Good Lord..!! Babygirl, how am I supposed to answer this fully and blessed words which comes from your loving and caring heart??

I do really appreciate this verily and I mean it, this warmth message find it's own way deep into my heart, A big Amen to that, and i promish that I'll be the super-hearted and strong lady ever happened in the history..!!

Blessed-up mumie, you real know how to cheer up a self pity and a lonely soul, yo real kind..!!
 
If she really mean it then should go for it before it is too late
 
And that 'comparison' is sth which is consuming me inside, will do sth about it babe.!! Much gracias.!!
That is the worst part in moving on but you are bigger than that. You can do better and there is something good in every human being focus on that part.
 
And don't try to replace him. Just search for another being not another man better than him or equally to him.
Don't ghost follow him in social media that is the most hurting part cause if you see him doing 'better' you will try so hard to be better than him and you will never be.
 
Oooh My Gosh!!!!!!!!!
This gave me tingles and made me tear up. This was such a wonderful thing to read and I am sure she knows this is exactly how you feel about her.
Ohhh! Very sorry for that.

I didn't mean to..........

I just thought of saying "something "
 
And don't try to replace him. Just search for another being not another man better than him or equally to him.

I don't think the ultimate solution for her is to find another man.

I think the ultimate solution for her is to fix anything which makes her struggle personally.

if its body issues then she should work on that. Nobody should be afraid to date again, nobody should be afraid to expose their body, just coz their body look a certain way.

You shouldn't go back to the person you used to date just because he's used to your body and makes you feel less judged or makes you feel secure, because that would not be looking for love, that would be looking for a person who finds you bearable/acceptable/tolerable.

A new man can't fix your personal struggles.
 

Oooow, thank you SweetieLee. That's a nice compliment coming from you. And Amen to that.

Remember that, "sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck". So you dodged a dumb bullet and you deserve so much better sis.
I pray that you will find the happiness you deserve.
 
You missing my point king mbappe
Sorry!
 
A broken hearted girl.

Sometimes we face hard times to make us stronger.It might also be a lesson to be in touch and grab what are crucial to us before they are gone.

Get a positive move...
 
what was your point?
She shouldn't be looking for a replacement that doesn't mean she should go back to the ex. Replacement in a way that not to look for the same things or qualities in her next man.
Every person is good in their own way, she can focus on their good parties rather than comparing ex boyfriend and the next.
 

Why do I have feeling that this is for me [emoji848]. I know how yo write “Lee”.
 
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